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I was born in the 1960s and graduated from elementary school.
Although I was not a young man, I was not a sank of fish and geese, but I was also considered as white in teeth, red in lips, as if I were as beautiful as a flower and a beautiful figure.
In short, there were endless people coming to the door to talk about the matchmaking.
In the end, my parents chose a young man who worked in the town government.
I don’t have much culture, so I think I’m very lucky to find such a person.
So, we held a wedding in a grand manner and got married.
After marriage, my husband treats me well and is very family-oriented.
Since I didn’t have a good job, I planted some land at home.
He will help him when he is free. The couple is in charge and support each other.
Soon after, we gave birth to a daughter, and my husband liked her very much.
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After we got married for 10 years, we saved some money and prepared to build a new house.
A new house is planned to be built in front of the old house, so that you can wait until the new house is built and then demolish the old house and make a vegetable garden.
We hired workers to dig the foundation.
However, something happened when digging the foundation: a worker actually dug an object similar to a skeleton underground, and called my husband to see it.
My husband threw it into the garbage dump next to him without looking carefully.
After the house was built, we were all very happy. You should know that our family was a family that built a building earlier in the village, and I wonder how many people envy it.
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However, after two years of living in a new house, a series of things happened, which caught us off guard.
My husband retired in advance due to a work mistake. Although he had a retirement salary, it was much lower than the normal salary.
My husband's sister has been working in Guangzhou, but this year she has an incurable disease. Because she is not married yet, her mother-in-law is older and her husband is the eldest brother. Of course, the treatment task has fallen on us.
However, my sister-in-law said she didn't dare to come back and didn't want to treat her anymore, so she let her die outside!
My mother-in-law cried every day, and her husband went to Guangzhou alone and took his sister home.
My sister's face was withered and sick. The doctor said that it would take at most three months and there was no need to be hospitalized for treatment, because we spent all our savings on building a house, and we really didn't have much money to treat.
So we took my sister-in-law home and accompanied her to quietly walk the last journey.
left not long after.
At this time, I found out that I was pregnant. You know, I am already 35 years old and my eldest child is 11 years old. I hesitate to give birth to it, but my husband thinks this is also fate. When he grows up, he can be a companion for his sister.
But just when I was five months pregnant, my husband suddenly fainted one day while working outside. I quickly called 120 and sent my husband to the emergency room . I was so anxious that I was silently praying that my husband was fine.
diagnosis and treatment results have come out, my husband has intestinal cancer, advanced stage!
This is a bolt from the blue for me. No wonder my husband is getting thinner day by day. I thought it was caused by hard work in farm work. What to do if
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I touched the child's stomach that could already hear the child's heartbeat. At this time, I even blamed the child for coming too badly. If it were a few months earlier, I might not have wanted this child.
Because with my ability, it is impossible to raise two children and support an elderly person.
When the child was in his belly for more than 8 months, my husband kept stroking my stomach. I could see that he was full of expectations for him. He said to me with great ashamed: Thank you for your hard work in the future!
Then, I left like this.
03
I can’t figure out how the family was prosperous before building a house. Why did the tragedy happen one by one after another in just two years?
So, I found a Feng Shui master and calculated what kind of deception happened to our family. The Feng Shui master said that when the house was built, there was something that was not handled properly.
I thought about it, was it the skeleton-like thing that my husband threw away at that time?
had to make me sweat. But now that things have come to this, we can only accept reality.
The child was born. Looking at the child who was crying, I started crying. I cried. Why is my fate so miserable? I am facing so many things at the age of 36?
But after learning from the pain, it may be just for my mother. I can’t let others laugh at me, but I also want to let myself and my family live a decent life.
My mother-in-law advised me to find another family, but my mother-in-law didn't object. She just said that as long as two grandchildren were still following their original surnames, she would be fine.
However, I am afraid that the stepfather will be bad to the child by then, and I will not have the confidence and courage to re-establish a family.
is better to maintain the status quo. When the child is older, the mother-in-law can help. When the girl goes to junior high school, she can go out to work, and the burden will gradually become lighter.
04
There is a pig killer in the village. He is a member of my husband's tribe. It is logical that the child calls him uncle.
I am in my fifties and my child is older, and I am a little bit of a gangster.
My wife is about the same age as him, and her family is in good condition. She also opened a convenience store in the village department, and there is a mahjong restaurant next to our house.
He often comes here to play mahjong. He is happy no matter whether he wins or loses. Whenever he sees my child, he will give him some money to buy snacks. Although this uncle looks fierce, the children are still very happy to see that they have pocket money.
He also likes to visit our house and often buy me some nutritional products, cosmetics and other things. I refused at first, but after many times, I accepted it.
Once, his wife was cursing people at our doorstep. Although she didn't know who was scolding, I knew that she always cursed at our doorstep. I simply closed the door and refused to listen.
That night, he came to my house. That day, my mother-in-law happened to go out to play cards and didn't come back, and the children were all asleep.
He chatted with me for a few words, then got up and hugged me, took off his clothes and unbuttoned him. I shouted at him, "What are you going to do?"
He said to me: What do you think I want to do? What do you want me to do?
I said: Did your wife scold me some time ago?
He said: You care about her! Don’t be afraid if I am here.
Until now, my husband has passed away for three years. In these three years, it is fake to say that he doesn’t want that.
So, I gave myself to him half-heartedly.
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From then on, he will come over as long as he needs it. Sometimes, even regardless of whether his mother-in-law is here or not, he will find me without restraint.
Slowly, everyone in the Murakami knew that once his wife brought her parents' people to my house to make trouble, calling her a shameless bitch and seducing her husband's torn shoes.
scolded me very badly, and I felt ashamed.
Yes! Why do I have to suffer this sin?
Why don’t you find a serious family to marry?
Later, they started blind dates, but as soon as the blind date came, he was disturbed by him and said that I was his woman. He intercepted him back after a series of methods.
This year, I am sixty years old, my daughter has already married, and she has her own children, and my son has not yet gotten married.
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After hearing about Ah Xiu's story, I want to tell you a few points:
First, when the encounter comes, accept it strongly but don't fall into depravity.
Even if you don’t have a husband and have two children, at least this family is innocent, and you should not do anything that violates ethics and morals for your children.
Second, even in danger, you must plan your life well.
Check out your own strength and make decisive decisions when you are sure that you cannot bear the burden and responsibilities of your family, rather than dragging yourself out with a married man.
Third, follow your heart, do not blindly follow, and do not accommodate.
In fact, A Xiu doesn't like this uncle of the child. She is just because of loneliness and is occupied by others because of her lack of persistence in herself. At the beginning, she should object and make her stand and attitude clear.
Everyone said, is A Xiu living a confused life in this life? What would you do if it were?
Author introduction:
Accelerated Life Diary: I am very happy to know you, a working mother born in the 1980s, who is interested in writing, focuses on seeing the essence through phenomena, talking about life insights and life insights, and the wish is to spend your life the way you like.
