Leov.Tolstoy wrote this sentence in the book:
"Love cannot be expressed in words, it can only be expressed in all life."
When we talk about love, language is shallow.
No matter how many love words you say or how much daily life you share with the other party, it is not enough to express our expectations and joy in our hearts.
True love for someone, you can't hide your eyes or your heart. Every moment you are with the other person, your heart is filled with emotions like "a deer bumping around".
In an intimate relationship, the love of boys and the love of girls are different.
No matter how brave a boy falls in love with you, he will become cautious and inferior;
No matter how weak a girl falls in love with you, he will become brave and firm.
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The hint of a girl falling in love with you: "Body contact"
Psychologists have proposed the concept of "safe distance".
can be understood as:
People will adjust their distance from each other at any time as the environment changes and face different people.
For example:
When you stand with strangers, you will deliberately keep a distance of about 1 meter; wait for the bus, walk on the road, participate in some activities, etc. In these cases, you will subconsciously keep a distance from the other party.
Are you with familiar people?
The distance between you will be adjusted according to the intimacy, security and trust of your relationship.
You don’t care about your parents, whether it’s physical space or psychological space;
You don’t mind distance when you are with the person you love.
The love of girls also meets the standard of "safe distance".
If a girl likes you, she will subconsciously approach you, willing to have more interactions with you, and learn more about it;
If a girl falls in love with you, then she will not resist your physical contact and will also take the initiative to approach you.
For example: holding hands, hugging, and touching shoulders when walking. The body language hints of
are the expression of girls' love for you.
In fact, this is also a form of "taking the initiative to you" for girls.
She cannot restrain her language, behavior and emotions.
As soon as she thinks of you, she can't help contacting you, sending you messages, and constantly disturbing you; even if you think she is in trouble, she still wants to find you.
She couldn't stop missing you. When she thought of her coming to meet you, her whole heart jumped and cheered.
Girls’ love for boys is so simple and direct.
is like that love saying:
"As long as she thinks of you, the corners of her mouth can't help but rise, and the corners of her eyes are full of smiles."
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For you, neglect everyone
In the world famous book "Pride and Prejudice", there is a sentence:
"Isn't it the true meaning of love to neglect other people for one person?"
deeply agrees.
When a girl loves you deeply, she will never be stingy with the attention she puts into you.
For example:
In the crowd, she often finds you at a glance.
You will find that the look she looks at you is different from the look she looks at others.
The look of eyes is focused, serious, and full of affection.
is like the look of Zixia Fairy looking at Supreme Treasure , clear, magical, and shining.
For you, she is willing to reject everyone's pursuit and favor;
For you, she is willing to streamline her social circle;
For you, she is willing to take the initiative to express her sincerity and care for you.
The difference between girls and boys is:
Falling in love with someone, girls will quickly distance themselves from all friends of the opposite sex; while boys don’t, boys will still maintain uninterrupted contact with the opposite sex.
Mitchell also wrote a sentence in "Gone with Gone":
"For the world, you are a person; but for a certain person, you are his whole world."
There are only two kinds of feelings in the eyes of girls: love and not love.
When she loves you, she only has you in her eyes, and you are her entire emotional world.
When she doesn't love you, no matter how hard the boy works or how much he gives, girls will show a cold and perfunctory attitude.
Love is passion, not love is indifference.
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When you, you have a strong desire to share
Psychology:
One of the important criteria for measuring the degree of relationship between two people is the desire to share.
Love relationships, friends relationships, and social relationships can all be judged through sharing.
When a girl falls in love with you, you will find that she seems to have endless things to say in front of you.
Girls who usually look quiet and silent are like opening a "talk box" in front of you.
Girls who usually smile when facing you can’t stop smiling.
takes the initiative to chat with you, actively share your life with you, and actively participate in your life.
desire to share is the sign that girls fall in love with you.
There is a concept in psychology called "self-exposed".
Simply put, it is:
Are you willing to show someone your most private and vulnerable side to him?
If you are willing, it means that you are full of security when you are with the other person and you trust him.
So, to determine whether a girl loves you deeply, it depends on whether she is willing to share the topic with you without reservation.
is with you, and she is willing to spend her time and life enthusiastically.
Just as Ji De wrote in " Food in the World ":
"My love is consumed on many wonderful things, I keep burning for them, and those things are dazzling."
We were originally ordinary, but because of the emergence of love, we also become dazzling.
Today's topic: Have you ever encountered such love like
?
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