Yu Qin and Liu Shen met at a friend’s birthday party. The two added WeChat to each other and naturally got together.
What satisfies the parents on both sides is that they are both locals, but Liu Shen’s family is in the suburbs of the city and Yu Qin’s family is in the city center.
In order to work in the city, Liu Shen rented a house in the city, which was quite far from Yu Qin's family. He had to transfer twice every time he went back and forth.
At the beginning, Liu Shen would transfer the car every few days and spend more than an hour watching Yu Qin. The two of them had a hurry to have a meal or a movie and were going back.
The relationship between the two is getting deeper and deeper, and they feel that such a reunion is too short. In addition, Yu Qin's parents wanted to meet her daughter after she knew that her daughter was in love, so Yu Qin took Liu Shen home.
When we first met, Liu Shen was very polite and took good care of Yu Qin, which made Yu Qin's parents very satisfied.
After the two of them date again, Yu Qin would take Liu Shen back for dinner. Sometimes it was too late, and Yu Qin's mother would let him stay overnight. After
, Liu Shen naturally moved into Yu Qin's room, and Yu Qin's parents also acquiesced to this matter.
Yu Qin asked Liu Shen to cancel the rent of the house and move to her house to live there.
Yu Qin is an only child. She grew up being loved by her parents since she was a child. She didn't want to live with her mother-in-law at all. She wanted Liu Shen to live in the house first, and she might be able to continue living with her parents in the future.
Anyway, their family will definitely leave this big house in the city center for her in the future, and the house that Liu Shen’s family bought for him is far away.
After the two of them talked about marriage, Liu Shen's parents paid a down payment of 800,000 yuan, and only wrote Liu Shen's name. Yu Qin knew that they were afraid that the house would become property after marriage, so they bought it before getting married.
But Yu Qin didn't think it was anything, because she had never thought of greed for the man's house. Anyway, her parents' house would definitely be left to her in the future.
After buying the house, Liu Shen's family only paid a bride price of 30,000 yuan, which is very low in the local area. However, Yu Qin's parents thought that it was important for her to have a good life, so they gave her a dowry and spent 200,000 yuan to buy a shop, and the monthly rent could also be supplemented for the household expenses.
Although Liu Shen lives at Yu Qin's parents' home, the old couple never asks about young people's affairs, and they let them sleep until they wake up naturally on weekends.
But as soon as the new house was renovated, Liu Shen couldn't wait to move in because he thought about the world of two people even more.
Who knew that not long after moving over, Liu Shen had a big conflict with his neighbor. The reason was that the family had a daughter who had to practice piano every day, and Liu Shen couldn't sleep late on weekends.
Liu Shen argued with them several times, and later had a big fight, and the situation was incompatible. In addition, the house was only 80 square meters, so he wanted to sell it and buy another large one.
Yu Qin saw that Liu Shen was so unhappy with his neighbor, so she agreed to sell the house and moved back to her parents' home before finding a suitable house.
After selling the house, Liu Shen kept looking at the house. He wanted to buy a house worth more than 100 square meters, but the money in his hand was not enough. He was unwilling to buy those smaller ones, so he couldn't find a suitable one.
At this moment, Yu Qin became pregnant. She was not very concerned about buying a house. After all, the house Liu Shen bought would not have her name, and now she is pregnant, she doesn’t want to move out.
But Liu Shen became more and more impatient. Perhaps because he lived in Yue’s house every day, he could not invite friends to come, nor could he let his parents come here to live, which made him feel depressed.
On a day, Yu Qin's mother told her and Liu Shen that they spent 300,000 yuan to buy a house in the county town of their hometown. The climate there is cool and it is very suitable for the elderly to live in. They plan to move in until the summer and also retire there after retirement.
Liu Shen was unhappy when he heard this and said, why don’t you discuss with me first when buying a house? Where can you appreciate the house in the county town? Are you cheated? ?
Yu Qin quickly said that the environment in my hometown is good and the elderly care is good, and then stopped Liu Shen and refused to let him speak again.
After returning to the room, Liu Shen was furious and said to Yu Qin, "Your parents knew I wanted to buy a house, why did you buy another house silently?"
Yu Qin said, if you want to buy a house, what does it have to do with whether my parents want to buy a house? Do you still want them to pay? What's more, buying a house in a county is different from buying a house in the city.
Liu Shen said, I want to buy a house to make us live a better life? Why do your parents just want to support themselves, so selfish!
Yu Qin was also angry, what about your parents? Isn’t I just rushing to buy a house before getting married just because I’m afraid I will take advantage of it? The dowry was only 30,000 yuan, but my parents gave a dowry in a car and a shop as a dowry.
The two people quarreled and ended up leaving unhappily. After that, the house became a taboo and could never be mentioned again.
After the son was born, the family of three still lived in Yu Qin's mother's house. Because housing prices have been rising, Liu Shen's money is even less than enough.
Yu Qin gave her son to her parents after her maternity leave, so she went out to work and no longer cared about Liu Shen's house buying.
Because Liu Shen lives in Yue’s house, Liu Shen’s parents have to take their son back if they want to see their grandson, and they can’t stay overnight at home. Liu Shen feels like a son-in-law who comes to the house and wants to buy a house and move quickly.
Liu Shen began to make a clear hint in front of Yu Qin's parents that he wanted them to buy a house for him, but Yu Qin did not want to use her parents' pension money and stopped him every time.
And Yu Qin's parents also feel that there is no need to borrow money to buy a house. After all, there are still many places to spend money in the future. Anyway, the schools around their house are very good, and the grandson does not have to worry about going to school with them.
Liu Shen felt that Yu Qin's parents were able to raise the down payment for him, but they were unwilling to take out the money. Even if they had no money, they could sell the house in the county town, but they just didn't want to help.
So he became increasingly dissatisfied with Yu Qin's parents, and he was no longer as respectful to the old couple as before, and he quarreled with Yu Qin more and more.
Yu Qin felt that if this continues, the relationship between the two people will disappear sooner or later, because Liu Shen's heart is full of resentment.
In order for the two of them to stop becoming enemies, Yu Qin filed a divorce to Liu Shen. The money for selling the house was always in the hands of Liu Shen, and she didn't want it either. Her son was still young and naturally wanted to follow his mother.
Perhaps he felt that he could not get any advantage. Liu Shen readily agreed to the divorce. When he walked out of the Civil Affairs Bureau, Yu Qin felt relieved.
After this incident, Yu Qin felt that you must be cautious when getting married. It’s not that you don’t care about anything, he will know how to be grateful, on the contrary, he will gain more and more attention.
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