I recently saw a sentence like this: "Time comes, we will finally let go, live happily, and be busy properly is the best life."
When we were young, we might not understand the true meaning of this sentence, but only when we reach a certain age will we understand that this sentence is actually the best encouragement to us.
After people reach a certain age, they need to learn to let go. After middle age, they must understand one thing, that is, do not be affectionate.
The more a woman loves you, the more she will torture you and will keep sticking to you, because a woman is mature from the beginning.
But in the end, I became more and more naive because of loving you. The reason for this is because this woman lacks a sense of security in a relationship, because this woman has a strong possessiveness for you and is also afraid of losing you.
If you meet such a woman in real life, then you must learn to cherish it, because some people will no longer be missed.
Men and women have different love. Men are more rational and women are more emotional. Therefore, when facing feelings, they will have different opinions. However, once a person reaches middle age, he actually doesn’t have so much time to spend on feelings.
In a relationship, the reason why the two people are separated is very simple. One cannot change it, the other cannot tolerate it. The future is too long and bother each other.
This tells us that in a relationship, we must learn to be tolerant of each other so that love can last forever.
Any relationship is actually just a meeting in the end. When you have too high requirements for each other, your relationship will also become very tired. If your relationship is not happy in a relationship, then learning to give up is also a kind of wisdom.
Middle-aged people often experience these pressures when facing life.
01.
The pressure of supporting parents and children
After people reach middle age, they experience the ups and downs of life, so at this time, they will have more sense of responsibility.
Once you enter middle age, you will basically have old people and young people, and many people are also in the rising period of their careers, so the economic pressure will naturally be great.
At this time, if you put too much energy on a relationship, you will naturally be unable to bear it.
02.
Emotional pressure
Emotion is actually what everyone desires in real life, but a good relationship is often not the efforts of anyone. When people reach middle age, they must learn to make choices. When facing those people and things that are not worth it, we must learn to give up and put more time and energy into ourselves, which is far more reliable than you pay attention to others.
When people reach middle age, they must learn to reduce expectations for all kinds of things in real life, because there is a saying that says: "If you don't want anything, you will return with a full load."
When your expectations decrease, your desires will decrease. At this time, it will be easy to get a good result. When you don't expect, life will be smooth.
When you don’t have so much desire for many things in your heart, you won’t be sad because of anything.
With a willing attitude, live a life that goes with the flow, and your life will become more harmonious and beautiful.
When we were young, when we were in love, we might desire to be vigorous and vigorous, but when we reached a certain age and faced love again, what we thought of was that it would only be happiness in plainness.
Some people like you because they see the light in your crowd, but some people like you because they see your embarrassment and anxiety, so they want to protect you well.
After middle age, don’t be moved casually, because at this time, we need to understand that suitability is more important than liking. Even if a person with good character loves you five points later, your happiness will continue to improve.
Because a person with good character must have responsibility and responsibility. Such a person will not hurt you, and will not morally kidnap you.
Even when there are disputes and conflicts between you, he will not hurt your dignity, because the innate upbringing does not allow him to do so.
After reaching middle age, people should live clearly and not live in a mess. Feelings are not fun. When you fall in love with someone, you must learn to take this responsibility. A truly mature middle-aged person will not choose someone because of his impulse.
The matter of love is not a temporary freshness. There is a sentence in "Sequences of Flowers": "When you let go of prejudices and disguise, no longer worry and desire, your heart is truly open."
is actually beautiful in real life. This sentence tells us that sometimes you should not make things difficult for yourself, and the same is true in a relationship. As an adult, you must learn to love yourself well, don't pay attention to the lives of others too much, and don't be too moved, because when you care too much about a relationship, your life will be disrupted.
