We often hear a saying that, do not persuade others to be good without the suffering of others.
When we cannot empathize and understand a person's pain, don't comment. Only you know the pain and tears that everyone has endured.
There was a colleague who worked hard to do his job, but things went against his wishes. Although it was not caused by his reasons, the result was that he "screwed things."
This colleague tried to tell others that he had been working all night long to do this, and turned down the date in order to do this, and he was late for his parents' surgery...
, but there was no way, everyone was just watching the ending. No matter how much you explain it, it is regarded as shirking responsibility.
Recently, watching the TV series " Bottom Line ", Fang Yuan sentenced a divorce case because the child's mother promised that if the child said he was willing to follow him, he would take the child to Disney. So the child lied.
The custody of the child belongs to Fang Yuan, who is the mother, because of the child's lies, the judgment of respecting the child's wishes becomes a mistake. The final second instance was changed, and the custody of the child belongs to the father.
A judge, a big man, can't figure out why the child lied to him no matter how he did. He threw himself into his wife's arms and even cried. However, the next day, he still had to cheer up and continue working.
Yes, we don’t need to tell others about the hardships of our lives, because others cannot truly understand you without the same experience as you.
The ups and downs are life, and the bumps are life. Many of the bends that we could not get around at that time, and the uneven heartache gradually dissipated as time goes by.
The bitterness at that time, the tears shed, the inability to think about it at that time, and then I realized that it was like a wisp of blue smoke, not worth mentioning.
Time is the best way to heal. If you really can’t face it or can’t bear it, try to take a detour. Some pain and some suffering can only be recovered slowly, and I can't be anxious.
detour is not a failure, it is just a different method to find a reason to persist. Wipe your tears, don’t complain, just walk on step by step.
Terrible and painful, don’t cry, you really empathize with it, no one will even take the initiative to lend a helping hand, but instead your pain will become a topic of conversation after dinner.
There will always be one or another unwillingness in life. If you survive the sufferings of life, you will win. Maybe at the next corner, you will meet hope.
Many times, when we face difficulties, we always want to stop. Because giving up is much easier than persistence.
But only when you walk out of the quagmire and find the focus of your life breakthrough, will the suffering be broken down bit by bit.
Don’t say anything about pain or pain. You must always walk your own path in life. If you stagnate in difficulties, you may only be able to keep yourself low forever and never have the chance to turn over again.
No one understands it, it doesn’t matter; no one hurts it, it doesn’t matter. Put your grievances in your heart, slowly digest your worries, and stay away from those who read jokes and false things. Lick the wounds, wipe away the tears, and you will win if you survive.
A person’s pain and tears can only be borne by himself, so please remember that you must be kind to yourself.
The hurt smile, the strength after the pain, the smile full of tears, after trying a lot, I felt relieved.
Our strength is not for others, but for the pain and tears we have endured into the greatest wealth in our lives. Everyone has a different life trajectory. As long as you step through it, it will be a training and a growth.
Suffering is the best teacher, but don’t forget that when moving forward with suffering, remember to give yourself enough gentleness and care.
Don’t be very demanding of yourself, don’t be nervous and write all the pain on your face. Less anxious, not sad, and truly care about your own feelings.
people's life is nothing more than a process, and no one can reach the end effortlessly.Remember not to trade health and mentality for success. Nothing is more important than yourself.
Three thousand prosperity, in the blink of an eye, a hundred years later, it returns to dust. The most important thing is why you live and how you want to live.
Let go of the hurdle that cannot be overcome, and don’t think about it in advance if you can’t figure it out. It’s not giving up, but just giving yourself a chance to breathe. The more mature we are, the more we will understand that happiness cannot depend on others, and loving ourselves is a compulsory course in life.
Accept yourself, learn to heal yourself, and know how to act within your ability in life, which is wisdom. If you can't walk, just change your path, care about it thousands of times, be persistent, and be at ease.
Only those who know how to love themselves can love others appropriately. The future is long, and it is worth it to work hard to pursue a better life. It is worth it to learn to love yourself well.
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The world is so big, thank you, you can see me!
[Written | Weiwei'an: The pen has warmth and speaks for emotion. An atypical writer who loves words invites you to perceive life together]
