I heard this sentence before: The reason why a person is in pain is because he thinks too much and does too little.
So when you want to do something, you should take action first, and slowly, everything will come naturally.
Recently read a small book, which touched me deeply. It was a book written by a Korean author called "I Want to Be a Person with Solid Roots". The author is Shin Mi-kyung. He is a promoter of daily power and advocates the indifferent daily minimalist .
In recent years, the concept of "spentance" has been very popular. Everyone has begun to clean up unnecessary things in their families and some work burdens, trying to make themselves more relaxed.
However, if a person's desire has not decreased and he still wants a lot of things, then he actually has not achieved the real reduction of the tax. Because he has to bear a lot of things psychologically. Everyone knows the principle of "If you want to win the title, you must bear the weight."
In the book "I Want to Be a Person with Solid Roots", I saw the author put forward some things about liberating the mind. I think it is closer to the concept of "sacrifice", but not exactly the same.
Each of us comes naked, and in the end we will go naked. We can’t take away all the gold, silver, treasures, fame and power in our lifetime. Why do we have to do things that we don’t like every day, and work hard to make money and climb up?
Indeed, some people will say, "In life, you must always pursue some pursuits", but most of us are actually ordinary people, and what we want is just "happiness and health".
I met a senior before. He is really smart and hardworking. He is a child from the countryside, so he is very simple. It can be said that before entering university, he had never seen the flower world in the city.
Perhaps, all boys like beautiful girls, and he is no exception. Even though his family is poor and not in line with the girl in the city, he is very fond of drinking water, not to mention that he is still a potential stock.
When we were in school, he worked part-time to earn money while studying hard and earned first-class scholarships every year. When we were taking the postgraduate entrance examination, he passed the hurdles and entered a big company. He was so tired every day that he was just like a top to make money, and wanted to buy a house in the city.
Later, he married his beloved girl and gave birth to a lively and cute child. Everything should develop in a good direction. After all, he survived. However, one night he was working overtime, he suddenly fell on his work station and never woke up again.
At this moment, his child will not call him "Dad", so he completely lost his father. Sometimes I wonder if he was given this opportunity again, would he work harder and take care of himself more?
In this book, the author said that we must make good money, but we must also have a good meal. Money cannot be made, but we must have the ability to be self-reliant and eat well, which is to be responsible for ourselves.
I have known since I was a child that I can achieve good results and get high scores occasionally by luck, but if I want to get high scores every time, I have to learn every knowledge point solidly. Only when the foundation is laid can my tree grow more lush.
If you are confused about your current life and if you don’t know how to embrace happiness, you might as well read this book. In this book, the author put forward 64 good habits that can change ourselves bit by bit and make us better.
Roman is not built in one day. Embrace your beautiful self and start with every little habit~
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