Danish philosopher Bridan once said a fable: A little donkey finally found two piles of grass on the dry wasteland. Because he was not sure which pile to eat first, he starved to death in infinite choices and hesitation. Later, people called this phenomenon of hesitation and hesitation in the decision-making process the "Bridan effect".
The misfortune of the Briddan donkey is that it cannot make rational choices between two piles of hay. In short, the donkey is very mindless and therefore unable to act. People are not smarter than donkeys at some point.
Many young people are upset because they face multiple choices but are difficult to choose. A college student who graduated for a while was assigned to a good unit. He felt that his diploma was too low and wanted to take the postgraduate entrance examination, but was afraid that he would never find such a good job again after finishing the postgraduate entrance examination.
There is also a 28-year-old girl who has been in love for five years. She wants to get married, but her boyfriend still has no house. He wants to break up, but he can't bear to leave this relationship that has withstood the test of time.
A 35-year-old boy has been working in a systemic job in a small county town in his hometown after graduation. His work career that can be seen at a glance made him lose his enthusiasm for life. He wants to go to a big city to start over, but he can't let go of this stable job.
A pair of childhood sweethearts boys and girls. After nine years of long-distance love, the boy finally proposed to the girl. However, before getting married, the girl met the ideal type in her mind. She wanted to let go of everything and follow her feelings, but she was afraid that she would be fresh for a while and time would consume all romance.
There is a passage in "Island Bookstore": "In fact, every bad thing in life is almost the result of improper timing, and every good thing is the result of just the right time."
philosopher Mr. Zhou Guoping told such a story.
A farmer rescued his wife from the flood, but his child was drowned. Afterwards, people talked a lot.
Some people say he did it right because the child can have another one, but the wife cannot be resurrected from the dead. Some people say he did something wrong because his wife could marry another, but the child could not be resurrected from the dead.
After hearing this story, Zhou Guoping was confused and asked the farmers. The farmer told him that he didn't think about anything when he saved people. When the flood hit, his wife was by his side, and he grabbed his wife and swam to the hillside. By the time I returned, the child had been washed away by the flood.
When I read this story, I was moved by this farmer for a long time, and I admire this farmer from the bottom of my heart. If this farmer makes a decision, what will happen?
The flood hit, and his wife and children were swept into the whirlpool, and they were killed in a moment. And this farmer is still making a decision on the hillside. Is it important to save his wife or to save his children?
I think, maybe even if the farmers continue to continue to save their wives or children, the flood washed away his wife and children.
In life, there are many times in which we do not have the opportunity to make a choice with time. Some people always like to weigh the pros and cons again and again before doing something, hesitating and undeciding. As a result, when I thought about it and did it, time had passed and there was no chance.
seizes the opportunity at hand, which is crucial. The opportunity closest to you is the most important and urgent thing. Taking the opportunity at hand is equivalent to seizing all opportunities. Because the past opportunities no longer exist, and the future opportunities will need to be approaching you step by step. Before the opportunity comes, even if you rack your brains, it will be in vain.
The choice of life is the most difficult and simplest. The difficulty lies in your choices always. The simplicity is that you don’t have to consider the choice, you just do it.
