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As long as two people truly love each other, there are so many obstacles in the world that they cannot be separated from each other.
A person who can make you part without nostalgia is actually not as important in your heart as you imagined.
The root of pain in love is not quarrel with your beloved, but the resolute departure and helplessness when facing a loved one.
The best self-comfort for those who have no results is just a saying that "it has been enough before."
sigh! Alas!
If it can last forever, who would be willing to have it before?
is not as good as saying that it has enough to have it before, but knowing that there is no result, it is more appropriate to accept the status quo.
If you can't last forever, you'd rather have never happened!
If you can start over, if you know there is no result, that seemingly "enough" past that once had is probably a half-way pass by that too many people would not choose.
Once had it, it was the most beautiful pain in memory, and it was also the root cause of the inability to live in the present.
I don’t know how many people are, and they never forget a past relationship, making life now messy and unable to understand.
For those who have no results in love, some people say that they cannot be married and can be friends with each other for life. In fact, how can the person you have loved be "friends"?
Love people after they are separated and still be friends is nothing more than a person who clearly doesn’t love them, but he still irresponsibly touches the heart of the person he still loves deeply, and consumes the other person’s deep affection as a friend.
Only when men and women in the world have never felt a feeling of love can they communicate with each other reasonably in the name of true friends without breaking through reasonable boundaries.
High results are predicted. At the beginning of a relationship, even if you give your thoughts in the first place, you will inevitably change your mind subjectively because you don’t love enough in your subconscious mind.
After a relationship begins, if you cannot truly reach the end, there are almost very few people who can escape unscathed.
And anyone who has not yet separated after many breakups and reunions are mostly those who have "must be that" in love with each other.
Here, I would like to remind all the infatuated people:
If two people are truly in love, they will be together after they break off the connection!
The reasons are as follows. After reading it, it is inevitable to understand:
1: People who can't bear to miss will naturally take the initiative to contact
In love, there are always people who think that after the connection is broken, the people who truly love me will take the initiative for me. This idea is certainly true, but what if the other party thinks so too? Is it just a missed event?
Don't deny it! Must have missed it!
Because, in the process of deliberately and passive waiting, it is enough to prove that the efforts of each other to love each other have never loved themselves too much!
That’s right, everyone loves themselves the most, but when facing someone you don’t want to lose, how can you have time to take care of yourself?
If two people truly love each other, they cannot bear the longing! I won't care about who takes the initiative to contact whom.
is nothing more than that when you came to me, I just couldn't help but look for you!
Actions are fast and slow, but no one wasted time and rushed to the road to meet!
For two people who truly love each other, they are not afraid of having problems with each other, they are only afraid of losing each other.
Someone said:
I dare not take the initiative, I am afraid that the other party will reject me.
But, which one have you seen to get it? In other words, if you love each other deeply enough, how can you care about taking the initiative to contact each other? If you truly love each other, how could each other reject you?
Remember:
After the disconnection is disconnected, the person who takes the initiative to contact will always be the big winner! Don’t ask why, you will have the answer after doing it! Because, then you will know whether you should let go or not be separated from your beloved again!
As long as you truly love each other from the bottom of your heart, not just talk about it, you will definitely not be able to withstand the pain of breaking the connection.
2: Will reflect on yourself during the days of disconnection, and then sincerely "apologize"
A relationship has a problem and affects the choice between two people's separation and cooperation. No matter whose fault is the beginning of the problem, it must be the responsibility of the two people when they are disconnected.
If you really don’t want to lose it, if you really love each other, you will definitely realize that
Solving problems when encountering problems is far more important than arguing right or wrong, winning or losing.
Good feelings are all blessings accumulated from "talking well".
Although people are inevitably prone to extreme behavior when they are angry, it does not mean that they do not know how to reflect on themselves after such extreme emotions.
Some people say that two people who truly love each other will not quarrel or break off contact. In fact, this is not the case!
Even if you are truly in love, there will be differences and contradictions, and there will be disconnection. However, two people who truly love each other will not turn the disconnection into mutual separation.
Have you found it? Most of the two people who truly love each other have effectively warmed up their feelings after every emotion?
Have you found it?
All two people who truly recognize each other, after a disconnection, used the mentality of "lost and gained" to eliminate the next disconnection phenomenon, so that the relationship becomes more and more harmonious?
How much love two people will empathize when the other person’s passion comes, and will reflect on themselves during the process of disconnection - reflect on themselves at the same frequency.
Then, the two will find ways to find opportunities to communicate with each other and apologize sincerely.
Finally, sit down and solve the existing problems, differences and contradictions with a peaceful solution.
3: People who truly love each other will be together after going around and going around
Yes, there is no right for two people to interfere in their relationships, as long as they fall in love, they can be together.
However, in the unpredictable future, there are always some uncontrollable external factors hidden, which leads to two people in love, in the form of "breaking connection" to detect whether they are important.
Facts have proved that two people who truly love each other could not help but go to contact before the detection results appeared.
When the connection is disconnected, the active contact between the two people appears in the same frequency form, which can only explain: true love is undoubtedly!
True love, has nothing to do with material money or appearance characteristics, only cares about "no matter how good you are, just for you, you are you"!
For those objectively irresistible factors that affect each other's being together, when there is no reasonable solution between people who truly love each other, breaking up connection is a favorable "circumcision" method.
For example: parents disagree, such as job transfer...
The roundabout brief disconnection is to make two people who are online, a period of restoration. After the mood calms down, the two of them will at the same time "discuss" with the reasonable ideas they think are at the same time.
Anyway, the purpose is to be together. If there is really no way, you can only be together in a tough way.
Anyway, I no longer want to endure the pain of breaking the connection, and I don’t want to really miss the person I love because of these external factors.
People who truly love each other will miss each other the longer they are separated. If they don’t see each other for a day, it’s not enough to describe the feeling of missing each other.
In this world, not all the beauty you want can achieve your wish smoothly.
As the saying goes, good things will be harder.
If two people truly love each other, even if they have been disconnected for several months or years, they will use window period to wait for each other. Once we hug each other again, it will be the rest of our lives.
In real life, there are many people who seem to be "unforget about" the people they used to, but in fact they have already started a new emotional life. Even if you look for someone like
, don’t ask for it anymore!
Emotions are obsessed with cleanliness.
can accept disconnection, and can also accept that a person has had a relationship story before establishing a relationship with himself, but after he and himself, he has a newcomer and said "I never forget it". This is not true love, but the following two reasons:
① Consume your feelings and don't want to be responsible;
② Weigh the pros and cons and think you are the best.
When the relationship is mixed with some "impurities", don't look back if you love it any longer. Two people who truly love each other will keep the vacant window for the rest of their lives. That's why we will be together after going around in circles!
Everyone has negative emotions. When you are willing to put negative emotions aside, you can not be bound by it. In the end, it depends on whether you are willing to do that!
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Topic discussion: Is the person in front of you the one you once thought about spending the rest of your life? Leave what you want to say in the comment section below!
