"It's so fresh. He married a young black wife."
In 2014, Xie Xiaowei, who was already 41 years old, finally ushered in his happy day. When he brought his wife back to his hometown, neighbors and villagers gathered around to watch the fun, because Xie Xiaowei's wife is very special and the villagers have never seen her before. Xie Xiaowei's wife is named Nabuliya. She is only 23 years old this year, which is 18 years younger than Xie Xiaowei. Nabuliya is from Africa and is a beautiful black beauty. 40-year-old bachelor married a black girl. Such things are rare in the countryside in a century. How did these two seemingly unrelated people come together?
40s and cannot find a wife in Henan
Xie Xiaowei was born in 1973. His family has lived in a small village in Chengguan Town, Mengjin County, Henan Province for generations. Meng Xiaowei's family has always been in a difficult situation. He has not been to school for a few days. After graduating from elementary school, he started working to subsidize his family. Living a life of facing the loess and facing the sky for many years has made Xie Xiaowei increasingly unspeakable. In addition, he only wants to learn skills and make money all day long. He is still single at the age of 40. In the countryside, it is almost impossible to get a wife at such an age.
Xie Xiaowei's mother Li Xueyun is very anxious every day, but her son is not a person who can make girls happy. After talking to someone several times, the media ended up leaving it alone. He is almost fifty years old, but Xie Xiaowei seems to be in a hurry at all. But how can there be no man in the world who doesn’t want to marry a beautiful wife while he is young? In fact, Xie Xiaowei was also anxious, but instead of rushing to find someone to get married, what he wants more is a soul mate in . If he just lives together, what is the point of getting married? But his mother and the neighbors in the village didn't think so. Xie Xiaowei not only listened to his mother's nagging every day, but also listened to the rumors of his neighbors. If his mother hadn't been older and needed care, he would have wanted to leave this place immediately.
Leave your hometown and go to Uganda
In 2013, Xie Xiaowei really got the opportunity to leave his hometown. In which year, our country helped Uganda to carry out infrastructure construction, in addition to engineers, he also needed a large number of technical workers. Xie Xiaowei has spent most of his energy on studying technology for so many years. He is very in line with the conditions for recruiting workers, and his salary is also good. Xie Xiaowei decided to follow the engineering team to Uganda. After earning money, he can not only respect his mother, but also make plans for the future.
Uganda is located in eastern Africa, and it is neighboring countries such as Tanzania, Congo (DPRK) and other countries. Uganda is one of the least developed countries in the world. The living standards here are very poor, and the population literacy rate is less than 20%. After coming to Uganda, Xie Xiaowei felt it was very new and the people here were very friendly to the engineering team. It was here that Xie Xiaowei met his wife, a genuine Ugandan girl. The engineering team needs to be supported by a logistics team, many of which are hired by locals. Nabuliya likes China very much. This time the Chinese engineering team came, and she signed up to join the logistics team without hesitation and became a service staff member.
After the start of work, Xie Xiaowei focused on his work. When he was resting, he always sat alone in a cool place and stared blankly. Because he was not good at communicating with others, he himself didn't know what to do. But the others were not in this state. Everyone finally went abroad once and soon got together with the indigenous people. Although they were not good at speaking, they still got along very happily. Nabuliya is a very cheerful person. She often comes to the engineering team to play with people and listen to stories about China from them.
Until one day Nabuliya found that Xie Xiaowei was always alone. She thought Nabuliya might be homesick, so she ran over to comfort him with snacks.The two of them were speechless and could only communicate with their hands. Although they didn't understand what the other party was saying, Xie Xiaowei still felt the warmth from Nabuliya. Over the years, no outsider had really cared about his emotions, and he was also a very young girl with the other party. Since then, Nabuliya has often chatted with Xie Xiaowei, and their relationship has become better and better.
Love across the country
One night, Nabuliya suddenly made Xie Xiaowei out, and the two met by the lake under the starry sky. Nabuliya held a rose in her hand and expressed her feelings to Xie Xiaowei very seriously. Xie Xiaowei, who was suddenly confessed, was stunned. How could he, an old uncle from the countryside, be confessed by a young girl in her early 20s? I really found a young foreign girl. Will the people in the village laugh at me? Xie Xiaowei thought of a lot of things in an instant, but the only thing he didn't think about was that he didn't like Nabuliya. He had already accepted Nabuliya in his subconscious, but was just considering other external factors.
After intense ideological struggle, Xie Xiaowei decided to follow his true intentions. He agreed to Nabuliya and went to see Nabuliya's parents the next day. Nabuliya's parents were very happy to find a Chinese husband, so they completed their wedding in Uganda at the beginning of 2014. Not only that, the two people had a child, and they named the child "Niannian". After a while, the project was completed, and it was time for Xie Xiaowei to go home. He also had a mother in his 70s at home, so he couldn't not go back. Nabuliya naturally knew that one day she would follow Xie Xiaowei back to China. She said goodbye to her parents, and then resolutely boarded the plane.
After coming to China, Nabuliya became a "novel thing" in people's eyes, and everyone was very curious about this foreign black wife. Because of language barriers, Nabuliya's life is actually boring, but with Xie Xiaowei by her side every day, she feels that these difficulties are nothing. Xie Xiaowei's mother is the happiest person of all. She didn't expect that her son would find a young and beautiful foreign wife to come back when she went out to work. Listening to Nabuliya calling "Mom" in broken Henan dialect, Li Xueyun was already in her heart.
Now Xie Xiaowei and Nabuliya have grown peppercorns at home. One of them learns English and the other learns Chinese, and they live a very fulfilling life every day. In 2018, the two welcomed their second child. Nabuliya won the local Good Wife Award for her hard work and filial piety. There are no so many restrictions in love. As long as two people truly love each other, they can overcome all difficulties.
