Every couple or couple who have experienced love will go through three stages of emotion.
The first stage is passionate love. At this time, the relationship between the two people is the highest, and any defects and flaws in each other will be ignored by the other party.
This stage is commonly known as: a lover has a look of Xi Shi. No matter what others say, both of them will be together firmly.
Love, love a passionate and let the world get tired of your mouth, and only wish to depend on each other's life and death.
In each other's eyes, the other party is so flawless. At this time, no matter what one party does wrong, he will immediately get forgiven by the other party.
At this stage, the two of them also attach the most importance to their relationship, and they will stick together every day.
The second stage is dullness. Life is colorless and tasteless. We need to outline it bit by bit. Art and emotion are all derived from the little things of life.
In the dullness of life, deepen feelings; in the dullness of life, feelings will also be diluted.
Everything comes from the life of two people together. Can they be tolerant of each other and whether they can be integrated together.
In this dull process, the two people slowly discovered each other's shortcomings and began to accumulate contradictions and emotions.
Once the other party’s small flaws cannot tolerate, the two will quarrel.
The third stage is emotional transformation. In this stage, emotions begin to transform and contradictions begin to amplify.
Something small in the past will also be brought out. Once two people face each other in a tit-for-tat way, it is easy to let the previous relationship go away.
If two people can cherish each other's feelings and solve problems in a timely manner, then the relationship at this stage will allow the couple to better integrate together.
Deepening feelings will also be sublimated and transformed, transforming from love to "family affection", allowing the other person to become a part of his life.
Treat the other person as your own lifestyle every day, and it becomes unnatural without the other person's company.
But the most dangerous stage is also here. If someone suddenly breaks into this ordinary life at this stage.
In the ordinary life, add some colors and some temptations, and this relationship will also undergo heavy tests.
Often incidents of couples cheating are the most concentrated at this stage. Please be alert to this stage.
Marriage is too dull, she began to cross the bottom line of marriage
Xiao Min and Xiao Gang have been married for 5 years. The two have experienced many hardships from love to marriage.
In the ordinary life, love slowly faded away. Every day, two people rarely communicate after get off work.
After the two of them finished their supper, Xiao Min started listening to songs and watching videos, while Xiao Gang started playing games. The two of them started to sleep late at night and fell asleep.
seems to be copying yesterday every day, and the relationship between the two is also fading, without freshness and passion.
One morning, it rained Xiao Min was waiting for the bus with an umbrella. Suddenly a man drove by and called Xiao Min. Seeing Xiao Min's thin clothes, he asked Xiao Min to get on the bus.
Xiao Min looked at the man hesitated for a moment, then looked at the time again, and was almost late, so she had to get in the car.
In this way, the story between Xiao Min and this man slowly began. This man is humorous and witty, and he is considerate and caring for women.
This brought Xiao Min back to the scene of her former love, so the two of them secretly got together. Later, they learned that men also have their own family and the two have a common language.
The dullness of life is only true love in times of distress.
This period made Xiao Min very happy and returned to the girlish heart. Some people love and love.
Suddenly one day, Xiao Min was hit by a car, and the man who made her ignite a girl's heart disappeared.
The one who accompanied her in front of the hospital bed was her husband Xiaogang, who took care of Xiaomin in detail every day.
Xiao Min feels sorry for Xiao Gang every time she sees him. Only then did Xiao Min truly understand who is the one who loves her the most and who is the one she cannot lose.
Although life is too dull, only when you encounter difficulties can you feel who loves you and cares about you.
Although the people outside can make her happy, she feels fresh and satisfied for a while.
But only in times of trouble can true love be seen. You must know how to stop being lost and know how to return to the wrong path
Conclusion: In fact, every couple will experience the dullness of life, slowly transforming from love to family affection.
This kind of relationship seems difficult to reflect in normal times, but it will only be deeply reflected once it is in a critical moment.
A couple after marriage is not only love, but will gradually become family affection, and get used to each other becoming an indispensable part of life.
After getting up in the morning, if you can’t see the other person, you will start looking for it immediately. The other person suddenly goes home late and pick up the phone to contact him immediately.
Life seems dull and has no taste, but every bit of life, every moment of company can prove that the other person loves you. After a long time, the marriage has no more passion, no more romance, and no sweet words when chasing you.
But some are silently accompanied by you, burning your life with you and giving you the most precious time.
This is a plain and extraordinary marriage, which cannot be replaced by simply giving you romantic freshness and excitement.
Anyone who cheats can only give you temporary happiness, but no one who cheats will give you lifelong happiness.
won't spend your whole life with you, so wake up,
