A true soul mate is the person who can see the fire in your heart.
There will inevitably be differences in the world of love. As long as your world is open to each other, you can see the fire in each other's heart.
I have seen too many couples, and from the sweet life of the two after marriage, they gradually became a roommate relationship. They were obviously lying in the same bed, but they seemed to be separated from the Milky Way. They no longer wanted to please, nor did they have the motivation to explore, and they felt that love had turned into family affection. I will even tell you that you are in love now and are closer than love.
This kind of relationship has lost its meaning of companionship. For this family and children, I endure it. I don’t think this kind of marriage is happy, but most people think it’s okay. I often hear people say that anyone who lives with will live like this. After the passion fades, the two of them are left with trivial matters in life.
What I yearn for is what I yearn for. What I can become depends on whether both of them exert their efforts. But I think there will inevitably be differences in the world of love. As long as your world is open to each other, you can see the fire in each other's heart. As long as you can see that fire, life and life will be prosperous and lively. Love is love. It can have family affection, but it cannot become family affection and there will be no love.
Is it important to have a common topic between a couple or a couple? It is important and not that important. Even if there is no common topic, both parties can possess each other like a detector to explore each other. Too many ways to get two people close depends on whether you want it or not. Of course, having a common topic will make the two more intimate.
Just like when we like someone, we will search on various social platforms, including the stars they like, the things they like, the food they like, etc. Find various topics to understand and get close to it because you have that fire in your heart, but why do you extinguish the fire in your heart after getting married?
Don’t turn love into family affection or friendship. In your love, there can be family affection and friendship, but more should be love. Keep this fire inextinguishable, and your marriage will be better and longer.
