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I am 33 years old this year, I have been married for seven years, my child is five years old, and my semi-final mother.
My husband often goes out for work. Recently, I accidentally discovered that there are hotel and hotel consumption orders in my husband's clothes.
After some secret investigation, I learned the truth: the fees for my husband to go to prostitution.
I was really broken. After marriage, in order to take care of my children, I found a job near my home.
In order to make my husband work harder to support my family, I took care of all the big and small things at home by myself.
includes the child’s household registration, getting sick, picking up and dropping off in kindergarten, tutoring homework at night, three meals a day,
decoration, moving a new house, and in-laws hospitalization, etc., I didn’t make my husband worry.
Relatives and friends all praised me for being virtuous, but unexpectedly, this was the result.
I cried and made a fuss,
My husband pulled me,
A careless talk to me: You are the mother of the child, you are responsible for taking care of the child,
I am responsible for making money, and I give money every month,
You spend as much as you like. As for the women outside, they are used for entertainment and relaxation.
Moreover, you go to work during the day, ask for homework at night, and take care of the family's trivial matters.
is so busy that you can't wait to fall asleep as soon as you lie down.
doesn't have time to serve me? I don't want you to deal with it more at night.
doesn't this reduce your "work" amount?
Besides, you are not as professional as women outside
Don’t worry, I won’t get a divorce, you will always be the only one on my marriage certificate . "
I slapped him,
My husband shook his head and left.
I have to rely on sleeping pills to fall asleep these days,
I have to rely on sleeping pills to fall asleep,
I can't help but cry. When I meet such a man, I feel that my life is so hard.
If I just got married and have no children,
I will definitely break it with him without saying a word, but now there are old people and young people, so I can't think twice before thinking.
Even if I try to transfer the house to my name when dividing property, my meager salary is not enough to pay the mortgage,
not to mention other expenses for parents and children.
Although parents can support their parents, their aging bodies must also support their income.
has no room for improvement in their work.
. Now that the epidemic is happening, a leader will listen to second-hand rumors. What should I do if I lose my job in
?
If I don’t divorce, it will be disgusting to think about it every day. is even more afraid that I will get used to in the future.
I really feel sad the more I think about it. What should I do?
Man
? l1Hello Man:
Every time I see this kind of consultation, I feel very sad.
I want to tell you that you are uncomfortable because you lack three kinds of ruthlessness.
1. Punish his ruthlessness.
You did not shock him, and did not let him know that
prostitution is a wrong behavior, it has nothing to do with having money or not,
what is wrong is wrong. Exposure him and let all relatives and friends know what he did,
don't do it. Don't I think this is the child's father, and he can do it for the sake of the child to endure this tone. Why should we women take care of the overall situation?
people should be kind but also have minions. He is your husband. If you don't make mistakes, you should treat him well. If you make mistakes, you will have to pay the price.
A while ago, there was a male star Li Yifeng . He was not married and solicited prostitution.
was arrested. From then on, the acting career has come to an end. What are you afraid of?
2. The ruthlessness of leaving.
Because of children and the elderly, you don’t have the courage to leave. You consume yourself every day.
Your husband also likes you for your weakness and will definitely fight you with shameless long talk.
In their eyes, as long as they have money, women are tools, a tool to satisfy their selfish desires, and
A tool that can take care of children and continue their incense.
You can only turn a blind eye to endure these ridiculous behaviors in the future.
Leaving is not a divorce.
divorce should be measured to make the choice in your best interests.
3. Independent and fierce.
This is a very realistic question, and it may also be a question that most women have to worry about whether to leave and punish.
I have repeatedly reiterated that life is about living for yourself. Whether you get married or not, or whether you want to become a full-time mother,
must have the ability to continue to grow and make money continuously,
Your confidence comes from your own savings,
Make money well and become a rich woman,
of course, it is not to keep your skin and tender flesh that you raise, and to see others' faces and eat youthful life.
is like Minglan , which has a real estate shop in hand and can go where you want to go.
will not reduce the quality for the people around you.
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I hope everyone can choose the right person, and life will be forever.
