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Lin Qingxuan in "Lotus Blossom in the Deep Spirituality":
There is love and there is entanglement, and there is affection and entanglement.
Many men and women are like this. They quarrel constantly when they are together, but after they are separated, they are connected.
Perhaps this is the norm in love. Because of deep love, I worry about gains and losses, and because of deep love, I am reluctant to leave.
is the love that many people yearn for, so many infatuated men and women will always be born.
Cute love has never been a simple beauty, so there are so many people who are sad and frustrated in love.
Men are afraid of women being ruthless, women are afraid of men being unintentional, and the two are in suspicion and fall apart.
However, looking back on this passionate relationship, they couldn't help but feel regretful, and always feel that the two missed the opportunity to stay together for the rest of their lives.
It is said that women are right and wrong, but men are not the same.
Many times, he is obviously concerned in his heart, but he always says something hurtful. After separation, I was reluctant to part with me, but I was unwilling to speak up, but instead admitted my mistakes in a roundabout way.
is a pity that always happens. It’s better to test yourself after disconnecting. If he does the following three things frequently, it means that he still loves you deeply.
Contact you frequently
If a man really loves you deeply, he will definitely not want you to be disconnected from contact, and he will not be willing to fight with you for too long, and he will not be willing to let you down.
He always worrys whether you will meet a new partner during the time of disconnection, or whether you will be attracted by other interesting people, so he wishes that the Cold War will end soon.
If he still loves you, he will think and worry repeatedly during the days when you are disconnected. Do you no longer love him? Will your relationship end here because of the disconnection?
The person who bows his head first does not necessarily love you, but the person who loves you will definitely bow his head first.
For a man, machismo is his natural nature, and it is difficult to bow to a woman in his cognition.
So if he still contacts you after the connection is disconnected, it doesn’t matter what reasons or excuses he is looking for. The information revealed in his initiative must be to show goodwill to you.
When you disconnect, if he contacts you on his own initiative, it will definitely mean that he still loves you deeply.
A man who loves you deeply will definitely surpass his inner struggle and self-esteem, and strive to overcome all bad emotions and approach you.
Reflect and solve the problems between you frequently
The reason why two people are disconnected is definitely because there are conflicts or some problems with your relationship.
If this man loves you deeply, then he will definitely try to solve the problem, rather than letting the contradiction ferment and never going back to the past in the end.
For a man who loves you, he will definitely actively solve the problems that arise between you, because he knows clearly in his heart that if he ignores this problem, you will have conflicts next time.
Deep down in his heart he doesn't want to have conflicts with you, so he knows. If the problem is not solved, you will still have a quarrel next time, and your relationship will be consumed in the quarrels one after another.
Based on this understanding, if there is a conflict between you, he will definitely try his best to solve these problems.
On the contrary, if he ignores the problems that occur between you and the conflicts between you and him, it can also prove that he does not love you.
Because he doesn't love you, breaking up the connection is a kind of relief for him. He doesn't want to face your anger and accusations, and he doesn't want to face your tears and sadness. He will definitely choose to escape.
So, after you are disconnected, if this man is constantly looking for the problem between you and actively seeking solutions, it can mean that he still loves you deeply.
frequently clarify to you that there is no opposite sex around him
If a man doesn't love you anymore, the disconnection between you is more like a perfect vacation for him, and this is not even his ideal result. He wishes you to break up with him immediately and extend this vacation indefinitely.
At this time, if he no longer shows you that there are no other opposite sex around him, it will largely mean that he has shifted his target.
During the period when he was disconnected from you, it is the best time for other opposite sexes to intervene in your relationship, because at this time he is the easiest to self-indulge. Against the backdrop of your indifference, anyone who takes the initiative to approach him is like a gentle angel, very charming.
So, if a man is still proactively showing you that there is no opposite sex around him after he has broken off contact, it proves that he still loves you deeply. Even if you are in a state of disconnection, he will not be willing to let you think randomly, and he will not be willing to make you feel insecure.
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The man who loves you deeply, even after breaking off contact with you, he will still have a positive attitude towards this relationship and will never let you think about it alone.
Of course, a man who loves you deeply will never be disconnected from you for a long time.
The so-called disconnection is to give each other a little time to calm their emotions, and it will never be a disregard for more than a week.
The man who loves you deeply must be thinking about you and missing you all the time.
Even if he encounters a beautiful bouquet of flowers by the side of the road, he will silently recite in his heart, "I will be very happy when I give this bouquet of flowers to her." Even if he accidentally looks up and sees the bright moon in the night sky, he will silently recite in his heart, "The moonlight is bright, will she look up with me?"
Every woman is an independent and excellent individual, but love has always been mutual tolerance in independent thoughts.
So women, don’t repeatedly guess or verify whether they love you. Instead of paying attention to others, it’s better to focus on yourself and live your own every day. This is what a healthy love should look like.
