1. Tu Lei said, "One hesitation, one betrayal, and one accident are enough to make all its sincerity wither. And the last thing left is to try our best to get rid of everything and let everything disappear."
love, this word is too heavy, it is the feeling that we need to work hard and sacrifice time to get.
Marriages with love are not necessarily happy, and marriages without love are definitely not happy.
It will be smooth sailing without a marriage. We often envy others' family happiness, but you never know how much effort they have put in behind them.
2. As the saying goes, it is normal for couples to quarrel at the bedside. It is normal for two people to live together, but it is unforgivable for a man to hurt his family.
Forgive a man is just a bottomless pit. You have been working hard to fill this hole, but you find that your efforts have been wasted.
Women must understand that there are only three things. As long as a man does the wrong thing that shakes his family, it is unforgivable, otherwise you will only live in pain.
treats marriage infidelity, betrays the family, and does not consider their own feelings, but just for his own enjoyment.
women really shouldn't be too stupid. In marriage, if a man is unfaithful to the marriage and betrays the family, his behavior is really unforgivable.
Faced with such a thing, a woman's forgiveness of a man will not make him grateful, and he may do something more shameless to hurt the family.
Because of such a man, he will only consider his own feelings. Loving himself is better than loving this family, and he will not give up more freedom for this family. In marriage, a man betrays his family and a woman can never forgive him.
Violence, beating a woman, violence will only bring you hell.
Live with a violent man, it is like planting a time bomb around you, worrying every day that he will explode and hurt himself and his family.
For men like women, it is unforgivable, because your forgiveness will only help others and bring you hell.
In marriage, as long as a woman is beaten, leave as soon as possible, otherwise every day will be a nightmare, which will leave you without hope of survival in life.
often lie. Men who are full of lies have big problems with their personalities and live in a false world.
lying is also a difference, one is a lie with good intentions, and the other is a deception of light. In marriage, women must know which lies are good intentions and which lies are deceitful.
If a man who often lies to you is full of lies, maybe it is his personality problem. How can you be happy to live with such a person?
What he brings you are all illusions, without a trace of sincerity, it is unforgivable, leaving is the right choice.
03. There are no perfect people in the world, we always make many mistakes, which is actually not terrible. As long as we know our mistakes and correct them, we can be forgiven.
However, in marriage, when a man touches the bottom line of marriage, he cannot be forgiven. Even if he forgives once, he will do it again. Then, no longer being soft-hearted and turning around and leaving is the greatest relief.
This is how love is. Once we are hurt, we will not deepen the wound, and it is better to let go of the pain. 
