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Text: Shili
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"Will a man abandon his wife when he is developed?" Two days ago, I saw this question on the Internet.
Some people say: "No matter whether you have money or not, men are prone to change their minds when "time, place, and people are in harmony", which is almost engraved in the genes."
Some people say: "The relationship between husband and wife is more like a cooperative relationship of interests. Whether to abandon a wife depends on how much money he has to spend. Whether a new person is worth it. Most men choose to cheat but not divorce because they are unable to give up their family business and children."
also some people say: "After a man is developed, he will basically not abandon his wife, but when a man is at the most downturn, if this woman mocks him for being incompetent every day, the result is not certain."
For these three answers, the author agrees with the third statement.
In fact, for a man, whether he will abandon his wife depends entirely on the character of the man and the happiness of his marriage.
If they have a good character, a happy marriage and a wife is worth it, then they will definitely not abandon their wives. If they feel that their marriage is unhappy and their wife is not worth it, then the result is not certain.
Mo Yan said, " I admire two kinds of people: women who lived hard lives with men when they were young, and men who lived good lives with women when they were rich."
deeply agrees with this.
For marriage, these two kinds of people are actually worthy of true love for a lifetime. These two kinds of people are hard to come by.
Once you encounter it, you should cherish it.
But in fact, most people don’t know how to cherish even if they encounter it.
They clearly have the best things, but they always go far and throw watermelons to pick up sesame .
Someone once asked the author a question: "Will a man get married after divorce and marry a beautiful wife?"
I thought about this question for a long time, and interviewed many men in the group, and then came up with three truths that were recognized by everyone.
Mr. Zhou, 52 years old, married: divorce and marrying a beautiful wife may not necessarily be better, maybe it will only be disappointed.
Mr. Zhou said that he regrets very much now. Only after a person is completely lost can he deserve the beauty he once had.
Because he is the scumbag who turns bad when he has money and abandons his wife and marrys a beautiful wife.
Mr. Zhou and his wife divorced not because of the unfortunate marriage, nor because his wife is not good to him.
But because he couldn't resist the temptation from the outside world, he became out of control after cheating, and he always compared the woman outside with his wife.
comparison, he found that his wife not only had a bad personality, but also was old and ugly. After his wife found out that she had cheated, she chose to divorce and then married her current wife.
When the divorce was filed, although his wife was in great pain, she still helped him and told the outside world that she divorced because of disagreement of values, and retained him a sense of decency.
When he first got married, Mr. Zhou was very satisfied because his current wife could indeed meet his expectations in all aspects.
But the good times didn't last long. The marriage went wrong in just one year. As Mr. Zhou learned more, he regretted more and more.
Because of the gentleness and virtuousness of my wife, they are all pretending.
She only asks for it, but does not give, and does not trust him. She always causes trouble to Mr. Zhou like a shrew, causing Mr. Zhou's career to plummet.
It was also at this time that Mr. Zhou truly regretted it and understood the kindness and dedication of his ex-wife.
In fact, as Mr. Zhou said, the next one may not necessarily be better, and maybe you will only regret it even more.
Their initial heartbeat and perfection are just based on the degree of mutual disagreement. When they understand each other, they will naturally be disappointed.
Mr. Li, 53 years old, divorced: no matter how many times he got married, he just repeated the same mistake.
Mr. Li said that he had divorced twice, and no matter who he married, he would only repeat the same mistakes in the future.
Mr. Li's first wife was his first love. They worked together through thick and thin, survived the most difficult times, and then moved towards success.
When he achieved success in his career, Mr. Li felt that his wife was not worthy of him, and thought that his wife had a bad personality, a bad appearance, and had no temperament.
So Mr. Li resolutely chose to divorce and married the young woman who looked gentle, virtuous and beautiful.
Mr. Li was really satisfied with the days when he first got married and thought that his choice was correct.
How could I have thought that this marriage ended without success after only three years.
Because in these three years, his perfect wife has gradually become the ex-wife he used to dislike, and has begun to become unkempt, rude, and even made him even more desperate.
so he chose to divorce again and was unwilling to enter the marriage again.
In Mr. Li's opinion, it will be the same as anyone who gets married, and it will become a boring ending.
In fact, marriage does not end in tragedy as Mr. Li said.
The reason why his marriage was tragic was because he did not meet the object he truly loved and was willing to tolerate and understand.
Love is the beauty of love, but marriage is a blushing life.
If you don’t know how to be satisfied, you will never be happy.
Mr. Huang, 54 years old, divorced: marrying a beautiful wife is actually causing trouble for yourself.
Mr. Huang said that since ancient times, many beauty has caused trouble. At that time, he was paralyzed by beauty and his reason was so he lost everything.
Those women who will get close to you because of money will leave you sooner or later with money.
When you don’t have absolute strength, marrying a beautiful wife will only cause trouble for yourself.
There is a joke on the Internet: "Don't marry a beautiful girl if you don't believe it. If you don't believe it, look at Wu Dalang . If you have money, be careful. If you don't believe it, look at Wang Baoqiang . It's the same with money and handsomeness. If you don't believe it, look at Jia Nailiang ."
For men, abandoning a bad wife and marrying a beautiful wife must be undesirable, because it will only put yourself in a crisis.
If a man does not know how to be content and cherish, then no matter how many times he marrys him, he will only end in misfortune.
Because of unsatisfied desire, it will only push him into the endless abyss.
Men must cherish the woman who accompanied you with her best youth when you are the least rich and the lowest.
Even if she is old, please don’t forget that when you were young, the other party gave you this way.
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