A woman with a bad temper, who worked hard to become the chairman of a listed company in her thirties. Her hundreds of employees were respectful to her. Her behavior was decisive and decisive.
She rarely has a smile in front of others, and she is merciless to everyone.
However, she never said no to her ex-husband.
She mentioned her ex-husband's words to her confidant, and she was full of gratitude.
She and her ex-husband divorced very early. When the divorce was done, their son was only two years old, and the son had been living with his ex-husband. If infants and young children of this age do not have special circumstances, the law will generally be directly awarded to their mothers.
There is no cheating in the divorce, a series of bloody plots such as the fight between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. It was just that the two people's life philosophy and career plans were becoming increasingly different, and they gradually became incompatible and had to decide to separate.
The custody of the child was voluntarily given up.
She said: "I have a bad temper. The divorce happened to be a critical period of my career. I was in chaos every day when I handled my work. I could imagine how broken I was when I returned home and faced such a young son. I would definitely bring my bad emotions to my son. I didn't want him to be so young and faced with an irritable mother every day in a single parent environment. But my ex-husband is just the opposite. He is the most stable mood I have ever seen. A certain person never brings bad emotions to irrelevant people. Even if he handles the worst things in an orderly manner, I have even known him for so many years and have never seen him lose his temper. I believe that only he can bring the healthiest environment for his children to grow up."
Once, an Air China plane suddenly released a message before taking off, and the flight was cancelled, and the specific departure time could not be determined.
Some passengers have to go on business trips, some have to visit relatives, and some have to go to other places to participate in performances, and they are all anxious.
It was summer. Although the hall was full of air conditioning, the passengers' anxiety was infected with each other. Some people began to complain and ask about the departure time.
Soon, the hall was full of chattering voices, noisy, and several staff members stood in front to argue, but in the face of the inquiries, complaints and anger of many passengers, they did not give a specific answer, but only asked and asked three questions to calm everyone down. Later, they even shouted the passengers for disturbing order with emotion. The whole hall was filled with people and the atmosphere was tense, and the scene was about to get messy.
This is to squeeze out a young lady from the passengers. Standing at the moment of the staff, she is neither humble nor arrogant. She lists the airlines' failure to do the follow-up work for the cancellation of the flight, and gives suggestions for the food, accommodation and flight change of stranded passengers, which are clear and reasonable and well-founded. Several staff members were in disguise and had no choice but to resist.
After a while, the airport leader came forward and according to the woman's advice and combined with the actual situation, he gave all passengers the most appropriate solution.
is a hot search, everyone complains about the video. When they are angry, the young lady's orderly arguments made everyone admire them, and even the opposing gulf is convinced.
Later you will find that the most attractive thing about a person is not just how expensive luxury goods he is, nor is it a meticulous beauty, but the emotional stability of his emotions that can be kept calm no matter where he is in various situations.
Emotional stability is not that there is no emotion, but that there is a degree of joy, anger, sorrow, and happiness. You can be the master of emotions and not be controlled by emotions.
I have seen people who made mistakes because of a 50 cents fight. I have also seen couples who have a divorce due to the temperature of a glass of water.
After all, it is because emotions are too fluctuating and affecting reason.
Whether you are making friends or looking for a partner, you want a relatively peaceful and comfortable way to get along. If the other party can easily unable to control his emotions and is always hysterical, what is the meaning of getting along?
It is a kind of harm to our body and mind for a long time with an emotionally unstable person.
We are not the garbage can for anyone to have bad emotions. The greatest cultivation of an adult is to provide favorable emotional value to the people around him.
