Marriage was once the first major event in life.
Now, not getting married has become the first major problem in society.
Why do you want to get married?
Marriage means the end of love, and not getting married means that love has not begun.
Marriage is the grave of love, and no marriage is the bone of love.
As long as you are a human being, you must face such a choice.
Getting married requires buying a house, making friends, having children, and repeating the lives of the previous generation.
Originally, no one didn't get married.
is a new problem that arises in people in the new era after entering the Internet, informatization is coming, digitalization is coming, and intelligence is coming, and new problems arise in people in the new era. If
is to be investigated, this is actually a common problem in society. This is not just in many places in the world.
Why don’t young people get married?
has many reasons. It is too difficult to get married and getting along with each other.
has a baby even more difficult, and it is super difficult to get old.
These are the problems that young people see from their ancestors. What they say is the reason, but what they don’t say is the sorrow. If you have to analyze it in depth, the real situation may include the following reasons.
1. The higher the education level, the lower the marriage rate.
This is a common phenomenon. People with low education levels have a high marriage rate.
Our education should indeed study this problem and find out its root cause.
In fact, anyone who is just in adolescence enters middle school and high school. The heavy learning pressure does have a significant psychological impact.
Then I went to college, graduate school, doctoral degree, and after I finished my studies, I was already very old and had already lost interest and confidence in getting married. I found various reasons to resolutely not get married.
2. Immerse yourself in the virtual world of the Internet and live a life that is free from reality.
is now a mobile game player, and screen sweeping has become an indispensable part of life.
, especially programmers who write code, animation designer , can completely swim in their own world, entertain themselves, satisfy themselves, and have no desires or desires.
3. Without youthful passion, life is just like this.
may be knowledge replaces spring heart, and perhaps reason replaces emotions.
When I think about the world being so bad, there are too many troublesome things. The flame of youth is hard to flourish. How can the cold world accommodate passion? It’s so hard to fall in love, but getting married is even more tragic.
4. This will be even more true in the future metaverse.
Everything is just a feeling. If you can get the same feeling without contacting it, there is no need to get married again.
If there are endless responsibilities and worries when getting married in reality, then there may be ten thousand different people's feelings about getting married in the metaverse, but there is no need to bear any responsibility or worry about it. Obviously, this is too tempting for young people.
5. The cruel reality makes it difficult to find a good job.
The impact of natural disasters on people is huge. If there is still a persistent plague, an unstoppable war, an unstoppable poverty, an unspeakable ideology , an unsatisfactory confrontation, an unstoppable unemployment, a cruel reality, and a sad world, it is difficult for you to get married?
6. The era of virtual desire
Time and space are actually empty. Everything is false, and all desires are just false. The real thing is not the real thing, it is like a dream bubble.
Modern people, material and physical desires gradually decrease, and may even gradually disappear in the future.
is to pursue spiritual enjoyment and rise in the spiritual realm.
From the perspective of human history, not getting married does not exist in this life. For example, Buddhism will resolutely not getting married.
In the sense of life, not getting married is not the only thing that exists today. For example, Da Vinci, Newton , Tesla and other extraordinary people often do not get married.
Or, they think that marriage, divorce, and earthly affairs are troubled.
Or, they believe that marriage is legal, and the law is dead, but controls the living.
or, they think, the more you manage, the harder you live, and the counterproductive it is.
Or, they and them want freedom of body and mind.
There is always a reason for anything.
Everything will have consequences.
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No-buy a house, the world is so big, you can live wherever you go.
2 is not friends, mobile games are crowded with the crowd, and friends are everywhere.
Three-no marriage, singleism, the most innocent and beautiful love is love that has never been loved.
It is difficult for me to have children, and I will never give birth to children and let him suffer.
, five, don’t consume, it’s almost Buddhist life.
No business is started, and the business is dead for life. The result is the same anyway, without a sense of direction.
7. It’s useless to think about it. Maybe it’s better to be as happy as a chicken or as happy as a pig.
