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starts.
Life is like porridge, and you need to be boiled slowly.
Who has never been young?
In those dim times, everyone lacks experience and it is rare to meet a real noble person.
Even so, friends still have dreams.
Once you have a goal, many people will do their best to continuously improve themselves and gradually move closer.
No experience, everyone can explore through reading and footsteps.
Without enough strength, we can also work hard to become experts through the suffering of time.
Of course, in the process, hardship is inevitable.
You should know that there is no "free lunch" in this world, and there is no one-time and for all. Only by maintaining a good attitude and facing the ups and downs and challenges of life at any time can everyone become a real strong man in life.
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endurance, making people awaken.
This world is impermanent.
We cannot predict what tomorrow will look like.
However, a truly smart friend, can seize the experience in life and continuously improve their abilities.
Some people say:
Suffering is the mentor of life.
Some people may sneer at it, thinking that life is short and there is no need to ask for trouble.
But in fact, people don’t know until they pass by. The process of hard work will make people realize and gain opportunities for further improvement. At the same time, everyone's willpower will be tempered.
Only those who have experienced the ups and downs can see a more beautiful rainbow in the journey of life.
From a psychological perspective, isn’t that the same!
Our personality traits will change with our own situation.
Usually, hard-working people will become more honest and down-to-earth in the face of suffering; while those who are lazy and hate work will have to change themselves in the challenges of life, so as to correct their mentality to treat their lives.
"Terror" can change a person.
After suffering a lot of hardship, a person will have the opportunity to awaken, and at the same time, his personality will change.
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does not boast, become pragmatic.
Everyone has the desire to express themselves.
In interpersonal communication, people with language advantages are more likely to sell themselves.
Once upon a time, many people had this idea.
Everyone believes that if you dare to express yourself, you will be able to win the opportunity to stand out among the crowd, and you will also win the recognition of others and the support of noble people.
In fact, is worse than doing things well.
Life is a long journey.
We keep tempering ourselves, hoping to reach a better shore.
When you are in good times, you have all kinds of friends around you and a praising voice in your ears. And when we usher in the trough of life, friends will find that truly reliable friends are insignificant.
Only after suffering, can everyone become truly mature.
From then on, no matter what you do, you are unwilling to brag about it, and you do not want to win the recognition of others. After experiencing down-and-out times, we realize that only by working and living down-to-earth is a wise choice.
And you will have new insights into life and will find a direction that truly suits you.
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is not sociable, enjoy being alone.
The world is noisy.
When I was young, everyone might not realize it.
and even, in the eyes of many people, can only find a sense of accomplishment if you can stick with your friends and live a noisy life. In fact, this is precisely a manifestation of loneliness.
The noisy sea of people will only make us even more lonely.
Before suffering, many friends did not feel this way.
However, life is difficult to be smooth sailing, and ups and downs are the norm.
When we touch the trough of life, we will understand this truth:
If you rely on the mountain, you will fall, and if you rely on the mountain, you will run away.
After falling out, the number of friends around me has decreased, and even a lot of family affection will become alienated. In this case, how many people still place their hopes of counterattack on others!
After suffering hardship, will only see the facts clearly and then find the right positioning.
In this world, there is often only one person who is truly reliable, and this person is exactly yourself. Learning to be kind to yourself and being able to get along well with yourself is something that is truly worth learning from.
Once we understand this principle, we no longer seek the joy of the crowd, but will enjoy the time alone, whether we accompany our family or improve ourselves, in short, we will focus on ourselves.
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is not vain, likes to save money.
Why is it working hard for?
In some people's cognition, the reason for their hard work is just to please others.
Because, in their opinion, if their life is good and others don’t know, it is like walking in the night in a brocade, and they will feel inexplicably lost in their hearts.
With such a subconscious mind, everyone will live a very vain life.
Because of this subconscious, will make us lose ourselves and live in the world of others from now on.
Sometimes, if your situation is very different from your plan. These people can also weave stories to let themselves live further into the false world, and lose their direction in life from then on, and gradually move away from happiness.
Without hard work experience, it is really difficult for us to focus on our own affairs.
If one day, life will encounter unbearable pain, everyone's views will also be given the opportunity to refresh. And personality traits will also usher in new changes.
After suffering, many people will put away their vanity and live their lives down to earth from now on. The most obvious signal of
is that everyone is becoming keen on saving money. Every income is no longer wasted on irrelevant things, but will be treated with caution and save it as much as possible.
And such a transformation can really gradually improve our living conditions.
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ending.
personality, there is no distinction between good and bad.
However, it will undergo subtle changes as the environment changes.
For many friends, because they lack life experience, they will do some time-consuming things. However, when everyone experiences troughs and suffers all the hardships, their understanding of life will change.
And these cognitive preparations will also be reflected in our personality.
Suffering will make many people feel at ease. For example, after suffering enough, everyone will become down-to-earth and understand the meaning of being alone. From then on, they will treat their wealth with a more mature attitude.
Of course, in the face of life challenges, being able to deal with them with a positive attitude can allow everyone to gain more positive changes. If it is negative, it will only make our situation worse.
In your opinion, is that true?
Author: Zhou Qiaofu, an emotional deep-rooted person with attitude. Write warmth in the world and read heartwarming stories, and thank you for being with you all the way.I only wish that the years are quiet and good, and that the clouds and winds are light, and that you and I can express your heartfelt love when you meet in a paragraph of words.
