If a newly married couple has experienced a long period of love before marriage, they will have a certain emotional foundation. They will understand each other's personality, temper, personality, etc. during the running-in period after marriage, they will get along well and be harmonious, care for each other, you will be kind and I love each other, and you will be happy.
If the two met through introductions, they only dated for half a year before marriage. In fact, the two parties do not have that deep understanding and their emotional foundation is very weak. This should be paid attention to during the running-in period after marriage. If you do not pay attention to these problems, there will be big problems. You may not get along well during the running-in period and the relationship between husband and wife will gradually become tense. If you continue to develop freely, then it will eventually be a bad thing.
Newly married couples must pay attention to these three points during the running-in period!
First: Find out the other person's personality and temper, try to be consistent in personality and similar in temperament
Even if a couple who have just gotten married has some understanding before marriage, they may not be very comprehensive or deep. Whether they are in love before marriage or not, they are deliberately showing their best side before marriage, and some of their minor problems are deliberately hidden. As the saying goes, no one is perfect.
After marriage, the couple lives at home and stays together every day and night. They are the people who have the closest contacts every day and the people who talk the most. This requires you to find out the other person's personality and temper as soon as possible, and try to achieve the same personality and similar tempers as possible. This will reduce minor frictions and differences in life and increase the relationship between husband and wife.
Second: communicate more and talk to avoid quarrels as much as possible.
Couples are in the running-in period, try to avoid quarrels, which is very important. Because some couples will quarrel over trivial matters of life not long after they get married, and there will be the next time when there is the first time. Constant quarrels will hurt the relationship between husband and wife again and again, making the relationship between husband and wife tense. In this way, conflicts and disputes continue to intensify, and there will be no good ending.
Couples should learn to communicate and talk, and have a speculative chat, so that the two have a common language, smooth emotional communication, and get along more harmoniously with each other. Next, we must understand and give in to each other, respect each other as guests, and do not be petty because of some trivial matters in life, and insist on finding out which one is right and which is wrong. It is said that "it is difficult for honest officials to make decisions about family matters." There is still no need to be too serious in some matters, otherwise both will be defeated.
Third: Discuss more when dealing with housework, and think more about each other
Couples have just lived a marriage and family life, and should be democratic and equal. Discuss more when dealing with housework, and never act on their own and engage in "dictatorship." Discuss more when encountering problems, this is also mutual respect and will also avoid conflicts and disputes.
Next, in daily life, you should think more about the other party, give more care, help each other, and make progress together, so that you can be intimate and in harmony.
In short, the running-in period after marriage is the prelude to marriage life and is also the most critical period that affects the future direction of marriage and family. If you get along well and have a harmonious life, you will have a bright future; if you have disagreements in the running-in period and quarrels from time to time, if you continue like this, it will only be a dim future that is not optimistic about.
