saw a question online:
"What does it feel like to love someone?"
like the answer below very much:
"It seems like I suddenly have a weakness and suddenly have armor. Falling in love with someone, I have weaknesses from now on."
Perhaps when we get along with others, we will do our best to show our best side, thereby winning the other person's favor.
But love is different, because love makes people become emotional and impulsive.
Some shortcomings, even if he knows that they are shortcomings, he will be exposed in front of the person he loves deeply and is not controlled at all.
Especially the following three shortcomings, the more the man who loves you, the more he will show it in front of you.
jealous and stingy
Writer Schiller once said:
"Real love is dedicated, the field of love is very narrow, it is so narrow that it can only accommodate the survival of two people."
Men who are trapped in love will become particularly sensitive and very cautious.
Whenever you have a little intimate behavior with other opposite sex, or even hear you praise which opposite sex, he will be jealous and show great hostility, as if he is afraid that you will be snatched away.
TV series " Parents' Love " has a plot in which a painter goes to the island to sketch and is attracted by An Jie's temperament at a glance and makes An Jie a model.
was originally just to draw some portraits, but it completely broke the jealous jar of Jiang Defu. During that time, Jiang Defu not only spoke to An Jie with a lot of sour taste.
and also designed, confiscating the photos and portraits taken by the painter for An Jie.
In theory, Jiang Defu is the commander of a army and his mind must be very comparable.
Is this kind of man with a broad breast like a sea, who is small in front of An Jie but like a needle?
In fact, all Jiang Defu is jealous because of caring and deep love.
It is precisely because of the deep love that I don’t want anyone else to get close to you, I just want to have only myself in the other person’s heart.
A man who has moved true love is like a sentimental old man in his relationship, his emotions are ups and downs, and he is worried about gains and losses.
Once there is a little disturbance, he will be very energetic, because he will not be calm when dealing with others' favors for you.
is particularly clingy
I remembered Mr. Shi Tiesheng said:
"It's getting late, but I don't want to leave you for a moment, and I don't want to leave you for a moment, but it's getting late after all."
Really love someone, it's never enough.
Because only with you can make up for his inner loneliness, and because he can feel the warmest happiness when he is with you.
Friend Qiangzi can be said to be a particularly "independent" person. He always acts vigorously and decisively in everything he does.
Before he was in love, he had never seen anyone he had depended on, let alone saw him stick to whom he would stick to.
But after falling in love, he changed completely.
will send messages to his girlfriend during meals, and he will go to find his girlfriend when he has time. Even if he only has more than ten minutes to meet, he will run away.
I once teased him about this, love has turned him into a little man.
Not only was he not angry, he said with a happy face:
"There is no way, it's completely lost!"
love someone like this:
Every moment of you, I want to participate, because I missed the past, I can only cherish the present; I cherish every minute I spent together, because the rest of my life is too short and the affection is too long.
In life, if a man becomes particularly clingy to you, he always pesters you, and takes the initiative to look for you if he has some time.
Then it is not because he is very idle, but because only when he sees you in his heart is the best reward for him, and only when he is with you is his happiest thing.
becomes nagging
Zhang Mudi said:
"If you like it, you will easily fall into sadness, and you will not be able to let go of your mind. When it is bright, you will be destroyed and bright."
When there is really someone in your heart, you will have concern and concern. You will always feel that you can't take good care of yourself and unconsciously consider and check it for you.
It is because you think a lot for you that there will inevitably be more instructions, making you feel that he is like a mother!
I have seen a video online:
A man calls his girlfriend on a business trip, and only listens to the whole process of the man, and he is used to eating food; when it is cold, you should wear more clothes; when going out, don't lose all your money; when you go out, pay attention to taking license plate numbers, etc.
is very similar to an old father's instructions to his daughter for the first time on a long trip.
Listening to the man nagging, the girl was not impatient at all, but showed a sweet smile on her face.
To be honest, this picture is really beautiful and touching.
Not only because of the man's sincere care for women, but also the woman's understanding of men's love. Maybe this is a kind of rushing to love in two directions.
Zhou Guoping said:
"Love is an endless thought. There is love and care, and there seems to be no reason, almost nervous allergic. "
If a man always nags in front of you, he will always remind you and tell you in detail.
Then don't feel impatient, because if you are not the person who really cares about you, you won't want to say something to you more.
Love is really a very magical and touching thing.
It is because there is love in your heart that everything becomes different. A man has the above three shortcomings of you, which may make you feel immature.
But you should know that it is this immaturity that can better reflect his involuntary and uncontrollable affection for you.
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Author: Li Yu Weiliang, a post-90s contributor who can be rational and emotional, likes to express personal opinions in words, bringing you spiritual healing, emotional resolving, and life perception.
