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Love seems simple and romantic, but in fact it is very complicated to manage. It is not that you can get the love you want by giving all your sincerity.
The emotional pace of two people needs to be consistent so that the relationship can last longer.
Most girls who are prone to gain and lose and must get love from their partners find it difficult to feel the happiness of being truly pampered.
When love disappears, the more inferior a girl is, the harder she is to let go of her in a short time. They will fall into grief, as if the whole world does not love themselves.
If you want to quickly forget the pain of the past, the best way is not to remain silent or deliberately block it, but to accept this: no one will love you because you lack love.
Zhuang Yao (pseudonym) is a very sensitive girl with an introverted and quiet personality.
Before she met her boyfriend, she spent most of the time with herself. Although she had many colleagues around her, Zhuang Yao was always unwilling to let others get closer to her.
After falling in love, her life became no longer lonely. At the beginning, her boyfriend was really very good to Zhuang Yao. He would specially surprise her whenever he had time. He was a very romantic boy and very generous. During the process of dating him, Zhuang Yao experienced unprecedented happiness. However, she was too inferior because she had never experienced the love of her parents, so it was difficult to believe that others really loved her.
Slowly, Zhuang Yao's emotions became very unstable. Her boyfriend had told her that she wanted to have a meeting and could not contact her.
But Zhuang Yao still couldn't help calling the other party and even asked for the video. She felt that her boyfriend was cheating on her.
: My boyfriend was willing to tolerate her anxiety at first, and even when he was very busy, he would take time to video with Zhuang Yao. But no matter how considerate he did, Zhuang Yao still felt that it was not enough.
Every time I call my boyfriend, as long as he doesn't answer it immediately, Zhuang Yao will get angry immediately and threaten with breakup.
The most overwhelming time was that she directly blocked all the female customers she cooperated with on her boyfriend's phone. Because of this, my boyfriend was scolded by his leader for a long time and almost lost his job.
If Zhuang Yao's boyfriend is a fickle man and has never experienced her feelings, it is understandable that her emotions will be so repeated.
However, the other party is a very reliable boy with a good character and has loved her in many things in accordance with Zhuang Yao's way.
But she still couldn't feel the other person's sincerity. Every time she was in a bad mood, her boyfriend would accompany her patiently like coaxing a child until she felt satisfied.
The third year of love, my boyfriend decided to break up during an quarrel. He admitted that he could not save Zhuang Yao's inner weakness, and that if they continued to move on, it would only bring harm.
Once a boy decides to break up, no matter how sweet his past relationship is, he will never look back.
Zhuang Yao cannot lose her boyfriend, she can only cry and ask for a reunion. No matter how embarrassed or humble she loves, as long as the other party doesn't let go, she will try her best to get rid of her shortcomings.
But his boyfriend's love for her has stopped. Less than three months after they broke up, he had a new partner and decided to get engaged.
At the moment of a broken heart, Zhuang Yao couldn't understand why she had already loved her heart, but her boyfriend still wanted to leave?
She was filled with hatred, feeling that he had deceived herself and let her down.
The more I think so, the less I can’t get out of my past relationship. Under the persuasion of her friends, she began to reflect on herself. The end of a relationship was inevitable.
If your fate has come to an end and you want to completely forget the person who doesn’t love you, the best way is to see this thing clearly: no one will love you because of lack of love.
Zhuang Yao is too inferior. When dating her ex-boyfriend, the other party has never deceived her feelings and wants to go a longer way with her.
But no matter what he does, he just can't make Zhuang Yao trust herself. Her emotions are too easily out of control, and it is difficult for people to relax in the process of getting along with her.
Men really won’t love you because you lack love. He is not your parents. You can’t make up for the firm protection and pampering you want.
What he is looking for is a partner who can grow up with himself, rather than carrying you on his back.
No love can be 100% pure. Your pitifulness and lack of love will not only make you win love, but will even become uncharming in the eyes of men.
Starting from now on, try to love yourself. If your parents can’t give it to you, then please treat yourself as the child who needs to be loved and cared for the most.
Only when you have the ability to heal your fragile heart can you be yourself in love.
The best way to forget people who don’t love you is to realize: no one in this world loves you because you lack love. Only when you are valuable and dare to recognize yourself can you be infinitely loved.
