"My wife died of dysfunction, but her mother-in-law asked him to marry her sister-in-law." The news of Anhui boy Han Jiantao remarried in 2019 has attracted the attention of many netizens, that is, because his marriage partner was actually "sister-in-law" Li Piaopiao, and it was his mother-in-law who led the marriage.
Time back to 2012, two young people came together, namely Han Jiantao and Li Piaopiao's sister Li Minmin. At that time, he wanted to borrow 160,000 yuan from Li Minmin, a family member, Han Jiantao, and bought a new house. In order to pay off the foreign debt as soon as possible, the couple chose to go out to work.
At that time, they worked seriously, had hope for the future, and had hope for life. The two of them who were particularly able to endure hardships went to work during the day and set up stalls outside at night. Although life was hard and hard, the loving couple lived a very fulfilling life.
When they were happy, their first child soon came to this family. Seeing the arrival of the child, the two of them became more motivated and still enjoyed working hard for a better life for this family of three. Although the arrival of the child added a lot of pressure to the small family, the couple at that time did not feel that life was hard. Every day, looking at their daughter's smile after work, the fatigue of a day was nothing, but two years later, Li Minmin got pregnant again. The expenses outside are already high, and Li Minmin, who is pregnant again, cannot go to work. In order to relieve the pressure of her husband and better prepare for pregnancy, Li Minmin chose to return to her mother's house to wait for childbirth.
When she was a child, Li Minmin had many children in her family, four sisters and one younger brother. Her father died when she was very young. As the eldest daughter of the family, she and her mother who pulled them alone took care of their younger brothers and sisters. Li Piaopiao, who has always had a good relationship, naturally grew up being taken care of by her sister since she was a child. She knows how to be grateful, has been taking care of her sister's daily life and her niece since her sister returned home for delivery.
Time passed quickly, and Li Minmin's expected delivery date came as scheduled, because she had given birth to the first child before, and she obviously had experience with the second child, and did not have the panic during the first child. She also prepared in advance what she needed for delivery and the child's birth. All prenatal examinations were normal, but Li Minmin encountered a difficult child during delivery, and accompanied by the difficult child, which caused extremely dangerous heavy bleeding. Although the doctor had saved the child with all his efforts, Li Minmin unfortunately passed away in this difficult child.
Faced with this sudden misfortune, the whole family couldn't accept it, and Li Minmin's mother fell ill due to the death of her daughter. Of course, Li Piaopiao, who has always had a particularly good relationship with her sister, was also very sad. Looking at the baby in the cradle, this man who suffered the pain of losing his wife after a period of decadence decided to cheer up again, just as he said, "He wants to save his wife's life to have a good future." However, a man with two children, one of them was just a newborn one, and he couldn't even take care of life, let alone earning money by working.
When Han Jiantao was at a loss, Li Piaopiao, who was still unmarried at that time, took the initiative to stand up and assumed the responsibility of taking care of his two children. This care lasted for more than two years. After all, as a little girl, she didn't find a partner when she was at the age of marriage, and she was taking care of her two children. At that time, some bad voices were inevitably heard in the village.
Although Han Jiantao is very grateful to his sister-in-law Li Piaopiao for treating the child as his own care in the past two or three years, this is not a long-term situation after all, and he cannot affect her future because of his selfishness. But when he was about to talk about this to his sister-in-law Li Piaopiao, his mother-in-law called him and Li Piaopiao and talked about their family. Because his daughter who had been taking care of Han Jiantao for many years was used to calling her aunt the mother, and even her young son called Li Piaopiao's mother. Although both of them were a little embarrassed when they heard this, they did not object.
So the two of them did not hold a wedding and did not get a marriage certificate and they were together. Han Jiantao said that he would not get a marriage certificate for the time being because he wanted to leave a way out for Li Piaopiao. If one day she meets someone better and better than herself, she could allow Li Piaopiao to pursue her own happiness and would not be famous for a second marriage.Since the two were together, Han Jiantao always felt that he owed Li Piaopiao too much. He said that one day in the future, he would definitely hold a glorious wedding for Li Piaopiao and not let her suffer any more.
After the incident between Han Jiantao and Li Piaopiao was posted online, most netizens expressed their blessings, and they also felt that the two were affectionate and righteous, but some people also felt that it was against ethical to Han Jiantao’s marriage to his sister-in-law. But in fact, love, as long as two people are willing, it would be good for outsiders to bless us.
I remember when I was a child, my grandmother told me that when she was four years old, she came to our house as a child bride. Her first husband was not my grandfather, but my grandfather's brother. One year, her first husband was unfortunately washed away because she picked up something in the flood. At that time, my grandmother, who had given birth to three children, married my grandfather. But they should not have much love at that time, but because my grandfather's family was poor and could not afford to marry a wife, she lived with her sister-in-law.
