In 2018, 82-year-old Xie Xian proposed a breakup to her girlfriend Coco, who is 49 years younger than her: "Give you 20 million, let's separate."
As soon as this said, Coco instantly cried into tears. She was unwilling to break up and claimed: "I am willing to continue to accompany you. As long as you say one word, I can marry you at any time."
However, Xie Xian still did not agree.
Coco was with Xie Xian when he was 20 years old. They have been in love for 12 years and gave him the best youth.
At that time, she always thought she would enter the marriage hall with Xie Xian, but she never expected that the result was not the case.
What is going on? What exactly happened between Xie Xian and Coco?
1.
Before Xie Xian and Coco met, they were always moisturized by love.
There are 8 siblings in the whole family, Logically speaking, there are so many people in the family, it is difficult for parents to take care of the emotions of each child, but the whole family can pay attention to Xie Xian and prefer him very much.
This is not only because of his luck, but also because of his natural communication skills.
When I was a child, because I didn’t want to follow my parents’ arrangements to study in another place, I convinced my aunt to go to the school founded by my aunt.
Not only that, but later, less than a week after entering the school, Xie Xian became the "little bully" in the school.
He will take the whole class to dance and play pranks in front of the teacher.
At that time, the teacher was very troubled when he saw Xie Xian. Every time he called him in front of him and was about to prepare for education, Xie Xian would say one sentence: "Teacher, you are so beautiful, you will have wrinkles if you are unhappy."
A sentence instantly extinguished all the teacher's anger, so that the topic of education ended before it was discussed.
But there must be school rules in school, and you can’t do it like this every time, so not long after, the school expelled Xie Xian.
It’s a coincidence. During that time, Xie Xian’s family was in trouble.
In desperation, he entered society early and applied for the actor training class.
At that time, Xie Xian was very handsome and was soon selected to star in the movie " Downstairs Bolting Water Throat ", thus entering the entertainment industry.
Later, he starred in "The Return of the Condor Heroes" in 1960, and then directed "Narrow Ladder", "Tomorrow's World", " Iron Revenge ", etc.
In 1978, Xie Xian entered Hong Kong TVB and starred in many large-scale TV series, such as " Xiao Shiyilang ", ",000 waters and mountains are always in love with ", "Snow Mountain Flying Fox", "The Legend of the Dragon and the Dragon", etc., so he won countless awards.
During that time, Xie Xian basically became popular when filming a movie. As long as his name is mentioned, fans will call him "male god".
can get such good resources as soon as he debuted, and can also quickly improve from an actor to a director, and then to the status of a male god in the entertainment industry. shows that Xie Xian relies on not only his rich communication skills.
Perhaps he also has the cool and handsome appearance and the gentlemanly demeanor in his bones.
2.
Since Xie Xian entered the entertainment industry, more than one woman has said: "You can maintain a good friendship after breaking up, maybe only Xie Xian can do it."
Xie Xian's gentlemanly demeanor was discovered by a female star named Jialing .
The two met on a film crew called "The Strange Case of Three Wifes".
At that time, when Carina Cheung saw Xie Xian, she felt that this person was very handsome, but she didn't dare to get close to her.
Because in that era, a saying often circulated: "People who are good-looking are usually fickle."
So Carina immediately dispelled her inner fantasy about Xie Xian.
can be destined to be destined, and it cannot be eliminated.
Once, when Carina was filming, she accidentally hit her ankle by a prop and instantly got a bruise, but in order not to delay the process, she kept enduring it and no one told her.
originally thought that no one noticed Carina's pain.
But who knew that after they finished filming, Xie Xian walked up to her with a bottle of ice water, and then said gently: "Have the pain a little, I will use ice water to apply your ankles."
As soon as he finished speaking, before Carina Lau could react, Xie Xian had already applied the bruises on Carina Lau's ankles with ice water.
At that moment, Carina's heart was inspiring.
In fact, at that time, Xie Xian had a good impression of Carina Lau. Carina Lau was moved by the way, and the two of them were in love.
That's it, they started dating less than a week after they met.
As the saying goes, the more passionate the love at the beginning, the more dull the relationship afterwards.
At first, Xie Xian and Jialing, who were in love, were tired of being together every day. Because they were in the same crew, they only saw each other but no one else.
but after the crew finished filming, Xie Xian and Jialing rarely get along again. Over time, their relationship became alienated.
At that time, Xie Xian did not want to give up this relationship and tried to take the time to accompany his girlfriend.
But some things are not something that can be kept by just working hard.
Just when the relationship between Xie Xian and Carina was in a dull period, a wealthy Thai businessman was pursuing Carina wildly.
In the end, Carina Lau did not resist the gorgeous world outside and broke up with Xie Xian.
0 years of love has been forgotten in the crowd, and Xie Xian felt very disappointed.
He cried bitterly, wanting to save Carina, but he was afraid of disturbing Carina's life. Helplessly, Xie Xian had to take Carina's photo and see the things and think of others.
