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The marriage of my daughter is a major event in my father's heart.
Although he was reluctant to let his daughter get married, he had to face her daughter's marriage. In order to make her daughter live a better life in the future, he will inevitably make a comprehensive judgment on the person and family she chooses, so as not to marry the wrong person. This is a manifestation of loving your daughter, and it is also a kind of vision.
If you are also a father, then when your daughter gets married in the future, please be sure to help her keep a close eye. It is best not to let her marry into the following three types of families. If she gets married, there are likely to be endless troubles.
1: I will not let my daughter marry into a family that prefers boys over girls. They will not treat their children equally, and will make you suffer all the grievances
Once the idea of favoring boys over girls is formed, it will be difficult to change. This is related to the era and living environment he lives in. So once you find that the man’s family has the idea of favoring boys over girls, you should tell your daughter that it is best not to marry.
patiently analyzed the pros and cons with her and tried to let her listen.
Young people are prone to impulsiveness, but we parents should be cautious. Although my daughter may blame us in a short period of time, when she has a certain life experience in the future, she will understand our good intentions.
Why can’t families who prefer boys over girls marry? Because they cannot treat every child equally. If you give birth to a son, you may spoil it in your hand, and if you give birth to a daughter, you may be disgusted with it in every possible way.
They will not even treat you as their daughter-in-law as an equal. Thinking that you are the daughter married from your parents' home is equivalent to the water splashed out. How can they respect you?
It can be said that no matter from any angle, families that prefer boys over girls cannot become in-laws.
2: I will not let my daughter marry into a family with a bad family style, and there will be constant troubles
Before the daughter gets married, parents who have vision and know how to think about their daughter will inquire about the reputation of the man's family, which is related to their true character and family style. If their character is bad and their family style is corrupt, they cannot marry no matter what.
Marriage is not a matter of two young people, but is related to two families.
If the future in-laws have unprotected character and are difficult to get along with, it will inevitably leave hidden dangers for future days. Which parent doesn’t want her daughter to marry well and live a happy life?
Since this is the case, you must know how to choose the real right family for her.
They don’t have to be very rich, powerful, or have a very status, but they must have a good family tradition, a positive outlook on three aspects and a guaranteed character. This is the greatest guarantee in the future.
3: I will not let my daughter marry into a family that is heavily in debt and has bad relationships with parents. The future will be in chaos
A family is gradually declining or thriving, which is actually easy to see. If family members are centrifuged, the atmosphere will inevitably be tense and depressing. They cannot get along well, and naturally they cannot make you feel a sense of happiness and down-to-earth. What's more, some families are in debt and cannot even guarantee the simplest living conditions in daily life.
Marrying into such a family can be imagined in the future. No matter how good your relationship with their son is, it may not stand the cruel test of reality.
The father who truly considers his daughter will not let his daughter marry into such a family. It is not that he is snobbish, but that he really loves his daughter. After all, there must be a reason for being heavily in debt. Either they invest blindly or get involved in bad habits. No matter which one it is, it means that they are not pragmatic in life.
Besides, if the material foundation is not guaranteed, how can you live a good life in the future? It is very realistic that poor couples are sad about everything.
Sometimes, the best way for parents to love their children is not to give them how much money they are directly or to create good material conditions for them, but to know how to support them spiritually, so that they can become an upright and kind person, and can distinguish right from wrong and understand the truth. In this way, no matter what kind of interpersonal relationships they are in, they will not be bullied or detours. The same is true for
in terms of marriage and love.
Real visionary parents will not directly tell their children that getting married or getting married depends on whether the other party is rich, but on the other party’s character and responsibility, and whether the family behind the other party has good character and good values, etc. This is the key to a good life in the future.
If you also have a daughter, please do not let your daughter marry into the three families mentioned above, which is very important. Because if you are not careful, your future life will be trapped in unknown risks, which is definitely not what parents want to see.
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