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Love is actually a game between men and women. If you advance and I retreat, you take the initiative to defend.
Women are usually contradictory in love. They hope that men can take the initiative, but they dare not take the initiative because of their own reserve. So is there any way to make the opposite sex look up to you and take the initiative to contact you?
Remember these three methods, it is more useful than taking the initiative to please.
1: A attitude of neither humility nor arrogant
The most important point in love is equality. What attitude you use to him also determines your position in his heart.
Women must have an attitude of neither humility nor arrogant in love. Neither they are ashamed of themselves or have high regard for themselves. Both of them are equal individuals, so that their relationship can last longer.
Love is the resonance between two people's hearts and has nothing to do with external factors such as age, appearance, and economic conditions.
Although these external objective conditions will affect your love under certain circumstances, it should affect whether this love can eventually occur and whether it can continue, rather than letting the two people distinguish between their status.
No matter it is condescending love or humble love, it will not last long.
A woman's posture is too high, so it is difficult for her to have heartfelt respect for men. What men care most about in love is women's respect. Men will have some heroic complex. They hope that their women can recognize them and they enjoy the gaze of women worship.
If all he gets from a woman is disdain, he will definitely stay away from this woman.
But blindly pleasing can't be exchanged for love, men will think you are not challenging at all.
Women put their position too low, and they are prone to lose themselves in love and lose their attraction. Even if they can keep men by their side for a while, they are just a spare tire around them.
2: Respond to lukewarm
If you want a man to contact you on the initiative, your own way of dealing with you is particularly important.
Many people have had this experience in their lives. When you go to the store to buy clothes, if you show obvious preference for the clothes, the final bargaining process will be very difficult.
But if you show dislike and dissatisfaction with this dress, the final transaction price will often surprise you.
In fact, this is the same in love. The more proactive a woman acts, the more concerned she cares about it, the colder the men will make them. However, those women who are not lukewarm and obsessed with men often make men dream and fascinated.
Whether it is a relationship or a person, her value is determined by the difficulty of getting it. What can be easily obtained will not be cherished.
A woman expresses her love bluntly and makes men succeed easily. Then the woman will be labeled as "strategic" in the man's heart, and her value will be greatly reduced.
So in love, women's reserve is very necessary. Only when men think you are an inconquering peak can they take you seriously.
But this kind of reserve also requires a degree of attention. If you act too cold, it will also make men feel frustrated. They may be scared away by your indifference, which will backfire.
Every relationship has its own special characteristics, and the degree between coldness and enthusiasm needs to be grasped by women themselves.
3: A state of calmness
There is a saying that goes: Money flows to people who are not short of money, and love flows to people who are not short of love.
Similarly, in life, those who are the least likely to get married are often those women who hate to marry. This is the Matthew effect in psychology.
mentality will affect a woman's condition and her overall temperament and image.Rose never panics, the best way for a woman is to be calm and unhurried.
No matter how strong the desire for marriage is for love, it is best for women not to show that anxious look, because this will make you look very cheap and full of anxiety about discounted products.
You have to believe that everything has arrangements, and the best is waiting for you not far away.
When a woman can arrange her life calmly, she will naturally have an elegant and relaxed smell. It is this calmness that can make men love you.
There is nothing wrong with women craving love, but they must have their own methods, their own inner rhythm, and do their own things well, and then wait quietly for fate. The man who belongs to you will definitely come to you with your expectations.
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