Lao Du was several years older than me, in his early forties, and was responsible for writing simple manuscripts such as information summary in the theory room.
Lao Du is a veteran in the ministry, and his catchphrase is "I am fighting for the iron camp and flowing soldiers, and I have sent away countless leaders."
Old Du’s wife is doing business in the provincial capital and is said to be very familiar with the officialdom. He often boasted: "I don't want to be an official, I have been a long time ago."
Lao Du said that his main responsibility in this life was to take good care of two women in the world, one was his wife and the other was his daughter. The former was the queen and the latter was the princess. He was willing to be a minister for the rest of his life. Therefore, he has the typical characteristics of a man with raking ears in Chengdu: except for making cows and horses for women, there is no more trouble in the world. Idle and lazy, play some mahjong, drink some wine, lie on a chair in summer, and bask in flowers and sun in winter...
When I was transferred from the deputy director of the business office to the director of the theory office, he directly made three rules for me: don’t call me for big materials, don’t call me for overtime, and don’t forget to have good things.
He often criticized me for being pedantic and naive. Of course, I understand his kindness. Therefore, although I often get angry because of his lack of attention in work, it did not affect the harmonious coexistence between the two.
When I told him that he would go to the venue with Yingzi this Saturday, I didn't take the sarcastic spirit he made to heart.
It was Saturday when Yingzi went to inspect the venue, but Juan'er and I had a fuss all night.
According to Juan'er, Yingzi invited me to inspect the venue for the weekend without reason. It would be strange if I had ulterior motives.
With my understanding of Yingzi, she just implemented the work arranged by the Minister of the Standing Committee in a timely manner. The reason why she invited me to go together was that first, this work itself is my responsibility and I needed to make the final decision; second, she simply responded kindly to my kindness at the Ministry of Affairs meeting that morning; third, it is not ruled out that she hoped to communicate with me, so that the estrangement will be ended. Everyone works together to do a good job in the office.
But Juan'er doesn't think so.
That day after get off work, Juan'er called and said that she would have to socialize outside again in the evening. I joked and told me about nonsense like "software of wolves and wine-blocking skills", so I rode my bike to pick up Tiantian, go home to cook, eat, tutor the children after finishing the homework assigned by the school, find out the information for making up for the courses in the provincial capital the next day, and talk to Tiantian about puberty topics.
is almost ten o'clock, and Juan'er still hasn't gone home.
Because the next day, I had to go to the provincial capital to make up for classes before dawn, Tiantian went to bed first.
I was lying on the bed reading idle books, waiting for Juan'er to go home.
It’s almost midnight, Juan'er is back with a mild frustration. He said he was singing with Wang Xiaofei and others, eating barbecue...
lying down after washing. While she was happy, I taught her the situation of the Ministry of Affairs in the morning. She said, I hope Yingzi can understand your intention. I quickly said, Yingzi probably understood. She asked, how do you know she understands?
So, I took the opportunity to tell her about Yingzi's voluntary invitation to me to go to the countryside for inspection together on Saturday. Unexpectedly, Juan'er, who was still kind to the face just now, suddenly became furious.
"No. We will send Tiantian to the provincial capital to study tomorrow."
"Please send it to you. I'll finish my work and come and meet you. Take Tiantian to Chunxi Road to for Western food in the evening."
"No, give it together."
"I have already agreed to the heroic figure. People can't speak without trust."
"Will you have nothing to say without trust."
"Will you say nothing without saying anything."
"Will you say nothing without saying anything."
"Will you say nothing without saying anything."
"Will you say nothing without saying anything."
"Will you say nothing without saying anything."
"Will you say nothing without saying anything."
"Will you say nothing without saying anything." Let me see who it is targeted. It is not worth it for a villain like Yingzi! "
" Shut up, I am very disgusted with your colleague who said this. "
" Then I am a villain."
" Then I specialize in managing villain."
" Following the agreed measures for couples to quarrel before marriage, I used my trump card to control villain, but the other party waved my hand to reconcile.
"Don't think about it". The other party has a firm attitude.
In the room, only the sound of time passing is left.
for a while, I took the initiative to calm down and said, "Juan'er, can we chat calmly?"
"Yes, let's sit up and chat."
She got up and got out of bed, wrapped her thick pajamas on her body, turned on the desk lamp, dragged the chair by the bedside, sat down at the edge of the bed, looked down at me and said, "Comrade Chen Deqiang, we should indeed have a good chat. What do you mean if you don’t accompany your wife and children to accompany other people’s wives on weekends? Are your thoughts impure? "
I was a little angry and didn't say anything.
She looked at my face and knew that I was angry. She reached out to touch my forehead and said softly, "I'm stopping you for your own good. I know you are an honest person. I'm worried that you will suffer. "
I held her hand and asked her: "You are not afraid that I will suffer losses, but you are jealous, right? "
Juan'er pulled out her hand, stood up, looked at me and said, "Am I jealous of her? Chen Deqiang, you are overestimating her. She is only three or five years younger than me. Is she as beautiful as me? Is it gentle to me? Do you have my patience? Is it good to you..."
" That's it. Our Juan'er is the most beautiful and best woman in the world. "
" that's good. Anyway, you have to send sweets with me tomorrow. No objection accepted. Let Yingzi go to the venue alone. hehe. "
" That won't work..."
"If you don't work, forget it..." Juan'er's anger came again.
" After talking for a long time, it was equivalent to not saying anything. "Juan'er was chatting, finding a quilt from the big wardrobe and holding it to another dormitory to sleep.
