In the eyes of the public, getting married should be the path that everyone should choose.
At a certain age, in his twenties or around thirty, he should quickly find someone to get married, hold a wedding with the other party, and under the witness of relatives and friends, he should enter the palace of marriage and form a small family.
Then, give birth to one or two children who belong to each other and continue each other's bloodline.
Speaking of which, this seems to be the way everyone should live, and it will appear more normal.
It is just in real life that we will find that many people are not so passionate about getting married. Even if they want to get married, at the age of marriage, even if they are past that age, they may not be able to meet a suitable person.
cannot meet, and some people may choose to settle down, but many people cannot do it at all.
So a question arises: whether it is time to get married, or not to settle down, whether it is more terrible to never get married for the rest of your life, or whether it is a mismart.
Some people say that it is even more miserable not to get married in your life.
Many people always think that this will seem a bit strange and will inevitably be pointed at by others.
In many people's eyes, they will also feel that such a life will look lonely, and living alone will look pitiful.
Especially as we get older, the people around us have entered the family and have less and less friends. Life will be even more boring and fun, as if everything is so lifeless.
When you are old, you don’t have children to accompany and take care of yourself, and you will take responsibility for your life. The days when you get old will appear even more embarrassing.
believes that if you get married, you will have a family, a family, someone will talk, someone will serve tea and water when you need it, someone will help you when you encounter difficulties, and give generously when you need money.
So, in order to look normal and more perfect, even if you don’t like it and have no feelings for the other person, you will still bow to reality. At a relatively young age, hurry up and find someone to get married.
Let yourself not become the one left behind, and let yourself not become a lonely elderly person when you grow old.
In order to achieve this goal, no matter how unhappy or unable to feel the other person's love, they always quarrel with each other, torture each other, and can tolerate each other, and they also feel that they have at least a complete home, which is quite good. Some people also think that it is even worse to make a mistake.
Compared to not getting married, some people think that marrying a wrong person will be very painful every day, which is even more unbearable.
When people are wrong, if they can’t get along with each other and are not good to themselves, then their mood every day will be really bad. Every morning, they will feel boring, and every night, they will feel hopeless.
will not want to get close to each other at all and live under the same roof as the other person. Whenever I think of each other, I feel very tired and uncomfortable. There is no way to continue living like
. Even if you can get divorced, it doesn’t seem good to become a divorced person. If you have children when you divorce, it will be even more difficult to make a choice.
Life is so long that many people can't tolerate living like this at all. Over time, their body and mind will often be very tired, and problems are prone to occur. On the contrary, living alone will feel more free, more comfortable, and more enjoyable.
Because I don’t care about other people’s opinions at all, and I don’t think marriage is really a must.
Compared to following the crowd, these people often have their own opinions and opinions about life and marriage.
has never been willing to compromise myself and not want to make do with anyone. In a short life, I just want to follow my heart and choose the person I really want to choose.
I have no regrets, so it is not scary.
In fact, if you never get married in your whole life, if you live in a poor life, you are very unhappy all day, and you cannot accept such facts, and you always feel that others are pointing fingers at you, and you look pitiful, then such a failure to get married will look quite terrible.
is in the eyes of others and in the eyes of yourself.
. If you are single, but enjoy this state very much, you never care about what others say about yourself. Whether from the material or spiritual level, you can be self-sufficient and live a very comfortable life. Of course, this will not seem sad.
Even if others think it, I actually know it very well, not.
got a wrong marriage, and even said that if you divorce in the future, the marriage would not be what you wanted from the beginning. After getting married, they would not be the same as each other and torture each other all day long. This is undoubtedly awful.
People and themselves around them will also feel that this is miserable.
However, in a marriage, I really wanted to marry the other party, and I had a sweet time for a while. Later, my relationship changed and I didn’t feel regretful after the divorce. I was able to let go and move on. Even if I was wrong, it was nothing.
Even if others think it is unfortunate to get married, in my opinion, everything is worth it. At least I have had it and loved it bravely. I was willing to marry me when I wanted to get married.
Never get married or get married in a wrong way in your life, which one is more terrible, and can never be generalized.
still depends on a person's specific situation and his own status.
No matter what the situation is, as long as you have no regrets and feel it is worth it, it is not terrible and it is worth it.
If you feel bored and painful, it is sad.
doesn’t matter what others think, how to say, what you really feel, whether you really want, is the most important thing.
In this life, people are not afraid of not getting married, nor are they afraid of getting a wrong marriage. They are afraid that when they have not chosen a marriage, they always feel that they should get married, even if it is a bad marriage. When they get a wrong marriage, they feel that they should not get married at the beginning and should always be alone.
always wants another kind of life, this is the most terrifying thing.
accepts everything and agrees with your choices, then everything is nothing.
text/Tan Meng
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