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The two families who were never related to each other were just new families formed directly through their respective children and became acquired relatives. In the final analysis, they were not a family. For this reason, they need to pay more attention to their sense of proportion and to do things more carefully. The quality of the relationship between the in-laws will have a positive or negative impact on the marriage of their children.
1. Don’t say that you are involved in each other’s family affairs
No matter how good the relationship is or how close you are, you need to be careful in your words and actions, and strive to not get involved in each other’s family affairs. After all, your family affairs belong to the internal affairs of your family. If you are involved in your family affairs, or your family affairs, any conflicts that may arise, big or small, the children will be in a dilemma. When in-laws are in daily life, they must be placed in a correct position and adjust their mentality. Although they can properly protect the interests of their children and consider them appropriately, if they can not get involved in family affairs, they will not get involved in family affairs. Even if they are out of good intentions, they may do bad things with good intentions.
2. Don’t say that you look down on your in-laws
The family living standards between in-laws are difficult to achieve the same. Even if you are not the closest to the same family, only if you are closer to the same family, there will be a relative gap between the rich and the poor. Therefore, during the conversation, the in-laws should not talk about sensitive topics, so that you can avoid hurting the self-esteem of the in-laws with unintentional words and avoid disputes. In fact, whether it is relatively poor or relatively rich, relatively rich in the in-laws, no in-laws should hurt others. In addition, in-laws should learn to praise the other party and recognize the achievements made by the other party's children. They will not protect their children in specific matters, nor do they claim that the other party's children are aligned with their children. In short, in-laws should not speak bad words or speak more good words, and the hidden dangers will be eliminated in the budding stage.
3. Don’t talk about slandering the in-laws
In-laws are not originally related to blood, so the relationship is both weak and fragile. If you tell outsiders that this is not good for the in-laws, that is not possible. No matter whether it is the in-laws’ shortcomings or the shortcomings of the in-laws, you will blurt out. If you meet an outsider who is not afraid of big trouble when watching the fun, it is very likely to directly or indirectly pass it to the ears of the in-laws on the basis of adding fuel to the fire, and even exaggerate it in front of the in-laws. Therefore, even small things that are not worth mentioning may cause an uproar. The relationship between the in-laws is not as good as before, and the marriage of the children is still difficult to survive alone.
Conclusion: In-laws strive to be cautious in their words and actions, and respect each other. There is room for them to be left during the walk. Since in-laws want to make their children's marriage happier, they need to take the overall situation into consideration anytime and anywhere.
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