People's behavior is dominated by various values, which can explain why some people spend money to buy houses, some people spend money to buy cars, and some people spend money to study. In your life, what do you think is most important to you determines your priority in doing things. Priority has long caused the difference between people. The most obvious thing is where time is spent?
1. Behavior (external)
A person’s values represent his position and viewpoint. There is no right or wrong value, only the difference between suitability or not. What you are willing to put in front is your values. Where most of a person's energy and money are spent represents the orientation of the person's value. Because a thousand people have thousands of faces, a thousand people have a thousand ideas, and a thousand ideas have a thousand Hamlets. Values that are not suitable for our own life goals will cause us to have conflicts and thus internal friction. Therefore, we need to adjust our value system to adapt to our life goals.
All your behaviors are instructions given by the concepts in your brain, and all behaviors reflect the way of thinking of your brain. Human behavior is caused by long-term ideas, so this is why habits are difficult to change. First of all, what should be changed is not habits but human ideas. If the concepts are changed, everything will be futile.
2. Faith (inside)
Belief is a person's growth light guides you to move forward all the way, and only you can experience your life path, and your experience determines your decision-making support. Nine out of ten unsatisfactory things about life ups and downs. Belief is the driving force that supports a person to walk out of the abyss of darkness. Human behavior is dominated by belief, and the results created by human beings are produced by behavior.
Really important decisions in life should be made by the "heart". The human brain only cooperates with the role of reasoning, logic, and thinking. The last step is to be done by the heart. Just like when Jack Ma created in Lakeside Garden, Alibaba , encountered such great resistance, and finally got out of the predicament with his own beliefs and achieved brilliant achievements. Because Jack Ma was sure that online shopping would affect people's lifestyles.