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Friends also have peak seasons and off-seasons. I wonder which season your relationship with him is now? There are too many female readers who tell me that she feels that her husband no longer loves her. Have you ever thought about using the 7-day National Day holiday to warm up your relationship?
Women have always had a full demand for feelings, but men are the same, but they are not good at expressing themselves, which makes us women feel that they are no longer loved.
If you think that the man you love doesn’t love you, then do this, he will most likely regret it.
01. Check in for your favorite food
During the holidays, we can check in for your favorite food and bring your man with us. It is especially recommended to go to a food store with sweet memories.
As your belly is satisfied, I believe that both of you, your whole person, and your whole heart will become softer.
You scoop a soup for me, I will pick up a dish for you, and the unintentional touch between the limbs will spread out again, and the feelings will naturally warm up.
My cousin and her boyfriend are in a long-distance relationship. The biggest hobby of the two is to eat. As long as they are together, they will have a meal with a feast.
In the phone porridge, the two people’s chat content is always unavoidable to eat.
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The stomach is satisfied, and the heart is opened as well. This is a very important step in communication.
My cousin and her boyfriend were able to have a good relationship in a long-distance relationship because they satisfied each other's stomachs. When the stomach is full, their hearts are full.
The power of delicious food is not inferior to sweet words.
02. Meet his emotional needs
Too many women always use self-righteous ways to love each other after confirming their relationship.
The maternal traits that women have in their genes determine that they always take care of themselves and like to ask questions.
Washing laundry and cooking, calling to ask about the time to go home, but forgot to ask yourself: Are the things I do what men want?
Once, Lao Yang and I were watching a show on the sofa. Halfway through the scene, I suddenly remembered that before I could drag the floor, I got up and prepared to do it.
After my husband asked the reason, he said, "It's rare to see you not nagging, I'll go and drag it out later." After that, he leaned against me again.
Afterwards, I asked him what he liked to do so that he could be at ease. He said, just don’t nag, even if I cook and wash dishes, I don’t want to listen to you.
At night, I ruminated my husband's words. It turned out that I repeated the way my parents got along, but I didn't understand that men need not a wife who was shaved on the floor, but a partner who made him relax.
After this in-depth communication, I found that our relationship has improved a lot.
Use this holiday without having to be busy. You might as well think about what the feelings he wants in his heart?
You will find that what you do is far from what the other party wants.
You should know that Getting to the other party’s needs is the deep approach of the heart. And when your heart is close, how can your relationship be ruined?
03. Share childhood experiences and raise his inner child
Psychological counselor Cong Fei once said: "The essence of a good relationship is the ability to raise the second time."
Yes, no one's childhood is without pain. There are too few parents who focus on the spiritual world of children. If our childhood is lacking, we can nourish our feelings, then this person is complete.
Think of a colleague's husband. His childhood was very sad. He was given to others by his parents as soon as he was born. From his adoptive parents, he received very little love.
When people who are not loved grow up, they are prone to paranoidness and irritability, but after marriage, her husband becomes more and more gentle.
Once, I was having a meal at the cafeteria and I turned around and asked her why. She said that she knew that her husband was unfortunate in childhood and that when she talked about his childhood, she remembered it in her heart. If you are taboo, don’t touch it. If you can make it perfect, just give him a surprise during the holiday.
A person who has been cured by emotions is like returning to his mother again and enjoying his second parenting.
After several times, she found that her husband had a lot of smiles and became much more peaceful. She actually went back to satisfy her little thoughts.
We will vaguely desire to get the love that we have not received from our original family. Isn’t there a saying that said? Marriage is a cycle of reincarnation for parents!
The parents here are actually the psychological parents of a person.
Taking advantage of the time during the holidays, the two of them sat down to talk about the joy and sorrow of childhood, and satisfy one or two of his little regrets, you will see the effect soon!
04. Mei Niang said that
After the holiday, people's free time is squeezed. Sometimes, it is not easy for you to have a high-quality solitude with the other party.
Especially under the epidemic, the economy is in a downturn. For life, everyone must not do their best. We need to grasp every rare time and warm up our feelings.
Whether it is a meal of your favorite food together, or a heartfelt exchange of each other's needs, or sharing interesting, embarrassing, and sad things from childhood, it can bring the hearts of two people closer. Dear, man, you don’t need to be too nice to him. It’s enough to do what they care about. Let’s try it together.
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