01. Marriage is what every woman yearns for. In their eyes, this is the best destination for love.
The highest level of being together is to be able to endure dull time, maintain a consistent pace, make progress and growth together, maintain the combination of hearts, and make family life more stable and lasting.
For example, of Fudan University said: "To make love lasting, it must be synchronized with the spirit in life. Love is the combination of the soul. When the heart leaves, love will disperse."
02. Getting with people requires skills. No matter how close the people around you are, you should pay attention to your speaking style. Don't hurt the closest people around you just because of your inadvertent words.
We want to maintain a wonderful marriage based on understanding and respect. So, we must always remember this. No matter how good the relationship between husband and wife is, they should not mention these words.
"Let's get divorced quickly." The other party thinks you just treat marriage as a joke.
When we are angry, we always blurt out without passing through our brains. Often what we say at this time is the easiest thing that others believe.
No matter how good the relationship is between husband and wife, don’t say to your partner “Let’s get divorced as soon as possible”. This makes it easy for the partner to take it seriously, and it will only make the other party feel that you are just treating marriage as a joke.
No matter who you get along with, be careful about the way you talk and do not hurt the people around you.
"Marrying (marrying) you is my last choice" hurts our relationship very much.
Everyone dreams of marrying the person they love, but after getting married, some people will say, "Marrying you is my last choice", which will hurt each other's feelings.
Don’t say these words easily to hurt the other party. Doing this will only cause harm to you, but it will make you feel uncomfortable in the other person, although you didn't say this word on purpose at the time.
We must control our emotions and face the people around us with a normal mind. After all, the other party is the person who has been with us for the rest of our lives, so we must treat them well.
"What did you do for this family?" I feel that you don't trust your partner
From the moment you choose to get married, you must be prepared to make contributions to your family. Even if you feel wronged, don't talk nonsense and hurt the other person's feelings.
In marriage, don't talk about things like "What did you do for this family?" will make your partner feel that you don't trust the other person and become increasingly disappointed.
Marriage is not a family. Don’t just say this just because we suffer a little grievance. We also have to look at the strengths of our partner. Maybe you don’t know that our partner has made a huge sacrifice behind our back.
3. Although it is a popular way of speaking now, that is, "mutual relative quality", this method is limited to friends around you who have good relationships with the same age. Of course, you must also grasp a certain degree and not hurt others.
Between couples, pay more attention to the way they speak. You should know what to say and don’t do things that hurt your family and your relationship. It's not worth it.
For family happiness, you must learn some speaking skills in marriage and don’t be so willful anymore, because you are not living alone now. If you have a family, you should consider your own family. 
