Introduction:
Some couples’ relationship is based on the fact that you don’t spend my money, and I don’t spend your money AA system.
Most women are disgusted with AA marriages because many women think that if they get married, the other party has half of their own money. If they can’t spend the other party’s money, then don’t get married. Whoever gets married will still get AA system? Isn’t that a big joke?
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Most women think that men propose AA system in marriage, that is, they don’t love this woman. Zhao Ruoling also got married. Not long after marriage, her husband proposed AA system. The reason why her husband proposed AA system was that just after getting married, Zhao Ruoling applied for a job in sales. In order to do this job well, Zhao Ruoling often bought expensive clothes and high-end cosmetics in order to give herself more good appearances.
At the beginning, Zhao Luoling did not do a good job in sales. He invested more and had less output. He spent a lot of money to package himself and took training classes. However, his sales performance was always at the bottom, so his husband was unhappy when he saw Zhao Luoling spending money. He felt that his wife spent money like flowing water and must implement the AA system. The husband believed that his wife would definitely not be able to achieve results in the sales industry, so he wanted to reduce his money expenditure.
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After her husband proposed the AA system, Zhao Luoling started to be a salesperson, and her monthly income was not enough for her to buy clothes. In order to save money, she could only eat clear soup and noodles every meal. Her husband ordered takeout every meal, and he ate seafood meal every day. Zhao Luoling was very greedy when he saw it, but her husband didn't give her a bite. Later, Zhao Luoling had a period of financial difficulties. She had no money to take a taxi during heavy rains. Of course, her husband knew her embarrassment, but she always ignored it.
Finally, after Zhao Ruoling's mother learned about her work, she took the initiative to give out several thousand yuan every month to support her through the most difficult stage. With the help of her mother, Zhao Ruoling successfully overcomes the difficulties and gained a firm foothold in her work. In the second year of her career in sales, Zhao Ruoling finally broke through her monthly salary of over 10,000 yuan. In the third year, her monthly salary had reached 30,000 yuan. After finally getting through, the first thing she did was to repay her mother. Zhao Ruoling returned all the money he used to support him to double the money he used to support him.
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When she had no money before, she hated the AA system and felt that the AA system made her financially passive and her husband could not spend a penny of her money. But now she is rich and likes the AA system, because now the feng shui changes, because the husband has no money and he has money, but he cannot spend his own money. Now she is very grateful to the AA system. The AA system allows her to make decisions on her own money and spend whatever she wants. This feeling is really good.
Zhao Ruoling didn't expect that one day he would like the AA system so much, because the AA system allowed her to spend money on her mother more openly. Like those women around her who don't have AA system for marriages. They want to spend their own salary on their mother's mother, either they have to hide it secretly from their husbands, or the couple quarreled when the husband found out. But I had no such trouble at all. The AA system gave her the freedom to spend money for her mother, because she had been in a downturn and only when she was desperate, she knew who was the one who was sincere to her.
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If she had not had her mother's help to herself, she would not have made any progress today. It is because of her mother that she could have reached this day. The kindness of a drop of water is repaid with a spring of water. She is now capable and just wants to give all the best to her mother. When she saw a coat worth 1,000 yuan, she bought it for her mother without hesitation. Her husband was angry when he saw it, but he didn't know how to send out this tone. Of course, the most important thing is that his wife's money is not under his control, so he can only give his wife some warnings in words.
Usually, he often said to his wife indirectly: "After a woman gets married, don't always think about spending money for her parents' family. No matter how much money she spends on her mother's family, she will eventually be an outsider and will have problems with her husband's marriage." His wife seemed to have never heard of it and never responded. This time on National Day, her husband saw that his wife bought a lot of things and went home. He thought that at least one or two of so many things were bought for him, but he didn't have a share.
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When my wife was incompetent and could not make money, he felt that the AA system was not a loss for him anyway, but now he felt that he had lost a lot like this, especially when he saw his wife spending money to her parents' home at any time, he felt even more uncomfortable. So on the eve of National Day, he immediately taught his wife and ordered her, "You can only give your mother-in-law 3,000 to go back to her mother's house on National Day."
My wife was no longer silent when she heard this, but responded domineeringly: "The AA system has been in three years, and you can't control it even if you give it 30,000. We are in the AA system. Your money is your money, my money is my money. I will give my money to my mother. You can't control it. If you want to give it 30,000 to your mother, I won't care. Of course, the premise is that you have to have 30,000." After my wife said that, she left her husband who wanted to speak but stopped and left with contempt.
Conclusion:
When a husband has no money, he is reluctant to spend money on his wife and wants to work with his wife. Then when his wife has money, he should not expect his wife to spend the money for her.
