As the current material life becomes better and better, the education level is getting higher and higher, the gap between the rich and the poor is getting bigger and bigger, and more and more people put their own interests first. This is understandable. After all, people are selfish, but excessive selfishness is actually the biggest impact on society. If no one talks about dedication, then society will definitely not develop. Similarly, marriage is the same!
Let’s first look at a set of data:
Huajing Industry Research Institute data shows that in 2021, there were 7.636 million marriage registrations nationwide in 2021, a decrease of 495,000 pairs from the previous year, a year-on-year decrease of 6.1%.
Throughout history, interest-centered marriages usually appear in marriages between wealthy and businessmen and political marriages. In this way, two families and two nations are bound through the bond of marriage, and then the purpose of friendship between the two parties is achieved.
. Such marriages are often considered to contribute to the nation, which is enough to show that such marriages are not happy for individuals.
However, marriages nowadays also show interest relations everywhere, and what's more, in this context, it's a bit difficult to reach the top. It's also true that more and more couples break up because of bride gifts, houses or other materials.
The era when men hope to exchange their sincere and less material contributions for women’s hearts is over. Women seem more realistic in choosing a partner, and material conditions are almost the primary issue.
This is very straightforward. Everyone knows that money is the hardest backer. Men want to keep money, while women want to change classes through marriage. This is a contradiction, so it is not surprising that marriage is difficult!
and the current deformed sexual liberation have changed the meaning and connotation of marriage in essence.
In my opinion, the meaning of marriage is sex and loyalty, both for men and women. Because of loyalty, men are willing to give their lover and trust their lover unconditionally. Because of loyalty, women are willing to manage their families for their lovers and pass on their family line.
But the current situation has changed. Under the induced by extreme feminism and bad culture, deformed sexual liberation has occurred in society.
Everyone knows that in the past, it was an era of fear of sexual change. Women easily talk about sex, while men dare not talk about sex. However, because of the prevalence of deformed sexual liberation, sex is no longer a taboo topic.
Regarding sex, for men, it is actually the first need to choose a spouse. In the current environment, men can still meet their sexual needs without marriage.
. The reason is the deformity of sexual liberation! Many people misunderstand sexual liberation for sexual openness, and women's deformed thoughts have created men's unscrupulousness!
Related statistics: 20.3% of college students have had intimate relationships between men and women, while 10.1% of female college students are pregnant!
In 2016, Peking University released a marriage report: the average age of first love born after 1995 is 12 years old, and the average age of first night is 17 years old.
. As time goes by, I am afraid that the first night and first love are younger!
A young couple was drinking coffee quietly in the corner of Starbucks . Seeing that there was no one around, they couldn't help but feel restless. First, kiss me forgot, then hug me forth.In the end, he took off his clothes regardless of neglect and started doing something indescribable...
This is just a microcosm of the change in sexual concepts. Hotels outside the school are crowded every holiday; bars and other places even have "lost your body" and picking up corpses; unspoken rules in the workplace and entertainment circles...
Such appearances are the consequences of sexual openness!
Let’s take a look at the arrest of the 91 master who was very popular the day before yesterday. Those women who were secretly photographed from students to white-collar workers, from young women to children’s mothers, which is enough to show that the current sexual liberation has become a deformity!
Under the dual pressure of traditional concepts and women's material demands, men's perception of marriage has changed, and cheating after marriage is a bottom line that men cannot touch. However, at the moment, cheating seems to be commonplace!
is exactly this, the essence of marriage no longer exists!
In this era when more men and fewer women are, appearance is justice, women who do not get married can temporarily make profits from "sexual liberation", and men can also exchange their due returns with smaller efforts. An ending like
is the result that egoists want the most. But what will society look like in the long run? And how can an individual spend his old age?
Maybe, our social education and value education really need to change!
Currently, schools and society put interests first and money as the only criterion for measuring personal abilities. Under this individual-centered egoistic education, how can we break the deadlock!