That night, the couple fell asleep in separate beds.
In my thirteen years of marriage and family life with Juan'er, she has always been kind, gentle and reasonable. In the past year, somehow, I always feel that she has gradually changed a little. Is it not confident? Or is it too confident? Is it not going to enter the period early at the age of 33? Or is it because she has not changed, but mine Have you changed your mood?
I have no doubt that Juan'er is loyal to me, to Tiantian, and to the family. For the sake of her children, she can sacrifice everything; for my so-called progress, she can put down her figure and do more housework and spend more money with her children... For me, it would be too unworthy to sacrifice her family for the so-called progress. I would rather not have such a future. With this bottom line thinking, I feel that I will not lose my direction when I advance and retreat properly. Thinking back, even if I am a mediocre man in the workplace like Lao Du, the family and beauty are a kind of Happiness.
I was lying in the bed, my thoughts were swaying, and I couldn't sleep.
My acquaintance and love came from college.
In my sophomore year, the local Youth League Committee organized a debate competition with the theme of " Five Lectures and Four Beauties ". My fellow villager Zhang Zhongxing successfully reached the final. As a cheerleader of the geology school, Director Liu and Huang Yujie took our 24-person team to help.
ht The ml0 competition was held in the auditorium of the Tourism College. The school’s female student volunteers wore tour guide uniforms and shuttled through the campus like butterflies, leading the way to the guests from each school.was Juan'er who led us from the boulevard to the auditorium. My beautiful figure, standard Mandarin , the model’s pace, the red bow tie in front of my neck, and the floating black hair all left a deep impression on me. A classmate on the playground saw us passing by and greeted the female student who led the way in Sichuan dialect : "Lin Juan'er. "
This student answered the other party in Sichuan dialect.
Huang Yujie, who was walking in the front, turned around and greeted me: Deqiang comes here, this female classmate is our fellow villager.
In another place, fellow villager is a simple friendship with a scent of earth. Once you meet by chance, your future direction has ten thousand possibilities.
For example, Lin Juaner and I. After the competition ended, the winning Zhang Zhongxing, cheerleader Huang Yujie and I were all left with the little tour guide. The contact information of fellow villagers.
The contact information of that era was nothing more than letters.
In reality, I was indeed not good at speaking. But in letters, I moved the mountains, rivers, sun and moon, and it was very happy. Perhaps it was the bright sunshine I sold in the letters that covered her, and we actually determined a romantic relationship before graduation.
Her hometown is in S County, her father was a township cadre, her mother was an elementary school teacher, and my parents were both farmers. In that era, such a family gap was very obvious.As our love moves towards reality, it is conceivable to encounter setbacks.
After graduation, she was successfully assigned to work at the Cultural and Tourism Bureau of her hometown county town. And as expected, I assigned to the deep mountains and forests of Ganzi Prefecture .
I followed the geological team to wander around the Kangba Plateau. The difficult and difficult working environment is hard to describe, but in my youth there are blue sky, white clouds, grasslands, cattle and sheep, tents, flying snow, bonfires, barley wine, ...
One year, Juan'er and I had no letter exchanges for about several months. A huge time and space gap lies in front of us. The old members of the geological team comforted me, and some people even planned to help me find a local Tibetan girl to be my wife... One day at the end of the year, Juan'er, with dusty faces on her face, appeared in the tent camp of our geological team.
20-year-old Juan'er traveled through Erlang Mountain and climbed over 300% of mountainous ; took a car, rode a horse, walked, and traveled thousands of miles, and found a geological team located in the vast mountains... All the details I will describe in detail in another work.
Originally, I did have the plan to devote my life to the mining industry in my motherland. But Juan'er's arrival changed my original intention. For Juan'er and Xiao Tiantian, I looked for minerals during the day and reviewed at night. Two years later, I was admitted to the Sichuan University graduate student. After graduation, S County was publicly recruiting talents, so I resigned from my public office and returned to S County. Since then, I have lived with Juaner and Tiantian’s family.
First went to work in the publicity department, but in fact he didn't have any motivation. Compared with the living and working conditions here, the living and working conditions are a world of difference from those in the deep mountains and forests, and I am very content.
Juan'er is not a cheesy woman, and she has not made any requests for me to be ambitious. It seems like everything is involuntary. After working for a year or two, you will unconsciously find that ordinary staff and even small leaders in the same department are inequality. The difference between the two is not all that the leaders have a car to drive, pay a few more money at the end of the year, and can report the accounts with dinner, etc. Instead, you will feel an indescribable resentment from the unit, friends, and society, a lament that your ideas cannot be displayed... Plus, Zhang Zhongxing and others who were selected are all making progress, forcing you to work hard and change.
Open my eyes and I was shocked. It was already dawn.
I quickly jumped out of bed, and hurriedly shouted Tiantian, Juan'er while dressing.
The room is surprisingly quiet.
The child’s room, Juan’er’s room, the doors are all open, and the quilts on the bed are neatly folded. There were no people in the toilet, living room, and dining room.
A note was pressed on the fountain pen on the coffee table. I picked it up and looked at it, and sighed in emotion.
Juan'er's message: Husband, please sleep for a while, I'll take Tiantian to drive away first. I was sorry last night, I got angry at you, it was me that I was wrong. Bad attitude. Apologize to you. The porridge, steamed buns and eggs are warmed up on the stove and the milk is in the refrigerator. You must eat and drink enough. If you go and do your business, if it is still early after you finish, you can directly drive to the provincial capital. You said you want to take our mother and mother to Western food.
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