The husband cheated three times, and the original wife successfully resolved. Why will there be a fourth time?
Extramarital affair is never completely ended by separation of mistresses. Mid-three can be replaced. As long as a man still has the intention to cheat, the extramarital affair cannot be ended!
Some time ago, an original wife came to Lan Fang and said that this was her fourth time cheating on her husband.
She successfully solved the previous three times by herself, but this time, she chose to come to the Blue Party.
But before talking about the situation and solving the problem, she wants to test the blue side.
She asked the Blue Party a question, do you know why she chose to come to the Blue Party this time.
Lan Fang asked her directly, did she realize that the key point in solving an extramarital affair is cheating on a man?
As long as this man still has the intention to cheat, it will be in vain for many mistresses you have solved.
Men will still cheat all the time, and mistresses will keep appearing. It is impossible for you to waste time with mistresses all the time. The original wife of
said that she only woke up this time and might have used the wrong method before.
After her husband cheated, she was thinking about separation from the mistress and did not pay attention to the cheating man at all.
On the one hand, it is because her husband always admits his mistakes and apologizes for forgiveness after being discovered.
So this original wife always feels that her husband really repents and will not continue to cheat.
On the other hand, her husband cooperated with the mistress, making her feel that her husband doesn't care about the mistress.
Most original wives have a strange mind, and men care more about their original wives, and their blame for cheating men will be reduced.
So many cheating men will take advantage of this and are happy to create such an illusion for their original wife.
After being discovered with an extramarital affair, he betrayed the mistress, blamed the mistress, and even took the initiative to attack the mistress in exchange for the forgiveness of the original wife.
So in the process of resolving extramarital affairs, the first thing Blue Party did was to help the original wife get out of these misunderstandings.
First of all, a man has a good attitude towards admitting his mistakes after cheating, not because he really wants to return.
A cheating man has a good attitude towards admitting his mistake, just to avoid conflicts with him due to extramarital affair and avoid paying the price.
Secondly, the cheating man cooperates with the mistress to solve the problem, not because he cares more about the original wife.
He is not helping the original wife solve the problem, but helping him clean up the mess himself.
Finally, solving the mistress does not mean that the extramarital affair is over. Only when a man does not want to cheat again can the problem be truly solved.
Why do many original wives get cheated again after they are separated from mistresses? It is because they only target mistresses and do not consider the factor of cheating on men.
always feels that my husband cheated because of the mistress’ seduction, but ignores that the man does not want to cheat. The mistress cannot force the man to cheat.
All extramarital affairs are love for men and mistresses, so extramarital affair, cheating on men is the key factor to solve the problem.
Next is to help the original wife and completely resolve the extramarital affair.
First of all, the original wife wants to overturn the inherent impression of her by cheating man.
This impression was left by the cheating man three times before, the original wife's treatment method, the attitude shown, and the cheating man.
A cheating man will feel that his original wife will not divorce because of an extramarital affair, and as long as he admits his mistake, he will believe it.
He helps the original wife solve the mistress, and the original wife will completely forgive him.
Because of this impression, a cheating man feels that extramarital affair is easily forgiven and there is no price yet, so he will naturally continue to cheat.
The original wife must overturn this impression. This time the man admits his mistake, and the original wife ignores the cheating man.
He took the initiative to break up with the mistress. When the mistress was entangled, he counterattacked the mistress, and the original wife should not show tolerance for the cheating man.
, but he is firm in his attitude and cannot accept extramarital affairs. He directly collects evidence and consults a lawyer to make a divorce.
should use practical actions to overturn the impression of the cheating man about his original wife, so that the cheating man dare not touch the original wife.
Secondly, make the cheating man pay the price for extramarital affair.
The reason why this man keeps cheating is because every extramarital affair is successfully resolved.
He didn't pay any price. When he wanted to cheat, he enjoyed his extramarital affair with his mistress.
When the original wife was discovered by her, she would not do anything to him, and even help clean up the mess.
Because there is no cost and the cost of making mistakes is extremely low, we will keep making mistakes.
This time, the original wife must make the cheating man pay the price, and even pay a little for her previous extramarital affair.
is like this case. The original wife went to find a mistress in private as she suggested. Money seduced the mistress.
asked the mistress to report the cheating man in real name system, and made the cheating man pay the price for extramarital affair.
After being discovered because of an extramarital affair, the cheating man will abandon the mistress.
The mistress did not get any benefits and was also very resentful to the cheating man. The original wife gave him the benefits, so the mistress was naturally willing to take the opportunity to take revenge on the cheating man.
Finally, the original wife must be intimidating to the cheating man.
Why didn’t the original wife report the cheating man by herself, and she also gave the mistress money to let the mistress go.
is to give the original wife a handle for cheating a man and it is a deterrent to cheating a man.
Compared with the mistress who reported cheating on the man, the evidence of the man cheating on the original wife is more comprehensive.
A man who cheated on him was reported by a mistress and paid the price. He knew that someone had reported it and he had to bear the consequences.
Only then will he be afraid of the evidence in the hands of the original wife, and he is afraid that the original wife will also report it, so that the original wife can be intimidating to the cheating man.
Many people may question that this man cheated four times, why did the original wife not divorce?
The original words of this original wife are that because her husband has money at home, she only has her husband and only one child.
She has a son and a daughter with the cheating man, and even if she has no feelings for the cheating man, she has given up.
will not get divorced, because divorce will not only affect her herself, but also the child.
The conditions of her husband, if you want to get married again, it is not difficult to have a child. Even though you know that he cheated, many women are willing to marry him and have children for him.
She divorced, the cheating man remarried, and had other children, and had stepmother and stepfather.
The inheritance rights of her children are worrying in the future. In this society, there are too few people who can live well without relying on their parents. She doesn’t want her children to blame her in the future.
At the end of the article, the blue party reminded the original wife again, whether an extramarital affair can be completely resolved is that the key point is to cheat on a man.
The original wife was cheated and didn't want to divorce. She needed to separate the mistress, but she couldn't just separate the mistress, but she also started with the cheating man.
increases the cost of men cheating, making men pay the price for cheating, and at the same time seize the handle of cheating men. Only by
can we ensure that men dare not cheat easily and can we completely resolve extramarital affairs.
If you encounter an extramarital affair and don’t know what to do, you can follow the Blue Party and send a private message to talk about your situation.
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