People today’s society have relatively open minds. Some people choose to spend their lives with the people they like, while others choose not to get married for the rest of their lives. They especially enjoy the freedom and comfort of being alone.
However, in real life, there are still many young people who have been ignorant of love and have stepped into the palace of marriage. As the saying goes, marriage is the grave of love. For immature men and women, after entering marriage, the two people must face a messy life.
Just like this woman, she suddenly felt a stomachache while pregnant. Because she couldn't contact her husband, she went to a clinic near her home for treatment, sitting alone in a chair and getting a drip, her face full of grievances. At that time, her husband was playing games in a nearby Internet cafe. She called her husband several times, but her husband didn't answer. Later, her husband turned off the phone directly!
A woman went to the clinic to see a doctor and sat alone in a chair to get a drip. Her husband was playing games in an Internet cafe
20-year-old from rural Guizhou. Because she has many children at home and her parents are under great financial pressure, she was forced to drop out of school before she finished junior high school.
After she dropped out of school, she stayed at home to help her parents with farm work for several years. Later, she followed the young people from the same village to work in the city to make money.
During the process of working, she met a man who was a few months older than her. The two of them who had just started falling in love quickly got together. They tasted the forbidden fruit for the first time, and she became pregnant unexpectedly because of this.
Because rural people have a conservative mind, their family feels that she must marry the man as soon as possible, otherwise they will definitely be gossiped by the villagers, and the whole family will become a laughing stock of the villagers.
So the parents of the two families met in a hurry and decided to have their two children's marriage, but the two young people still didn't know what marriage actually means.
Not long ago, two young people completed the marriage ceremony under the arrangement of their parents.
After the wedding, she felt uncomfortable and asked her husband to take her to see a doctor, but her husband said she was just too tired and asked her to drink more hot water and just take a break.
That morning, she suddenly felt unbearable stomach pain. At that time, her husband was playing games in an Internet cafe. She immediately called her husband several times, but her husband never answered, and finally turned off the phone.
In desperation, she had to go to a clinic near home alone to see a doctor. After the doctor diagnosed her, she had acute gastroenteritis and needed an infusion immediately.
The aunt in the same ward asked her, "Why didn't you come with your family?" An unexpected question made her eyes wet.
She didn't say anything, curled up on the bench in the clinic alone and had an infusion. She didn't dare to answer the aunt's question, nor did she want to get out of control of her emotions, and she shed tears in front of outsiders.
Editor's opinion
Today's society is a society with relatively open minds, and everyone has the right to get married or not to get married. Regardless of whether we choose to get married in our lives, as long as our living conditions are positive, we don’t have to care about other people’s opinions. After all, life is our own, and we don’t need to live as what others expect.
She was forced to drop out of school at a young age. She entered society too early and hadn't learned anything yet. She chose to get married very hasty. All of this developed too fast, which led to her later paying for her immaturity.
The man is also very naive and his mind is not mature enough. He doesn't understand what marriage is or what a man's responsibility is. So after getting married, he is still addicted to games and puts his family and children behind his head. Such a man is not worth entrusting for life.
In real life, some couples can respect each other as guests after getting married, and two people live with tolerance. Such a married life is enviable. But there are also some couples who have immature marriages, which is indeed a disaster for them. So I would like to advise all young people not to get married in a daze, otherwise they will only regret it themselves.
