Please listen to the title: Do you think there is eternal friendship in this world? Is there an absolutely correct reason?
If you ask Guiguzi , maybe he will say: No. For example, he said, "The world is indefinite and the matter is indefinite, and the matter is indefinite and the teacher is indefinite." What does it mean?
Maybe you will think you understand. Believe me. After reading this article, you will find that you don't understand. So, give Axin five minutes to brainwash you, oh no, explain.
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First talk about the first half of the sentence: The world is impermanent.
There is a line in the movie " Big Journey to the West " "I called me Xiao Tiantian yesterday, but today I called me Mrs. Niu." This sentence reveals a basic law: the relationship between people is constantly changing. Maybe I was a friend yesterday, but today I became an enemy, and tomorrow I became a friend again. Therefore, we must be able to view relationships between people dynamically and re-evaluate them over time.
Guiguzi called it "the world is impermanent and noble". No one can always be noble. Others cannot always be your noble person, and you cannot always be others' noble person. Our interpersonal relationships always change with the changes of objective things. This means that we must constantly check and repair relationships, update and adjust the network, not forget old friends, and welcome new friends. If you always consume your original connections, it is almost like being self-consistent.
It’s a pity that there is no eternal friendship in this world. When Xiao Zhao bid farewell to Zhang Wuji , I believe every reader will feel heartbroken, but the cause and condition are destroyed, what can you and I do? I can only let fate fiddle with it? In reality, are we also "Xiao Zhao" and "Zhang Wuji"?
Recalling friends in the past, saying "Take care" from the heart, carrying bags and continuing to move forward, saying "Hello" to friends who are about to meet, and spend the rest of their life with different people. Perhaps this is everyone's destiny.
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and the second half of the sentence: There is no constant teacher in the matter.
Which one is more important, do you say "work hard" or "choose"? Which one is more correct if you say Confucian or vertical and horizontal ? You will find that people with different positions have different answers.
In fact, a person’s position is not very important, he cannot control his destiny!
The same principle is different in different time and space scenarios. For easy understanding, we might as well introduce the yin-yang transformation theory of Guiguzi's "Yang returns to Yin, and the yin tip reverses Yang".
people are the product of the times, so when you need to adapt to the transformation cycle of yin and yang, the momentum was in a state of "cathode anti-yang". When it was in an upward period, a hundred flowers bloomed, Hundred schools of thought contend , and hundreds of boats competed for the current. Then hard work is more important than choice. You only need to spend six points of effort to achieve ten-thousand results. At that time, the situation was in a state of "yang and yin". When it was in a period of decline, all things withered, all industries were depressed, and the sun was weak, so choice was more important than hard work. Your twelve points of effort can only get three points of effect, and you have done useless work.
Similarly, when the times are in the growing stage, learning Confucianism is undoubtedly a wise choice. In a period of recession, learning Guiguzi is undoubtedly the best strategy. Or in other words, there is no right or wrong at all, only strategies that are in line with the times are reasonable.
If someone tells you that he has mastered the absolutely correct truth, either he is a liar or he is a fool. Just like the master of success theory shouting at the top of his lungs: Choice is more important than hard work. There is nothing wrong with
, but it depends on the time. Sometimes it is right, sometimes it is wrong. It's right to him, it's wrong to you.
Grow in spring and grow in summer, and harvest in autumn and stored in winter. The years that cannot be hidden, the times that cannot be retained. The current situation does not consider personal feelings at all, and it surges and leaves.
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Obviously, people like absolutely correct standard answers. Sorry, this kind of thing may not exist in this world. There is neither eternal friendship nor eternal truth in this world.
One day, your beloved friend will always leave you, your faithful experience will suddenly fail, and even the truth you believe in will collapse instantly,
This is the impermanence of fate, and it is also caused by the times.
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