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There are always people who say that women are prone to "love brain" and their IQ will be reduced as soon as they meet love.
But in fact, men are the same. Although most men look much more stable and rational than women, if boys like someone, they will foolishly do some abnormal behaviors.
Because when one person falls in love with another person sincerely, he cannot control himself, it is an inadvertent instinct.
Of course, the same is true if you don’t love someone. Even if you deliberately show your love, you will be exposed over time.
Women like to listen to sweet words, so men like to say them too.
Sweet words are also one of the indispensable rituals between men and women.
It’s a pity that it’s easy to learn to say sweet words, but sincere expressions become valuable.
A man who is truly good to you will reflect love in details, and among these many details, the chat method is the most representative.
If a man often talks with you in the following ways, then don’t lie to yourself anymore. He may just want to be fresh and does not have much affection for you.
First: Chat perfunctory
When chatting, you will obviously feel that he is not very interested in chatting with you.
When he looks for you, there are usually specific things, and it seems that he never shares his life with you.
When you take the initiative to chat with him, you just answer your questions politely and never say more.
chatted with him, and the atmosphere was not good, just like doing a questionnaire. You will feel that you have actually disturbed the other party and feel that the other party wants to end it early.
Some people even have perfunctory attitudes that can overflow the screen. Your messages may have "sinking the screen", and he simply replied "Oh, well, okay."
Some shy and introverted girls chat with such people and even doubt themselves: are they too lacking in expression and communication skills, or the topic they choose cannot be interesting.
is not actually the case. Even if you can’t chat, he will gently tolerate and accompany you.
His perfunctory attitude is actually not directed at your topic, but to you.
Second: The message is long before replying to
When he chats with you, you always say something, and he replys to it after a while, even if he asks you to chat first.
If you ask him why he has been replying to the message for so long, he may also tell you seriously: to maintain a sense of mystery and feel close and distant. It will not be fun to reply to the message immediately.
You may think that he just has this habit, but in fact he just has this habit for you.
The man who truly loves you, even if you are not by his side, you can contact him at any time.
may not have seen it at the time, but after seeing it, I will reply to you as soon as possible and explain to you what I was busy with just now.
You should know that the degree of importance a man attaches to your messages and the speed of replying to your messages represent your position in his heart.
Third: Selectively ignore
Some people selectively ignore even sending a message, let alone how much he loves you.
You sent him several messages, and he always picked the last reply and ignored other messages, as if he didn't see them.
He never pays attention to you sharing your affairs with him.
He never pays attention to what you say to him.
You may think that he just has a poor memory, but in fact he just doesn’t pay attention to you and therefore doesn’t pay attention to your affairs.
A man who truly loves you will take the relationship between you extremely important and care about your affairs.
and even some things that you have forgotten by yourself will remember for you.
If he responds to you intermittently, then stop contacting you as soon as possible, after all, he may just be looking for freshness to you.
Fourth: Sometimes passionate and sometimes cold
Slowly cold and hot is the most taboo thing in love.
Maybe he will sometimes be very enthusiastic, for example, he will take the initiative to chat with you on your birthday or a special day. He will ask about your current situation or share some interesting things he encountered. When you start chatting, even if there is nothing special, there seems to be endless topics, which makes you feel that you are very unusual in his heart and can say a lot.
But sometimes, he acts very cold, making you feel that he is very strange. Even if you are full of enthusiasm, you can never find a topic that can continue with him.
You may think that it is because he encountered a bad thing and was in a bad mood, so he does not want to be disturbed.
But in fact, he just doesn't care much about you.
A man's sometimes passion is just because his freshness is still there.
When he acts extremely indifferent, it is his real daily posture.
The man who truly loves you will be consistent in his attitude towards you and will not be affected by other things.
Even if he is really in a bad mood, once he meets you, he will cover up his bad emotions.
In fact, love is hidden in every detail in life, and the same is true for not loving it.
In today's society, girls must protect themselves. Which man really loves you? Which man treats you just want to be fresh. You must keep your eyes open and see clearly. Don't regret it if you are hurt.
