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blind date commonly known as meeting, and is one of the traditional Chinese wedding etiquettes. Continuing to this day, it has evolved into a way for young people to expand their social circles.
Although there are more and more ways to make friends in today's society, the probability of free love is getting less and less.
This strange phenomenon has bothered many people, especially those parents who are anxious to hold their grandchildren. Under the guidance of parents, blind dates have become a trend.
Although many young people are unwilling to go on blind dates, they can't resist their parents' strong offensive and can only compromise in the end.
, and it is not so easy to get out of singleness by relying on yourself, so more and more young people are beginning to pin their hopes on blind dates, hoping to gain the love they want through blind dates.
is right to rely on blind dates, but blind dates are not as simple as they seem. Blind dates can be said to be a comprehensive test. Anyone who fails to do a good job may lead to the failure of blind dates.
If you want to gain love through blind dates, you must first be familiar with the unspoken rules of blind dates and avoid making mistakes.
observation found that during blind dates, people who do not do the three things are often more likely to gain love.
Do not directly disclose your real income
Many people will first present their real income when they are on blind dates, hoping to impress someone by relying on their financial strength.
reader Xiao Liao is like this. Xiao Liao earns tens of thousands of yuan a month, and he feels good about himself, so every time he goes on a blind date, he will directly reveal his income.
Xiao Liao thought that income could add points to himself, but after several blind dates, he found that the reality was not what he thought.
He thought he had a good income, but the women who went on blind dates looked down on him at all. Someone even asked him directly: "I can buy any bag for tens of thousands. Are you sure you can support me?"
After several failure experiences, Xiao Liao no longer directly revealed his income. What he didn't expect was that after hiding his true income, he quickly gained love.
Frankly, a person’s income has a great impact on blind dates. No matter how high the income is, there will still be people looking down on it.
So, instead of letting your income affect your first impression, it is better to keep a sense of mystery and not reveal it too directly.
Xiao Liao’s real experience tells us that when you don’t directly reveal your true income during blind dates, you often have unexpected gains.
does not increase the requirements
The reason why many young people take the road of blind dates is also related to their high requirements. The excessive demands persuaded many people to withdraw, and they had no choice but to start a blind date.
But during the blind date, these people still stood at a high position as always and kept raising their requirements.
People who do this not only cannot get rid of the order, but may also scare away their true fate. This is what my friend Xiaozhou is like.
Because of my good personal conditions, Xiaozhou has a high vision and always wants to find a prince.
Every time she goes on a blind date, she puts her high requirements ahead. Finally, I met someone who was in good condition but the other party looked down on her at all.
Xiaozhou thinks that high requirements can highlight his high value, but he doesn't know that this will only make people look down on him. Even if someone who saw it right, she would be persuaded to give up by her high demands.
Blind date is a two-way choice, and both parties need to stand on an equal position to understand. If someone lifts himself too high, blind dates will only end in failure.
If you want to gain love through blind dates, you cannot raise your requirements during blind dates. Put your own requirements aside, and love will often come faster.
Don’t unkempt
Strictly speaking, blind date is a social behavior. Since it is social, you need to abide by certain social etiquette.
When meeting people, dressing properly is the basis. If you always unkempt your outfit, you will only lose all your good impressions and make people disgusted.
Reader Ms. Lin told me that she missed a man with particularly good conditions because she was unkempt.
Ms. Lin is very resistant to blind dates. Every time her parents ask her to go on blind dates, she never dressed up well, and sometimes even made a fool of herself.
Ms. Lin thought of using this method to fail in blind dates, but she did not expect to meet someone who made her very moved during the blind date.
Because she was ungrateful, she left a bad impression on the other party of rudeness, so she failed in the blind date.
She regretted it very much, but there was no regret in the world, so she could only suffer the consequences.
When going on a blind date, the minimum politeness is required. Even if you don’t dress up carefully, you shouldn’t be ungrateful.
unkemptness is not only a disrespect for others, but also a missed marriage for yourself. Only those who abide by blind date etiquette are more likely to gain love.
Conclusion: Reaping love through blind dates is actually a good choice. In real life, there are not many people who gain love through blind dates. The key to their success is that they abide by the etiquette of blind dates and do not act recklessly. If you also want to gain love during blind dates, then pay more attention to your words and deeds and don’t be stupid and do things that are not worth the loss.
