I was really a little confused when I heard this comment for the first time. I didn’t even know that there was such a husband-and-wife relationship, so I really asked the proposer for advice.
"This kind of relationship has been maintained for many years, making everyone think that they are harmonious and happy, but in fact they are showing their love outside and becoming sworn brothers when they go home."
What she said makes me unable to refute. Think carefully, there are really many such phenomena in life.
These words made me feel a little enlightened. When entering marriage, everyone goes in two directions, with longing and expectation, always thinking that they can live happily.
At the beginning of the marriage, one family, two people, three meals, all the same as you and me, making each other feel happy.
After experiencing a sweet period and entering the running-in period, several happy and sad situations emerged. Especially after adding a small divine beast to the house, the style of painting began to vary.
Life begins to be mixed with children's eating, drinking, defecation, and sleep. Both of them feel that they are no longer as good as they were before, but instead have caused many troubles and disputes.
One is to take care of children in a hurry, live and work, and has already completed the upgrade of 5G; the other is to work alone, get off work, play with your mobile phone, or run 4G.
After finally till three years, the divine beast entered the kindergarten. In a blink of an eye, it was elementary school, junior high school, and high school. When they entered the university gate, they found that they had entered the ranks of five.
In these twenty years, some people have become masters in managing their lives and careers, with successful careers and happy lives.
More people are polished by life changes so that they are gone without the fantasies they were from before. The more full the ideals are, the more skinny the reality is.
Marriage is a haha mirror. The person in his eyes (her) once made a vow to make a vow to the city of marriage and unknowingly became a brother.
When people reach middle age, they still need to do face-saving projects in front of others. It seems that the husband and wife are harmonious and the family is happy. In fact, it is like drinking cold water after a person, and they know the cold and warmth.
Perhaps, when a person reaches middle age, the relationship between husband and wife has long become like what Ye Gong Haolong ends. When he sees each other, his heart feels all kinds of feelings, only you can experience it.
This view was actually told by an eight-year-old Niu Niu. She called this middle-aged husband-wife relationship the Ye Gong Haolong model.
It seems that the child’s eyes are bright. In her eyes, I also live my life without realizing it like Ye Gong’s good dragon.
In real life, after twenty years, how many people are winners in life, and how many middle-aged people are living Ye Gong Haolong’s husband-wife model?
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