There is a Q&A on a certain platform. There is no need to analyze who is right or wrong in this storm of Wang Xu. Just one sentence, I would like my daughter to marry Wang Xiaofei . Are you willing your son to marry Big S?
Faced with this introductory question, some supporters of Big S will be silent and subconsciously rejected. Why did it fall to this point? All of us women encourage the following points.
First, feelings are mutual giving, not one-way ticket
Whether it is marriage or love, it is a practice. In the running-in process, we constantly improve ourselves and give each other. Instead of asking for it all the time, never being grateful. The man flies back and forth in a week, seven or eight hours each time, and can last for ten years for ten years, which has surpassed many people.
Love is not a matter of course. It accommodates you to live in your parents' home all year round and buy a house at your parents' home. You should also appreciate his hardships of running back and forth and give back appropriately. Not to mention going to his city to accompany him, I will stay there for at least one time during festivals.
A marriage failure, looking back, there are many details hidden. The man cheats on the wrong side, and the woman should also grow up from a failed marriage so that the next relationship can not repeat the same mistakes.
Second, the theory of men peeling shrimps, it is enough to stop
Big S once said that when eating shrimps, you must let the man peel them, otherwise she will not eat them. This view does not exist right or wrong. It is normal for couples or lovers to have a good relationship with each other.
But this kind of thinking is best not to be derived from other things. Once many things in life are labeled as being made by men, such as drinking water must make men tighten the bottle cap, quarrel must wait for men to coax, and having to let men take care of them after get off work... It is easy to have conflicts.
Eating shrimp should depend more on whether you want to eat it at that time, rather than having to peel it by a man. Those who peel shrimps do not necessarily love you, and those who do not peel shrimps do not necessarily love you.
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Third, age is not a constraint, it is a precipitation
Big S actually has good resources and has great commercial value. She once complained that nowadays, film and television invitations are invited to play her mother, and the most exaggerated invitation to play her mother of Wang Dalu . She was angry and said how to play this?
In fact, it is not the director who lets you play the role of a mother, but the audience cannot accept that you play the role of a girl. At 46 years old, it is impossible to play a young woman forever. A good actor doesn't have this burden. The actress's Wu Yue is ten years older than Wang Kai , but she can play his mother.
, who is the same age as S, Zeng Li, also played the role of mother, and many middle-aged actresses played the role of mother. Real actors will accept the age. If you just want to play the princess, the acting path will definitely become narrower and narrower, and in the end there will be no play to play.
Every woman is the same, accepting herself of every age. Each age has different beauty, thirty, forty, fifty, and even irreplaceable.
Fourth, decency is given by oneself, not others.
Whether it is remarrying or starting a new relationship, you should be cleanly separated from your ex. This is respect for the current person and respect for yourself. If you have children, just talk about children, and if you don’t have children, you will be separated.
The country with the highest status of women, the ex-husband only needs to support her ex-wife until she remarries or finds a job. If you remarry, some things should be stopped reasonably. Swiping your ex-husband’s card to buy things for your new husband. This is not only disrespect for your ex-husband, but also for your new husband.
Decency is given by oneself, not by others. In early December, Da S showed the details of the house purchase, and Wang Xiaofei only posted the details of the order for March and April. To be honest, it was okay for him to endure it for seven or eight months. After changing to many men, he might not be able to hold it for seven or eight days.
Fifth, leave a thread in everything, no one will always spoil you.
The cause of the incident was that Big S sued Wang Xiaofei and instructed the media to arrears of child support. After Wang Xiaofei's emotional output, she clarified that Xiaofei had been paying the child support fee on time, and the media reported it was that the deposit given to the child was not deposited on time.
Public opinion has opened a hole and the more it is exposed, the more it is. In the end, I stopped pretending and ended up in person. After a few rounds, the filter was shattered all over the ground and the image disappeared.
You slap others in the face first, and others will naturally not leave you with face.Stay at the forefront of everything, no one will always be spoiled by you. Each of us is not too absolute in life. Within a reasonable scope, we should blame ourselves with the heart of chasing others and forgive others with the heart of chasing ourselves.
After this, I hope her second marriage will be well managed, her ordinary life will last forever.
Stay at the forefront of everything, no one will always be spoiled by you. Each of us is not too absolute in life. Within a reasonable scope, we should blame ourselves with the heart of chasing others and forgive others with the heart of chasing ourselves.After this, I hope her second marriage will be well managed, her ordinary life will last forever.
