Learn to say "no"! Then your life will be much better.
﹣American comedy master Chaplin
Generally speaking, in order to ensure the smooth progress of social activities, do not say "no", but this does not mean that you cannot say "no". Many times, saying "no" is the only solution. It is not a social way to treat others against your will and not want to refuse directly. At this time, if you know the skills of rejection, it will no longer be a difficult problem.
() means "no" with silence. For example, if a person you don’t like invites you to participate in certain activities, you may not reply to this invitation to express your rejection.
(2) means "no" by procrastination. For example, a girl receives an invitation call from a boy she doesn't like to have dinner together. In order to achieve the purpose of rejection, she will not be too sad about her feelings. She can say, "I'm not available today, let's go in the future!"
(3) uses shirkness to mean "no". For example, if someone wants to do something with you, but you are reluctant, you can say, "I'm sorry, I want another important date. Can I do it another day?"
(4) means "no" by avoidance. For example, if someone asks you, "Do you like martial arts movies?" If you don't like it, you can answer, "I prefer lyric movies."
(5) means "no" with kindness. For example, when someone gives you a gift and you cannot accept it, you can politely refuse: one is to say polite words; the other is to express flattery and dare not accept it.
(6) says "no" in diplomatic rhetoric. When encountering questions that you don’t know or are unwilling to answer in interpersonal communication, you can also use the most commonly used excuses from diplomats, "no advice".