Perhaps he suffered a serious emotional injury in the first relationship, so Xie Xian has always been able to heal himself.
searched for him and found that only feelings could help him get rid of pain.
So not long after, Xie Xian fell in love with actor Xiao Fangfang .
As the saying goes, it is difficult for people who are not in a good position to have a good result.
Xiao Fangfang and Xie Xian's family conditions are different. She lost her father since childhood and lived in poverty. She was her mother who pulled her up alone.
So she has been grateful since she was a child and is very motivated. She will take on other part-time jobs to make money while filming, with the purpose of giving her mother the best life.
However, Xie Xian is different. He has lived a wealthy life since he was a child, and the whole family favors him very much, so his outlook on life has always been: "Living in the present, not considering anything else."
One plans the future very well, and the other lives in the present freely.
Two people with such different views are destined to be unable to get together.
So not long after, the two broke up.
Two consecutive relationships were in a quagmire. Xie Xian was very unwilling to accept it. He suddenly wanted to have a stable family life and live a good life.
said it soon.
As soon as the idea came, Xie Xian did it immediately.
While filming, he met Qiong Yao girl Zhen Zhen .
At that time, Zhen Zhen looked gentle and gentle, and smiled like a blooming jasmine flower, and her personality was also well-behaved and obedient.
Xie Xian felt that such a girl happened to be her wife, so he launched a gentleman's strategy again and pursued Zhen Zhen crazy.
In that era, how could a girl not like gentlemanly, graceful and heartwarming men?
is no exception, Zhen Zhen fell into Xie Xian's love network.
Zhen Zhen loves Xie Xian very much. Even though her family members disagree with them together, she married Xie Xian desperately.
Similarly, Xie Xian also loves Zhen Zhen very much. Although Xie Xian has a rich love history, he is still serious once he falls in love.
In the marriage, he focused on Zhen Zhen. Every day, in addition to formally asking about his well-being, Xie Xian also remembered all the important festivals between them, and each festival would give Zhen Zhen different gifts.
As long as Zhen Zhen talks about it, Xie Xian will never go west.
Such a loving couple, I originally thought that they would continue to be happy.
But unexpectedly, in less than two years, Zhen Zhen fell in love with the "Godfather of Music" Liu Jiachang .
As a last resort, Zhen Zhen and Xie Xian divorced.
For a long time, Xie Xian has been very dedicated to every girlfriend. Although he has rich love history, he also wants a stable relationship in his heart.
But luck makes people feel bad, and the stable marriage he had been waiting for for a long time was not preserved in the end.
However, this did not repel Xie Xian's yearning for love and marriage.
He is still looking forward to love and looking for his other half.
people, the marriage that should come will always come.
In 1979, Xie Xian and the first Miss Hong Kong champion Deborah became husband and wife.
At that time, many people said that Xie Xian was already numb to love and married Deborah only because of interest.
is not actually the case.
Tsai Xian once said that he and Deborah have a very compatible personality.
Deborah's personality is different from that of Xie Xian's previous girlfriends. She is straightforward and has solved the same day and never delays.
The key is that her outlook on life is also not for the past, not for the future, but for the present, and live in the present.
When dealing with such people, you will inevitably be attracted.
So she soon fell in love and got married, and after marriage, she gave birth to a pair of children, Nicholas Tse and Xie Tingting .
Perhaps it was because of the previous love and marriage. Xie Xian never expected to be at the end of his marriage with Deborah.
As expected, Deborah and Patrick Divorce soon divorced.
But this divorce did not have much impact on Xie Xian.
Because the two have become good friends, they will not be embarrassed when they meet, and they will even laugh and play.
Feel after relationship ended in failure.
After experiencing so many Xie Xian, I finally took it lightly.
He no longer wants marriage, nor is he obsessed with a stable relationship. He just wants to have a good relationship.
Soon, Xie Xian met Coco, who was 49 years younger than him.
3.
The year when I met Xie Xian, Coco was only 20 years old.
At that time, she was just an ordinary model, without fame and without much resources.
Although Coco has a proud figure, she is not appreciated by Bole.
During that time, Coco was involved in major commercial performance circles every day, and he was always in a supporting role on the runway, so his income was naturally not high.
is already under great pressure for work, and I happened to meet my boyfriend and told her to break up, so Coco was very disappointed and came to the bar to buy drunk.
She took a bottle of wine that was very high in the condition, took two sips and went to dance.
This scene happened to be taken into view by Xie Xian not far away.
Perhaps it was the attraction of charm. Seeing Coco go to the dance floor, Xie Xian couldn't help but walk over.
At that time, Xie Xian was dressed very fashionable, with a small braid and a pair of sunglasses. He danced very well, and he couldn't tell that he was almost in his seventies.
"You are cool." Coco looked at Xie Xian beside him and said this casually.
Xie Xian was slightly stunned for a moment, and the string that had been hidden in his heart for a long time was plucked like this.
So he made a decision - to pursue this girl.
Xie Xian, who has experienced the ups and downs of life, is no longer the young boy before. He took the initiative to chat with Coco, and his humorous conversation made Coco laugh constantly. After chatting with
, Xie Xian gently asked Coco: "Do you feel better?"
