Most boys have something in common: they are uncomfortable staying at their father-in-law’s and mother-in-law’s house and want to go home as soon as possible.
The more this happens, the more angry my wife becomes. Why is it that she doesn’t bother living in her in-laws’ house for so long? But if my husband is feeling like he is on pins and needles after one or two days?
There is no good reason for boys, they just think that it is not their own home, and it will feel uncomfortable to stay there.
In Tianjin, a woman took her husband back to her parents' home to visit relatives. When she saw her husband and father drinking, she talked about their future, and she felt very happy and took a video to share with netizens.
What the woman did not expect was that netizens did not envy them at all, and they also said bluntly that this had nothing to do with the happiness of the marriage.
The incident happened at a resident's house in Tianjin. The woman took her husband back to her parents' home to visit her parents. The whole family was having a happy time at the dinner table.
Especially when the husband and his father talk about everything, drink and clink glasses, talking about their future life, such as how many children they have to be, how to support their elderly care, etc.
The woman felt very pleased to see this scene because such a family atmosphere was exactly what she wanted.
You should know that many son-in-law and father-in-law have a gap. Although they are polite on the surface, they are actually because they are unfamiliar and don’t know what to say.
Fortunately, my husband is an exception, and it is very difficult to get along with my parents.
In theory, the relationship between the son-in-law and the father-in-law is harmonious and they get along like brothers. Everyone should be envious of it.
But most people’s first reaction is that there is nothing to envy, because the son-in-law is the son-in-law after all, and he cannot replace his son’s position.
A very simple question is, no matter how good the relationship between the son-in-law and the father-in-law is, the relationship between the husband and wife is broken. When the two plan to divorce, will they consider a good relationship with the father-in-law instead of divorce?
Obviously, the answer is no.
In reality, how many boys swear in front of their father-in-law and mother-in-law that they will only love the bride in their life and will not do things that will be sorry for her .
As a result, after a few years, I forgot all my vows and betrayed my wife.
So, everyone doesn’t envy women because how well the son-in-law and father-in-law get along has nothing to do with their marriage. My parents would rather have a stupid son-in-law than he would have a sweet talk and flirted with flowers outside.
The boy's point of view is that he hopes to get along with his father-in-law and mother-in-law, because this will reduce many worries.
The reason is very simple. If parents often interfere in their children's lives, it is a very unstable factor.
If the couple quarrel and quarrel, and the father-in-law will come to scold the son-in-law, this will only escalate the conflict between the couple, and even feel that the whole family is unreasonable.
By the same token, parents-in-law should not interfere too much in the lives of their daughter and daughter-in-law. It is best to help their daughter-in-law with a quarrel, so that such a family can be harmonious and stable.
is most afraid that his father-in-law and father-in-law feels sorry for his daughter. Even if his daughter does something wrong, he will cover up and indulge him. Even if the son-in-law doesn't say anything, he will be very dissatisfied.
As for staying at the home of my father-in-law and mother-in-law, I must not be at home.
The reason is very simple. The son-in-law does nothing and will be said to be lazy by his wife and mother-in-law, and he will know how to eat, drink and play. I want to help, but I don’t know what to do, and I’m afraid of helping the worse, so I’m very confused.
Another point is that many boys do not do housework at their own homes, but when they go to their father-in-law and mother-in-law's house, they have to be extremely diligent, which is like acting, and they are tired and tired.
Girls are different. When they get married, she is the hostess, so she naturally won’t feel strange about staying in “other people’s house”.
can only be said that it is not easy for boys. They must be good husbands and sons-in-laws, and make money to support their families... In fact, boys only want to be a "little boy" who cannot grow up.
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