"The Analects of Confucius. Yongye" says: "Don't take off your anger, don't make mistakes again."
The stupidest thing in the world: getting angry.
people live their whole lives and things are unpredictable.
is just punishing yourself with other people’s mistakes or your own.
Instead of wasting time angry, it is better to make yourself live happier.
Why are you angry?
" Zhuangzi·Exterior Chapter·Zhibei Travel " says: "Life between heaven and earth, like a flash of white horses, suddenly."
Life, a short life, soon passed.
There is a story like this:
One day, a young man came to the Zen master for advice and said, "Master, I am an irritable person. Someone once warned me that being a human should not be like this, but I was born like this. I have developed a habit over the years and cannot control my anger. Master, is there any way to help me correct my temper?"
Zen master said righteously: "You give me your inner irritability and anger, I have a way to correct it."
The young man smiled and said, "I haven't encountered any unsatisfactory things now, so why would I become impatient all the time?"
Zen master laughed: "You also know that people are not always impatient. So why did you say that it is your nature? Since it is not nature, that is, your impatientness is not born with things, but you can't control your impatientness, so it is said that it is nature, it is purely an excuse that you can't control yourself."
After hearing this, the young man seemed to have some insight.
" Huangdi Neijing " says: "All diseases are caused by qi."
people have been in vain in their lives.
Since life is limited, why should you fill it with anger?
There are always eight or nine things that are not satisfied with, and you won’t be angry, and you will be better for your own health.
Take things lightly, and be calm and peaceful.
Getting angry is a stupid thing
As the saying goes, "When things are urgent, things change, things are slow, things are round."
Being angry is never the only way to solve the problem. Instead, being angry just keeps going, will only make the incident out of control.
In ancient times, an old woman always quarreled with her neighbors over trivial matters.
One day, she traveled a long distance to find a famous monk. After listening to her story. Take her to a meditation room, lock the door and leave.
The old woman shouted but no one responded, and she was so angry that she cursed. After a long time, the old woman began to kneel down and beg, but no one responded, and she began to remain silent.
An hour passed, and the monk came outside the door and asked, "Are you still angry?"
"I am only angry about myself, why do I come to this place to get angry?" said the old woman.
"How can someone who can't even forgive me for your own forgive others!" The monk left with his sleeves.
An hour passed again, and the monk came outside the door again and asked, "Are you still angry?"
The old woman replied, "I won't be angry anymore. No matter how angry I am, I can't let me open the lock outside the door."
The monk left again.
When the monk came outside the door for the third time, the old woman told him: "Master, I will never be angry anymore, because it is not worth it at all."
The monk smiled and said, "You still know if it is worth it, I believe there is still anger in my heart."
The sunset was setting, and the monk came to the meditation room again. The old woman asked, "Master, what is the energy? ”
The monk opened the lock, picked up the teapot on the table, and sprinkled the tea on the ground. The old woman looked at it for a while, suddenly realized and thanked her for leaving.
"Zengguang Xianwen" says: "Rebuke yourself for your own heart, and forgive yourself for your own heart. "
What is the second half of my life worth getting angry?
Anger, it’s worthless. Instead of being angry, it’s better to be brave.
Life is happy, just be calm.
When you let go, everything will be fine.
Conclusion
Feng Zikai once said: "Since there is nowhere to escape, it is better to be happy; since there is no Pure Land, it is better to be quiet; since there is no wish, it is better to be relieved. "
In this life, everything else is a trivial matter except life and death.
Whether you are happy or angry, days will always pass day by day.
Be less angry, live every day happily; don't be angry, live every day happily.
for the rest of my life, please be kind to yourself and no longer get angry.
* Author: Wu Tang. A "comedian" who is moving against the current and a permanent guest of "talk show". He is always crazy in life and often bury himself in the corner. He has no ability and ranks among the top in communication skills. If you have a chance in this life, remember to drink tea together!
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