In just a moment, Coco suddenly realized that his bad mood had long disappeared without a trace with Xie Xian's arrival.
Coco was very moved by Xie Xian. The two exchanged contact information and maintained close contact.
I have to say that Xie Xian is really amazing. In less than three days, Coco loved him.
At that time, Coco was always fantasizing in his heart whether he would become the other half of this man in the future?
Later, when Coco hesitated when he learned that this man was 49 years older than her and was the big star Xie Xian.
First of all, it is the issue of age difference. One is 69 years old, the other is 25 years old, and the other is 49 years old. This can be her grandfather.
followed by a question of status. Xie Xian is famous in the entertainment industry, and his son Nicholas Tse is even more popular.
Not only did she not enter the entertainment industry, but she was always in a state of being light in the modeling industry. If she is not matched like this, she will inevitably be talked about.
So when Xie Xian confessed to Coco, Coco was very panicked and didn't know how to answer.
How could Xie Xian, who has been through the battlefield for a long time, not be able to see Coco's concerns? He solved it in one sentence.
Xie Xian asked Coco: "Do you like me?"
Coco nodded. She likes Xie Xian very much. Although there is a big age difference between them, there is no problem with communication.
"Since you like it, let's live the present and let us enjoy our current life. As for the sounds outside, please feel at ease."
Xie Xian's chic attitude surprised Coco.
It is not wrong to love someone, and there is no need to cover it up at all.
That's it, Coco was persuaded by Xie Xian and the two started dating.
In the eyes of outsiders, Xie Xian may be fickle, but he has never hurt anyone.
If you are in love, then have a good chat. After falling in love with Xie Xian, Coco became the jewel in his hand.
Whether you are attending events or going out for a trip, Xie Xian will take her with her.
In 2005, Xie Xian personally announced his relationship with Coco.
At that moment, countless criticisms came to them.
Some people say that the man is old and old, some people say that the woman is with Xie Xiancai for money, and some people question that they will definitely not be in love for a long time.
No matter how many criticisms there are outside, Xie Xian and Coco never cared about it.
They boldly show their love in front of outsiders, and hugging and holding hands is the norm.
At that time, there was a reporter who specialized in Coco: "Do you really like Xie Xian? What do you think of this man who is 49 years old than you?"
This question is very sharp. After Xie Xian heard this, he took the lead and protected his girlfriend behind him.
Then he told reporters very domineeringly: "We are in love with you. If you have any questions in the future, ask me. Don't ask my girlfriend, she is not a person in the circle."
Protect your girlfriend in front of outsiders, and in front of your family, Xie Xian will personally introduce her to his children.
In the 12 years of love, Xie Xian gave almost all his love to Coco.
Of course, Coco will also give love to Xie Xian.
Coco knew that Xie Xian had experienced two failed marriages and suffered serious love injuries, so she told Xie Xian: "I want to marry you, I want to be with you forever, and stay with you with the most sincere love."
Hearing this sentence, Xie Xian was very moved, but he refused.
At that time, Xie Xian was 82 years old and was already considered an elderly person.
He told Coco:
"I never thought of having a woman as good as you in my life. If I could meet you earlier and be younger, I would definitely marry you. But I am old now, and you are still young and have a great life, I can't delay you."
After saying this, Xie Xian asked his son for 20 million to call Coco, and proposed to break up.
If it were placed 12 years ago, Coco might have left with 20 million without hesitation.
But at this moment, she didn't want to, she just wanted to be by Hercules.
Coco was reluctant to leave and asked Xie Xian in tears: "I gave you all my youth and I also want to leave the rest of my time for you. Can we not break up?"
Xie Xian refused. After all, he still didn't want to drag Coco down.
Before breaking up, Xie Xian told Coco that if there are any difficulties in the future, he would come to him or his son Nicholas Tse and would help him no matter what.
That's it, the lovers of 12 years separated.
Times have changed, and Coco is now 37 years old. Although she and Xie Xian are no longer lovers, they have become good friends.
But the gap between friends and lovers still exists.
Coco who left Xie Xian almost appeared alone on the street, looking lonely, as if she had a lot of light missing.
, and since she broke up with Coco, she has not been in love again. He lives alone in a villa by the beach, listening to music and dancing, and enjoying the joy of family.
What is the best love?
is a good match or a dedicated effort?
is not actually.
The best love is the love in each other's hearts.
Xie Xie loves Coco, so he is willing to cut off his love for her future.
Coco loves Xie Xian, so he has to be with him despite any strange eyes from the outside world.
Perhaps in the eyes of many people, Xie Xian is just a playboy, but we find that Xie Xian is just a rich love history. As long as he is in love, he will definitely work hard to contribute to the other party and will not hurt the other party.
Once, Xie Xian was commented on this: Xie Xian is the best witness of Hong Kong entertainment in half a century. His life is extremely exciting and rich, cynical but clear principles, open-minded and highly valued appearance. He is a typical example of the older generation of artists.
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