Introduction:
36-year-old Chen Lifang felt very strange. There were many relatives around her who introduced her blind date partner. Every relative also highly praised herself, saying that she was very powerful. A girl had bought a house by relying solely on her own strength and had a high-paying job. Although she was already 36 years old, she looked in her early 30s and was really young.
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Every time I hear my relatives praise her like this, Chen Lifang feels very proud. Although she has not been married at this age, it is obvious that everyone has achieved what she has made. Relatives and friends all recognize her life value. Originally, Chen Lifang always felt that his relatives had such a high opinion of him, so the blind date they introduced to him must be nowhere short of the difference. But later facts proved that relatives actually recognized her on the surface, but the blind dates introduced to her behind her were actually not very good.
First, Aunt San introduced Chen Lifang to Chen Lifang. Aunt San praised Chen Lifang: "You are much better than my daughter. She only knows how to be a housewife at home and take care of three children. Even if she is asked to go out to make money, she will only earn two or three thousand yuan in salary, which is completely inferior to you." This is how Aunt San who recognizes Chen Lifang, introduced her to Qin Xu, a 40-year-old single man. This man has no house and no formal job, and makes a living by doing odd jobs. Chen Lifang didn't understand what kind of man had to do with him, and why did Aunt San introduce him to him.
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Later Chen Lifang went to question Aunt San, and Aunt San said, "He is only 40 years old and looks good. What does it matter if he doesn't have a house or a job? Anyway, you have a house and a job, just raise him. At your age, wherever you go, you can just make do with it, otherwise you will be single for the rest of your life." Aunt San's words disappointed Chen Lifang. It turned out that in Aunt San's heart, she was only worthy of such a bad partner. Maybe only Aunt San thought so. Chen Lifang comforted herself, and other relatives highly recognized her.
So when other relatives introduced her to her blind date, Chen Lifang happily went there. She thought that the parties introduced to her by these relatives must be good, but the conditions for these blind dates were worse than the other. The second aunt also introduced Chen Lifang to a blind date, with a monthly salary of 2,000 yuan. She was not good-looking, divorced, and took care of her children. Chen Lifang usually bought cosmetics for her second aunt and bought all kinds of food and food. Their relationship was like a good sister. She introduced her to her such a partner, which made Chen Lifang feel even more shocked.
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Aunt 2 said: "I think this partner is pretty good. He has been divorced, and the requirements for the second marriage partner will definitely not be too high. He will definitely not dislike you as an older unmarried woman. In addition, if you have children, even if you can't have children after marriage, there will be no big problems. If you marry someone without children, if you find that you are old and may not be able to have children after marriage, you may get divorced soon."
Chen Lifang almost fainted after hearing his second aunt's words, but all relatives agreed with Aunt Er's idea, thinking that Aunt Er was right, and felt that Chen Lifang had no other choice at all. Chen Lifang could not have imagined that these relatives who often praised her for their marriage actually had such a low evaluation of her in terms of marriage. Later, Chen Lifang went on a blind date several times, and all the blind dates were introduced by relatives. The conditions for these blind dates were worse than the other. In order to let Chen Lifang get married early, some relatives even introduced people who had divorced three times.
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Chen Lifang finally realized a problem: no matter how high the relatives evaluate her, it does not mean that the relatives think she is worthy of a man with excellent conditions. In fact, in the hearts of all relatives, she is not worthy of any man with excellent conditions at all. She is only worthy of making up for it and making ends meet. In the eyes of all relatives, as long as there is a man who is willing to marry 36-year-old Chen Lifang, he is the greatest benefactor to Chen Lifang. Chen Lifang should live with him down-to-earth in the future.
After learning about the true thoughts of relatives, Chen Lifang really wanted to break off contact with all relatives for a moment. Later, he calmed down and found out: "As long as she doesn't get married for a day, the relatives will feel that she is no one wants, and she only deserves men with poor conditions. Chen Lifang is sad about this prejudice. She feels that her conditions are not bad, and she should not be worthy of men who have nothing as relatives think.
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, who is not convinced, once wanted to prove herself. She went to fall in love by herself. She found an excellent boyfriend. She thought that one day she would bring a good boyfriend with excellent conditions to make the relatives look at her with admiration. As a result, she had two boyfriends and finally parted ways with her. One is because her family disagrees, and the other is because she is too old to have children in the future.
Chen Lifang, who wants to prove herself, finally found that in the eyes of her relatives, no one is willing to marry her. Even the relatives no longer introduce those men with poor conditions to her, because the relatives think that Chen Lifang is not worthy of these men with poor conditions. Chen Lifang realizes that she is 35 years old. It turns out that men with good conditions and poor conditions are not willing to marry her unless she is willing to force herself to settle down.
Conclusion:
Chen Lifang doesn't want to settle down. Maybe she will wait a little longer and will wait until her conditions are excellent, willing to accompany her, and don't mind her older partner.
