Introduction:
For women, marriage is the second life. Only by marrying the right person can you be happy after marriage, but there is only a mother-in-law who can be clear about right and wrong and knows how to feel sorry for herself is even more lucky. After all, the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a hurdle for women after marriage, and it is impossible to avoid it. If the mother-in-law is arrogant and unreasonable and likes to interfere with the affairs between the couple, then this marriage will be difficult to maintain stability. Let’s take a look at Ms. Chen’s experience below!
Ms. Chen said:
When I was in love with my husband, my mother-in-law showed a very enthusiastic look. Every time I went home with my husband, my mother-in-law would cook a lot of food. My mother-in-law often asked my husband to be kind to me in front of me. My mother-in-law also told me that if I marry, I would be equivalent to her daughter, and she would definitely be nice to me, because my mother-in-law said this, and I felt very moved. I felt that it was really not easy to meet a good mother-in-law, so I married my husband later.
When I got married to my husband, my mother-in-law kept crying with me. She said that the family couldn't give us too much money to get married. At that time, I really thought my mother-in-law's family had no money, so I went to beg my parents, hoping that my parents wouldn't have too many brides. Later, my parents only had a few thousand yuan brides.
After I got married to my husband, my mother-in-law changed her face. My mother-in-law asked me to do housework all day long. She said I was their daughter-in-law and it was natural for me to do housework. At that time, because I was already married, I couldn’t make too much trouble, so I could only grit my teeth and serve my husband’s family. I gave birth to a baby after
. After I gave birth, my mother-in-law said that my sister-in-law's child was still young and she wanted to help me take care of the child, so she couldn't take care of me during confinement. My mother-in-law did this really made me very angry. My sister-in-law had her parents-in-law and didn't need my mother-in-law to help take care of the child. My mother-in-law just didn't want to take care of me, so there was no way out later. I could only ask my confinement nanny to take care of me. It cost 10,000 yuan a month to hire a confinement nanny. At that time, I didn't have that much money, and my husband was unwilling to take out the money. My husband thought I was too pretentious and had to hire a nanny during confinement. Finally, I asked my friend to borrow money to hire a nanny.
After I was out of confinement, I took my children back to my parents' home to live. Half a year later, I divorced my husband because I felt that my husband was too cowardly and let his mother bully me. I never knew how to help me or feel sorry for me. I felt that it was too tiring to be with him.
Half a month after my husband divorced, my mother-in-law called me, and my mother-in-law said to me on the phone, "Daughter-in-law, I don't want to serve my daughter anymore. Come and pick me up. I think it's better to live with you." I found it funny when my mother-in-law said this, and then I said to my mother-in-law, "Auntie, I'm sorry, your son and I have divorced, I can't take care of you." Later, my mother-in-law asked me, what should her grandson do? I told her that my son must have followed me. Later, my mother-in-law cried. My mother-in-law said she knew she was wrong. My mother-in-law said she hoped I would remarry her son. She said that it is not easy to marry a wife now, and she doesn't have that much money to give her son a wife.
I have to say that my mother-in-law’s emotional intelligence is really low. At this time, she was still calculating the cost, and I hung up the phone later.
