A girl in the mountains has lived a poor life since she was a child, left-behind children, and almost shamed her parents since she was a child. With her own efforts, she has walked out of the mountains step by step and passed the exam to Central University for Nationalities .
But not long after the inspirational story, the girl started to take a break from school because she was pregnant and she married the barber in the village.
This surprised many people, and it was a pity for girls. However, their bright future was abandoned in marriage and having children. The marriage partner was still a barber who graduated from junior high school.
Compared with girls with high education, the barber profession is slightly inferior. Many people think they are not matched, but girls think it is nothing. Perhaps due to deep-rooted ideas, for girls' families, it is better to find a good partner than to study more, and it is better to marry better than to do a good job.
If we meet the familiar Zhang Guimei principal, we will definitely be criticized. How difficult it is for girls in the mountains to get into college. They can go to big cities to develop, but choose to stay in the mountains to get married and have children, and they will never get out of the mountains in their entire lives.
Maybe girls will feel full of happiness now and find a husband who can support themselves by relying on skills. Maybe their husband will tell her that they will go to school when they have a good child.
Girls also hope to return to school in such a day, but the trivial matters of life can easily make people lose their fighting spirit. Raising children, food, clothing and spending are all money. The income of the barber's husband may not be enough. It is impossible for girls to study again at this time.
Maybe girls will go out to work, let their children be left-behind children, move bricks in the city, do cool labor, and can't afford a toilet in the city. But his child is looking forward to his mother going home every night.
The barber's husband may one day change his mind and gradually get tired of the old and old. The girl's meager income and low education are not enough to support herself and her children. If she wants to study at this time, she must work several times of her efforts.
Many places are full of discrimination against girls. A friend gave birth to two girls because his mother-in-law wanted a son and refused to raise the girls, so she had to be taken by her mother. Girls’ status is slightly higher today, but in many places, they still feel that girls are not as good as boys. Girls don’t need to read a lot of books, just take care of their husbands and children at home.
Maybe although this girl has been admitted to a key university through her own efforts, her concept has not changed. She doesn’t want to go out, but just wants to follow the arrangements at home.
Maybe the barber got married in a hurry after only seeing each other a few times. It was all the orders of parents and the words of the matchmaker. A girl does not have her own thoughts and consciousness, maybe this is her life that she feels safe in this world.
has watched " Ode to Joy " Fan Shengmei also came out of her original family, came to the big city, struggled in the city, and had a good life. Although her family still didn't let her go, she had her own ideas, not being influenced by her hometown, and living out of herself.
There are also many people who come to big cities to work hard, but their hometowns are still rushing and trying every means to use them to get benefits and help their younger brother buy a house and pay off their debts. I have seen many girls work so hard and great, but my younger brothers rarely appreciate it, and many of them will take it for granted.
Many people feel that it is not worth it for girls. Maybe many people think so. The family thinks that the cost of going to college is high, so it is better to find a partner to live a down-to-earth life. Studying will be a long way to go. Getting married can also save a lot of money for the family.
The fate of a girl is in her own hands. She can do many things. As long as she has dreams, there is hope!
