Choose friends is the most critical thing in life. Whether a person’s life is successful or failure is closely related to whether the friends he makes outstanding talents and good character. Therefore, we must be cautious when choosing friends!
The military strategist in the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period Sun Bin was punished for his careless friendship. He believed in Pang Juan too much and was punished by bride. After being removed from the kneecap several times, he escaped the bad luck. Although the revenge was successful in the future, the price Sun Bin paid was terrible, and Sun Bin's experience was touching.
Zeng Guofan said: Choosing friends is the essence of every life. The success or failure of a lifetime is all about the wiseness of a friend, and you must be careful.
Famous people and make friends with each other, water flowers and roots" makes us realize that true friends are not only like-minded, but also warm and strength to encourage them to move forward and inspire them to improve. Now many people think they can eat, drink and have fun with them, and they have similar interests, so they make friends with them, call them brothers and brothers, and treat them as their close friends, and say, "Save blessings together, and be together when they are in trouble!" ” But I don’t know if they will harm themselves. In fact, it is true that they say “good luck is shared”. As for the difficulties, they stay out of their way and ignore anything. Even if you are my brother, there is no love to tell.
Mr. Wang is the only son in the family and is highly favored. After the New Year Q and the pocket Q on weekdays, it has been saved for more than 20,000 yuan. My parents thought that my son would spend Q to go to college, so they applied for two credit cards for Zhang, which was kept by Zhang himself. Half a year ago, by chance, Zhang met an unemployed young man in society nicknamed "Second Son". As a result, "Second Son" often made excuses to borrow money from Wang, and borrowed nearly 20,000 yuan from Wang 15 times in half a year, and even the mobile phone borrowed by Wang was forcibly taken away.
Until Wang really couldn’t take it out , in desperation, when reaching out to your parents,
does not cooperate with people with negative energy, because they will consume your positive energy. Do not cooperate with people without life principles, because they believe that earning benefits is the principle of life. Do not cooperate with people without gratitude, because ungrateful people will inevitably be unrighteous.
birds of a feather flock together, people are divided into groups, and circles are different. Don’t force yourself to integrate. Only like-minded friends can be friends. Of course, it is very happy to have like-minded friends coming from afar. It is certainly a very happy thing to be recognized by others and discuss with like-minded people.
"The Analects of Confucius. Yongye": "Zi Ri: 'Above people, you can speak the word above; below the middle, you can not speak the word above. "
Four friends to make in life
1. Make a friend who appreciates you. Even when you are poor, it will comfort and help you more.
2. Make a friend with positive energy and accompany you when you are in a low mood. Encourage you.
3. Make a friend who leads the way for you, volunteer to be your stepping stone, take you through the mud and clear away the fog.
4. Make a friend who is willing to give advice, remind you and supervise you, and let you always discover your shortcomings.
When choosing a friend, it is most important to analyze that person himself, rather than analyze his family, career, and wealth. Because of the factors behind it, as long as this person is reliable, it will become better with his future. Therefore, you must understand human nature very well in order to pick reliable friends!
