I was born in a remote village in Hebei Province. There are three siblings in my family, one sister and one younger brother. I am the second child. It is said that the second child is more slimmer than the eldest child, but I am just the opposite. My younger brother is young, and the whole family loves my younger brother, including me.
Both parents were from the 1940s. My mother graduated from junior high school and was considered educated at that time. My father was illiterate and only went to the second grade. However, my father was smart and knew how to do things. He was the first to be the first 17 or 18 years old. My father was also lucky. At that time, the production team had recommended places to enter the factory. Grandpa was a team leader at that time, so everyone recommended my father to enter the factory in the county. After working for a few years, my father was skillful and turned into a formal worker (eating commercial grain). It caused a sensation in the entire village at that time and everyone envied. After my father and mother got married, they contracted the household. My father worked outside and was considered a well-known figure in the village at that time, so the three of us siblings did not suffer much since childhood, and our family conditions were middle-aged and upper-class in the village.
When I grew up, the conditions in the countryside improved a lot. My sister was admitted to university. After I graduated from junior high school, I stopped going to school. At that time, my younger brother was also in junior high school. My mother and father were struggling to support my sister and brother, so I went out to work to subsidize my family.
After my sister graduated from college, she got into a southern partner. At that time, the family didn't agree. It was too far away, but my sister had to go there. There was no way, so she had to agree. My brother was admitted to university at that time, so I would like to support my brother to go to school. After my sister left, my mother thought that my sister would cry every day, and her eyes were swollen every day. At that time, I thought I must stay with my mother and accompany them.
So, at the age of my partner, I didn’t want to go far. My parents didn’t let me go far. My mother who introduced me to the neighboring village refused to respond, and I didn’t tell me that the village only allowed me to meet. I met several people from the village. At that time, my parents didn’t choose the conditions or look at the family. As long as they were from the same village, I just agreed and decided to get married in one year.
