Story: The old man admitted that my monthly pension was 5,000 yuan. Because I was too stingy in three aspects, I became more and more tormented
Uncle Lu is 66 years old this year. It has been 6 years since he retired. When he was young, he lived in the same unit with his wife, so the pension was more than 10,000 yuan for his wife to add to the same amount.
And when my wife and Mr. Lu were young, they devoted most of their energy to work. The wish at that time was to retire one day earlier and then enjoy a happy life.
When Uncle Lu just retired, his life was quite happy, and this goal was finally achieved. After the two woke up, they went to buy groceries and cook, and went for a walk from time to time to buy some dishes they like to eat.
days are also very happy. At noon, you can sleep at home for a while, go to the park to dance in the afternoon, and have to go outside to dance in the evening. This is so happy.
The old couple lives a happy life, and they are much happier than ordinary old men and ladies who don’t have pensions. This is basically what life looks like, and there is no big change, but my wife suddenly passed away.
At that time, my wife died of cerebral congestion. After her wife passed away, Mr. Lu was particularly sad, but Mr. Lu felt that at least he had a pension and his life in his later years was not too difficult.
And Mr. Lu still has a deposit of 200,000 yuan in the bank. What is important is physical and mental health and no major diseases. Therefore, he can support himself and his life will definitely be happier and happier.
But Uncle Lu forgot one thing, that is, if he doesn’t treat himself well, his life will definitely become more and more troublesome. Originally, Uncle Lu was full of various longings for his life, but over the years, Uncle Lu's life has been too miserable.
This aspect of the body is particularly bad, and Mr. Lu often smokes, so it is difficult to quit once he gets infected. At the beginning, he still packs of cigarettes a day, but now he packs of cigarettes a day.
Those old guys asked themselves to go out for dinner, so they followed them and they would definitely drink, so their bodies were almost destroyed when they drank, and they didn’t know how to get home every time they drank.
At the beginning, Mr. Lu also refused, but his friends said, are you looking down on us? That's why he couldn't come out. Mr. Liu had no way to refuse, and his body gradually got drunk.
Uncle Lu is a very kind person. Before, my wife was alive and the money was managed by her husband. But now that my wife has passed away, I spend whatever she wants. The 200,000 yuan she has stored in the bank is spent in an instant.
This friend of Mr. Lu needs to borrow some money, that friend needs to borrow some money, this friend eats wedding noodles, and that friend’s grandson is going to get married, there is no way, all the money is spent.
And Mr. Lu also has a bad habit. He thinks he is too bored, so he likes an entertainment method, which is playing cards. Every morning after dinner, I don’t even wash the bowl and go directly to the chess and card room to play cards.
And it is often a state of losing money in it, and there is no chance to go home to cook, so you have to play cards with others. Because others are good people, if you leave, no one will play this game.
So Mr. Lu spent most of his money on playing cards, so at first I just played casually, but then I couldn't help it. Moreover, more and more money is spent, and all the money I saved before has been lost.
So Mr. Lu’s pension money is basically spent. He was tired of eating pork ribs before, but now he wants to eat pork ribs and think carefully. If you have to buy it, you have to buy it cheap and discounted.
So the 200,000 yuan pension money deposited by Mr. Lu in the bank has been lost long ago. After losing everything, he spent everything, and he completely lost nothing.
The children of Mr. Lu once advised Mr. Lu to be more cautious and not to go out to play with those people, as they might be lying to you. But the old man didn't listen, but he thought his children were lying to him.
The children were persuading here, and Mr. Lu was spending money there. So all this money was spent, and the relationship with your children became worse and worse. You also have your own life, and you just left without listening to advice.
At that time, the old man not only did not listen to them, but he also felt that they were disturbing an old man's retirement life. My children have also advised me, but the final result is not good, and they all do the opposite.
If you encounter some problems, you want these children to help you with advice, but they never take it seriously, and they don’t even come later.
A monthly pension of 5,000 yuan, but life is so sad that the 66-year-old began to regret that he had done too many mistakes in his life.
If I hadn't been listening to my friends' advice often or being deceived by these friends, maybe my life wouldn't have been like this. Now my children ignore me, and my pension has basically been spent. My life is too difficult, and I don’t know what I should do.
In fact, many kind-hearted people have advised Mr. Lu, but the old man has never thought about it, so his children are directly away from him, and friends also feel that he has cut off all contacts from him from afar.
Not only did Mr. Lu not live like everyone envied, but instead made his life in his later years messed up. The more he had, he was so down and out of here, and his life was so sad.
In fact, even though Mr. Lu has a lot of pensions in his hands, his money cannot afford to spend. Even if he is in good health, he does not listen to his children's advice, so his life in his later years is really awkward.
When Uncle Lu’s wife was alive, all the money in the family was under the care of Uncle Lu’s wife, so she basically didn’t worry about life and lived a good life.
But when Uncle Lu died after his wife passed away, the series of things he did were all without a good plan for life. The elderly must have a clear understanding of what they can do and what they cannot do when they get old.
The elderly should develop in a good direction, rather than in a bad direction, making their bodies terrible step by step. If Mr. Lu could have given himself a good plan at the beginning, would he be able to live a very good life now?
Life itself is something you can live by yourself. Whether it is good health or old age, you must be arranged in place, otherwise you will not be able to enjoy it well.
In the end, my life will become a mess, just like Mr. Lu. I have been very happy all my life, but I didn’t expect that when I get old, I will become like this.
