After reading the comic, these 8 words: "Either get married or break up", for those who have been talking about for 6, 8, or even 10 years, it is not ridiculous at all. The feelings of adults are so realistic.
Like the heroine in the comics, everyone's youth is limited. Before the age of 25, we can love each other without restraint, and enjoy the beauty of love. If we don't love, we can leave.
But after the age of twenty-five, everything becomes cautious and is always prone to gains and losses, because men and women at this age cannot afford to consume at all.
will have the same idea as the heroine in the comic: Either we get married or we break up.
This reminds me of someone, my cousin.
Cousin, some time ago, posted on his Moments, "I have loved you for 10 years, but I finally put on a wedding dress given by someone else!", with a photo of wearing a wedding dress. The post attracted many blessings and questions from relatives and friends. What impressed me the most is:
Many people asked her this: Why do you marry another person so soon? She answered this way after
, just like she wanted to own a home as soon as possible, and I no longer have the courage to start a new relationship. I am tired, and I am almost thirty years old, no longer have a girlish heart, and my future is bleak and unknown. I cannot bet on an uncertain person. I really can't afford to lose. I'm afraid I will lose. Then I will be picked and selected like leftovers in the supermarket and traded at a cheap price.
sounds a bit sad, but that's the reality.
So, my cousin lost the "person whom I have loved for a long time". It was not that she no longer loved her for ten years of love, but that she could not afford it. In the end, she broke up completely due to real problems.
"The person who truly loves you will have you in his future plan." This sentence is correct.
is just like the Liang Zhengxian and Wang Manni in the TV series "Thirty Only", under Liang Zhengxian's gentle and unremitting pursuit, Wang Manni finally stayed with him, but this love is not down-to-earth and insecure for Wang Manni.
Because after the two were together, Liang Zhengxian kept admitting their relationship in a negative way, especially when Wang Manni hinted that she was getting married, he pretended not to understand and avoided it.
later proved that Liang Zhengxian, the Sea King, had no plans to marry her at all. He only enjoyed the time of love and did not include Wang Manni in the rest of his life.
Of course, some people also say that it would be so romantic if you really want to fall in love for the rest of your life.
In fact, the most romantic thing in love should be to live together with responsibility for each other. I don’t want to get married, but I just don’t love you enough, and I don’t want to take on the responsibility for the marriage.
Really like someone, they will love them with a sense of responsibility, and they are people who can spend the rest of their lives together.
After a long time in love, we all understand that those who suddenly don’t want to accompany you halfway are not the right people. For those who don’t know how to cherish us, leaving is the best way out.
Some netizens who have been separated for several years left messages saying:
I wasted six or seven years of my youth on a person. At first, it was very painful. After a long time, I became indifferent. It was no big deal. Now, because of that relationship, I am now 33 years old and have not yet married. Now I want to find someone to live a good life with me. I don’t want to delay my age, the older I am.——Xiao Chen
Time can heal everything. People who used to like very much, thought they could go to the end, but they broke up. I haven’t seen each other for 6 years. I didn’t feel anything when I met a while ago, and I felt relieved. ——Xiao Wu
I regretted watching him, and I cried while laughing. I don't love him as much as before, but I still feel a little sad when I see it. Now he can't forget me, but I have put myself in my new arms and life is still there. Love doesn’t really fall in love with it for the rest of your life. Just be open-minded, and it’s also good to be a familiar stranger. ——Xiao Xiao
Not many people go to the end with their beloved person, like the stars, Xiong Dailin spent seven years of youth, but failed to get a marriage contract with Aaron Kwok ; Xie Na spent six years with Liu Ye , and finally married Zhang Jie ; Myolie Wu spent eight years with www.h.cn.
people will always grow up, Love is vain, no one can do without anyone. One day you no longer want a passionate love, but only want someone to cry with you and make trouble with you and spend the rest of your life together.
For this reason, when you and the other party really cannot go together for a long time, you must bravely jump out and say it clearly, don’t delay yourself, and don’t delay others.
Finally, I wish everyone happiness.
